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The Ramblings of Dickhead Idealist

I'd like to see some a lot of the old ways return. When a slave dedicated themselves to their Master, and a sub to her Dom, and a Top took care of their bottems even when it didn't mean getting laid.... A lot of those old fashioned ideas will be found here.
2 years ago. January 27, 2022 at 12:55 PM

I have a question I'm not really sure how to phrase properly. I have found myself at a crossroads where I'm being forced by myself to question some things and I've found myself in a particular pickle. My biggest problem right now I think is a lack of proper terminology. I'm not saying it doesn't exist but simply that I have not found it or that I'm not understanding how it would fit my situation. I will stop beating arround the bush and give you a list of "symptoms" and I would appreciate any and all suggestions for things to research. 

 

Sex is rarely an emotional experience for me. I often find myself trying to force emotions into it because I feel like that's what I'm supposed to do but they rarely come in naturally. I have no issues forming romantic and very emotional attachments to people but sex is just not part of that. Now don't get me wrong I LOVE sex but it's a physical, logical experience... not an emotional one. This "issue" persists even with someone I am romantic and emotionally attached to. 

 

I have put things in quotes because I don't really like the words but I'm finding it difficult to describe the situation without using this terminology.. I don't think there is anything wrong with me or anything like that. I'm not suffering I just don't know what to call this and would like some assistance.

 

Thank you for your time feel free to ask anything  I'm an open book. And my PMs are also always open. Thanks guys 😘

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2 years ago
ribbonbaby​(sub female){Guarded} - I am not sure if this helps or not, but sex has never been emotional for me either 🤷🏼♀️ It is the logical culmination. It is also a physical and mental need. It also can be fun. But emotional? Not really?.. sorry, wish I could help.
2 years ago

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