A slaves place

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Yes we have our fair share of shit heads dear.:(
I'm sorry for that.
Do feel free though to block and report if necessary.

Please stay tuned.
For once you get past the bull shitters.
We have some really great people on thecage.

For I have found this is more of a home and a family.
I hope you do as well.

FlitterFly..:):):)

Max Heathen​(other male) - Most the time those same ppl are only looking for a hook up and if ya called them out on their shit, they would back pedal call you names & claim your not a sub to deal with their own inadequacy. SSC means more than words & as a Sadist I understand time, trust, and thresholds can change but that's not for me to decide. If I want a pain whore, I should seek such, instead of provoking unknown trauma responses.
Personally I get males who send me messages telling me what they can do to me... oooh baby... it's a fucking avatar pic they are writing to, read the damn profile where it clearly states I'm a male. 😂😂

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Yes
When called out, they tuck tail and run.
Mr. Max 😆

chattel​(sub female) - True enough. A million different kinks exist, i have clearly (i think) stated mine in my profile

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Ya, No
They don't read our profile lol
And when they do.
Its like they only look at a Picture or read and hear what they want.
That is the why they are called insta lol
The ones who are worth a dime will shine through. Just keep looking g for those hidden gems.

master disaster​(dom male) - I've found it fascinating (and stupid) how many other dudes will completely ignore what someone is actually looking for. Like they're the exception.

I've seen things like: "ISO a soft pleasure domme, LOCAL, ages 20-30"

And see responses like "well I'm an 87 year old extreme sadist guy from Siberia!"

Like WTF lol

chattel​(sub female) - I get ALOT of emails from sadists for some reason even though i have low pain tolerance on my profile. This blog post finally happened after someone wrote me about being a "perfect fit" and the four things listed in his profile were things i have on my limits list.

Vacquero one​(dom male) - I hope you don’t leave the community. You do, in my opinion have your limits and kink laid out. Way to go sticking your boundaries. Respect.
*cowboy*

chattel​(sub female) - I have considered leaving, but not yet

TerraFirma - Can you send me a message and say hi? I know exactly that feeling, and I would love to just chat if you'd let me (but I'm not premium, so it won't let me initiate the messaging).

chattel​(sub female) - I am not premium either

TerraFirma - Oh no! I'll find a way to contact you:)

SirTOuTOO{~ 2u2 ~} - *
@Chattle - Those who would ask, state or demand things / services or activities beyond your (detailed) profile points - should just be ignored or blocked. To enter into 'servitude' requires a deep dedication ( & respect to be navigated) on both parties. From my personal perspective you are a delight to engage with, and hope you can find what you are looking for.
~ Could you please indicate what limits you would expect in regard to LOCATION and age of your MASTER.
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Thank you in advance.
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chattel​(sub female) - I am relocatable and have no age limit

Sir to the lost - Most "Dom's" have less value than Monopoly money. At least you can buy a piece of fake property with Monopoly money.

I have a friend who has been ghosted like 4 times this past year, AFTER giving in to their wishes - AFTER being fed a line of CRAP.

Nine chances out of ten, they're married, have someone shacked up with them, and get on these sites just to see some strange, whack off, then disappear. And, if not just disappearing immediately, give some piss poor excuse to why they will be cutting back on communication in the coming future - THEN disappear.

They should be subs - not Doms, they don't have the balls to be honest. They ruin the trust of subs for the true Doms.

If they read a profile (most apparently don't), and see they're not compatible - instead of putting their drama queen skirt on, just move on!!!!! Why cause drama?

Sir to the lost - And, I forgot to add.... my friend was deeply hurt emotionally by two of the so-called Doms, after leading her to believe they had a future, everything looked great. I seen the flags when she told me about some of the things said. She was totally wrapped up in them, with rose colored glasses. They tore her heart out. GUTLESS - that's all I have to say.
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