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Ice Girl's public thoughts.

Me just sharing what comes to mind.
1 year ago. February 20, 2024 at 1:43 PM

 My best friend who lives in CT was visiting this past weekend.

He said something about the person I am dating that makes sense.  He said I have never been so complementary of any person before. 

I really believe this is a direct result of being sapiosexual. Since most people are of average intellect and creativity I find most people of average company. 

The person I am currently dating is the smartest woman I have ever dated by a long shot and even though I am also intelligent as I got older I started to get lazy with my intellectual pursuits.

  Junior chess champion

Played in Carnegie Hall

4 college degrees

Olympic caliber Martial artist 

 

Anything I put my mind to I became great at yet I was getting so depressed and bored with life the last few years I was beginning to think what's the point anymore. 

Currently me and my girlfriend have argued most about when I apply to medical programs I wanted to stay close and probably go to whatever the easiest one was to skate by having lost my desire to be the best. 

She refuses and told me if I don't do my best she wouldn't even want to be with me anymore. 

I think the thing that hurt me most was losing my grandma who I took care of when she was dying of cancer. 

She was always so excited whenever I would do or be excited by anything.

She was so proud of me yet once she expired the depression and lacking someone I truly loved in my corner like that just made me feel less energetic.

  Yet now my girlfriend wants me to do my best which is a tall ask since my best is usually unbelievably intense.

 

I am greatful she is in my life and it is for her not only being someone I look up to and admire but someone who pushes me to be the best I can be that causes me to hold her in the highest regard.


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