Focus
Focus and application are the cornerstones of the dynamic and essential if the connection is to grow and develop. Any wavering or lack of attention detracts from the power of the links between us.
Needless to say that will neither go unnoticed or unpunished.
Think about driving down a country lane at night, woods at either side. (The woods are lovely, dark and deep. But I have promises to keep. And miles to go before I sleep: I cannot resist a slice of Robert Frost!).
The lights of the car pierce the darkness, light the way and give a clear path, the light beam having boundaries, its centre giving direction and focus, moving around the bends and dips in the road accordingly. However the car moves the light beam remains the focus of my attention.
Focus: the main or central point of something, especially of attention or interest: a centre of activity, attraction, or attention: a point of concentration
1640s, "point of convergence," from Latin focus "hearth, fireplace"
Picking up the Latin, focus is where the warmth and heat sits in the connection.
A clear commitment to deliver, with dedication and enthusiasm, whatever is required of you, whenever it is required, with the solid intention of pleasing your Sir.
Focus is a two-way street however: my focus is upon moulding and training my Submissive as I go, making her the best she can be, both in the lifestyle but also supporting and directing in her career, interactions and involvement with others in the Vanilla world and in being a sounding board for her.
Her focus on me is to please and satisfy her Sir. My focus will involve challenge and pushing against boundaries where I feel that is beneficial for her, but not at the risk of extreme discomfort or unease.
Focus is immediate and is the music of our dance: this never switches off or quietens down.
