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2 years ago. February 21, 2022 at 2:35 PM

I'm wondering .... What are your thoughts on this? 

 

Ironhand​(dom male){Owner} - I agree with the sentiment. Man are naturally aggressive and should pursue what it is they seek. Unfortunately, modern society has attempted to shame men into being recalcitrant in this endeavor.
2 years ago
CSI - Agree with Ironhand. Although men should not have to do all of the work. IF they are interested, they will show it. And they can feel if we are chasing, desperate, waiting, or expecting something from them. They will do what they want and step up for those that they choose to. It took a long time for me to learn this and to think "he will let me know if he is interested" rather than "maybe he forgot about me" or "let me send him message so he thinks of me" or "if I just keep being in his face and jumping up and down and waving my arms, obviously he is going to see how great I am and choose me because I am right here and making it so busy and overwhelming." Not the best way to get and keep a mate :(
2 years ago
Master13​(dom male){MajesticLy} - Agreed on the balance and yes agree the Dom should pursue and open the doors
2 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Completely agree and also echo with the others above. A women should also show and put in the effort into the relationship and reciprocate the same interest. It takes two to make a relationship work. However, in the essence of interest, a man WILL show a woman if he truly is by his actions.
2 years ago
A Cloud​(sub female){Owned} - I do not believe in the meme's statement because it is based on primitive concepts which only apply somewhat to our modern day context. It suggests men are made to pursue - but what about others who prefer to do it differently?! Or perhaps it may limit one's opportunities?!

My personal preference is to be pursued, hunted. But is that social conditioning? Primal sexuality? Or lack of confidence? And what about circumstance? I do not restrict myself that way. Sure, I am submissive, I am a woman who likes the game, the chase, but I believe there are a lot of ways to do the dance and make it exciting.
2 years ago
LatexHer​(dom male) - One of the other respondents to your question hit on a modern fact of life in these United States. Today's younger men have been hoodwinked by our society's teachings of late. Many are afraid to express themselves in the art of pursuit thus avoiding the possibility of rejection! Today's more docile men are not the strong, outgoing, confident men of the 50s and 60s. Instead of boys to men, many suffer from men to boys syndrome! Unable to dominate the situation.
I enjoy the freedom that women have acquired today. Once a woman signals interest, social senses kick in, and off we go! Not every encounter ends up in the bedroom or FUNgeon, but the certainty of the chase remains intact in this ole Dom!
2 years ago
sensualsubb​(sub female) - Thank you kindly for your feedback!! All valid points. I like to be chased but will always reciprocate if time and effort is made. Takes two of course. What I don't like is when my effort is not matched. It's disheartening and makes me feel like I'm being treated as an option. I will initiate contact if someone truly catches my interest.
2 years ago
Cochise{No} - If a man really wants/needs a woman in his life she should always be his first priority in making her happy, and keeping her healthy, safe, and sexually satisfied regardless of what it takes to accomplish those tasks. Just my humble opinion
2 years ago
SirTOuTOO​(dom male){~ 2u2 ~} - It is said,... that a woman runs in front of a man, (chasing her)... just fast enough for Him to catch Her.
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(Then take,.. what is His)
My addition.
1 year ago
TheHappyDom - I agree 100%
1 year ago

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