Ice Girl's public thoughts.

Reported a sexual harasser at work 🚑

Working an ambulance 🚑 you get close to your partners. Sharing intense and at time life and death moments naturally make tension which is in part relaxed by dark humor and bonds of friendship to get through.

However a male coworker since may had been sexually harassing me. Due to me for a time thinking he was a friend I told him politely that I perfer women and I have a girlfriend and to please never be sexually inappropriate again.

This bubbled up again in August when his girlfriend accused me of wanting him because she found his texts to me which were sexually inappropriate.

I then told him to chill the heck out and leave me alone he apologized for his behavior and the drama but then stated he would still love the honor of being ny friend.

I told him after all he has done that ship has saled I don't mind working with him but he needs to keep it professional or else I will have to go to management about his behavior and I am trying my best to avoid that because I don't want to risk his job I think he's a good person but perhaps a tad emotionally unstable and needs help due to his irrational anger.

Well two weeks later and he's making up issues that never happened trying to get me in trouble with the job. This man has multiple work write ups and tons of issues I been there a year and such a thing has never happened once.

However I'm nervous 🫦 now because I gotta worry he might show up one day and try and stab or shoot me for reporting him. This is America after all me going to management about his poor behavior now has me fearing that going to my job to save lives and help people could get me attacked.

I can't believe that turning him down has caused him to become totally unhinged and force me to do this.

I should have known that I couldn't help him since when he found out I liked magic as a kid and knew how to juggle he ended up teaching himself to juggle to try and impress me.

It was both sweet and ultimately so misguided. I am not into you dude it's not my fault I prefer women I was born this way why couldn't he just let me be.

Why did it have to come to this?

I wrote a letter to three managers about his behavior and now the cards will fall where they may. 😭