MsDove(sub female){Eternal Pi}

TRUST THE MAGIC

I have been on The Cage ,"officially" since October 2020. I had spent a month to peruse before I got the nerve to join. I can't tell you how I felt when I clicked on the "submissive". Such a rush of relief to acknowledge who I am truly am. Since that time I have learned more, met people, had a couple of horrendous experiences (in retrospect, both could have been avoided if I knew what I was doing). In my naivete, I was hurt tremendously.

For three years, I've had a Dom who I am fully committed to, and we were deeply love. He continuely reminds me to "Trust The Magic" rather than leading with my analytical mind. A lesson I still need to learn. Hence, the title of my blog.

Blogging is a new thing for me. I still bring a newbies perspective (but slightly more weathered), complete with an AARP card and 50+ years of a Vanilla lifestyle. Perhaps a little late out the gate (God, I wish I had that 20-year-old body!), but if not now, when? So here goes...

About your dick pick, an unbiased review

8 months ago. March 12, 2024 at 6:04 AM

Enjoy.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1566668623904695?s=yWDuG2&fs=e&mibextid=Nif5oz

😘

Seriously folks, where is Emily Post?

1 year ago. September 23, 2023 at 8:10 PM

I found this in my drafts. It's from a year ago. The reference to meeting is old. But the content is still relevant:

I am so disappointed that so many people choose to block rather than have a conversation. Yes, if someone is harassing or otherwise inappropriate, by all means block. The aforementioned "dick" pic is always a candidate.

But the cornerstone of any healthy D/s relationship is honest communication. Why not practice it? Every contact does not need to turn into relationship. There is also the concept of friendships and support systems. Conversations don't always need to translate into a D/s commitment.

Our most recent connection just blocked us. I had actually met her for lunch last weekend. I think a brave move for both of us. It was kind of awkward. No one's fault. This was new territory for both of us. Afterwards, our communication was a bit convoluted. She blocked us.

I don't know if this could have ever turned out to be a D/s relationship, but with similar interests, friendship would have been nice.

D/s relationships are all about respect. Why are so many people not able to display simple courtesy in even that most trivial of communications?

Please don't say "respect is earned"... this "prove it to me" attitude only belittles you.

Basic respect should exist in all communications. Respect is something that can be built upon or lost.

This is for the fellas...

1 year ago. September 23, 2023 at 7:42 PM

I don't post often, but when I do, it's a public service announcement:

https://www.facebook.com/reel/6582440001862808?s=yWDuG2&fs=e&mibextid=Nif5oz

Your welcome.

Today, I lean in...

2 years ago. December 7, 2021 at 8:45 AM

Today, I lean in.
I lean into the fear.
I lean past the doubts.
I lean towards the good.
I lean in with Love.
I lean with the light.
I lean in and create possibility.
So it is. ❤

I wrote this a year ago. In a moment when I felt all things were possible. I decided that I would not let any opportunities go by and that I would say "yes" to what appears. Who would have thought that I would create more than just possibilities?

One year later, I am fully and deeply in love. I have a Dominant who is allowing my submissive self to emerge as I, we, go deeper and deeper into our D/s experience. I had thought I submitted him to him months ago (and I had), but as we continue to delve deeper, we seem to organically reach new places, emotionally and physically, that I didn't know existed.

I have reached a place where the words "I belong to you" really reasonate within me. I am not saying it to please him. I am saying it because it is so real for me. I feel a part of him. It feels right. I am deeply content.

His phrase to me, as I continually try to analyze, is "trust the magic."

Yes, Master, I do trust the magic. I love you.