TRUST THE MAGIC

My Dom and I had an interesting experience while beginning conversations with a potential sub (we are looking for a female sub to join us).

We communicated on the Cage for a bit and switched to email. We became suspicious because things just weren't lining up. She gave us her supposed Facebook page... the city where she lived didn't remotely match her Cage profile (who knew some people can read maps?). OK, people on the Cage don't always post their real locations. Where she apparently works is either 3 or 5 hour trip each way from where she lives. OK, not sure about this, kinda odd. Her job is an in-person job, if that information is even true. Then her written English was becoming more and more broken. Hmmmm. I asked her via the Cage if she would verify herself (BTW: It only costs $6.00 and is super easy to do). At the same time my Dom received a request from her for his ID (ya, sure, great idea... BTW, that's sarcasm). I found the picture "she" posted on her Cage profile on multiple escort and sex for hire sites (like hundreds). Seriously gang, you can Google any photograph, don't post your face!

Anyways, her response to my request to verify was to block both of us immediately. Question answered.

Thank you Cage for adding the Verify feature.

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Enjoy.

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I found this in my drafts. It's from a year ago. The reference to meeting is old. But the content is still relevant:

I am so disappointed that so many people choose to block rather than have a conversation. Yes, if someone is harassing or otherwise inappropriate, by all means block. The aforementioned "dick" pic is always a candidate.

But the cornerstone of any healthy D/s relationship is honest communication. Why not practice it? Every contact does not need to turn into relationship. There is also the concept of friendships and support systems. Conversations don't always need to translate into a D/s commitment.

Our most recent connection just blocked us. I had actually met her for lunch last weekend. I think a brave move for both of us. It was kind of awkward. No one's fault. This was new territory for both of us. Afterwards, our communication was a bit convoluted. She blocked us. 

I don't know if this could have ever turned out to be a D/s relationship, but with similar interests, friendship would have been nice.

D/s relationships are all about respect. Why are so many people not able to display simple courtesy in even that most trivial of communications?

Please don't say "respect is earned"... this "prove it to me" attitude only belittles you. 

Basic respect should exist in all communications. Respect is something that can be built upon or lost.

I don't post often, but when I do, it's a public service announcement:

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Your welcome.

Today, I lean in.
I lean into the fear.
I lean past the doubts.
I lean towards the good. 
I lean in with Love.
I lean with the light.
I lean in and create possibility.
So it is. ❤

I wrote this a year ago. In a moment when I felt all things were possible. I decided that I would not let any opportunities go by and that I would say "yes" to what appears. Who would have thought that I would create more than just possibilities?

One year later, I am fully and deeply in love. I have a Dominant who is allowing my submissive self to emerge as I, we, go deeper and deeper into our D/s experience. I had thought I submitted him to him months ago (and I had), but as we continue to delve deeper, we seem to organically reach new places, emotionally and physically, that I didn't know existed. 

I have reached a place where the words "I belong to you" really reasonate within me. I am not saying it to please him. I am saying it because it is so real for me. I feel a part of him. It feels right. I am deeply content. 

His phrase to me, as I continually try to analyze, is "trust the magic." 

Yes, Master, I do trust the magic. I love you.