It was a simple decision. Tell him the truth about my kink. - He is a guy a used to work with that started pursuing me before I resigned. Different from most guys, but I didn’t know why. That was until now.
I took it on suggestion, from a female sub I met through a chat, to be open and honest with him about my kink. - See I was unsure if he would handle what I wanted to say. We hadn’t slept together or even had the chance yet. We had short encounters during shift change and many texts exchanged.
Last night I slipped ‘Sir’ into the conversation and he played the fool. He pretended it didn’t resonate with him...Then he brought up spanking in our conversation...and it all flowed freely.
He says he is into what I like..the spanking, hair pulling, kind of rough, some bondage....and other things...He said to bring the fire. His mouth is so dirty/filthy that if someone else may have said things to me, I may have been offended....I loved it!
I told him how I thought a kit him coming into work and taking me from behind over the desk, oh so many times...he said he k ew he should have done it. He said how he kept wanting to come into work, so many times, and just take me and start kissing me and taking me on. Oh I would have loved it.
Now it is unknown if we are casual and in an open thing, or if he is willing to close it off for now. I left the choice to him, but made it clear....I have been chatting with Dominants and I want the Dom/Sub dynamic and that I’m still exploring it and still new. He knows and I’m more nervous waiting for his decision more than telling him....
I also started some ‘play’ last night (well very early morning) and I loved it! I cannot wait for more.
Oh, did I forget to mention I have been asked on a couple dates by a couple guys? All these options at one time...
Unexpected....will let you know as things progress!