Key Words That Are Essential For My Submissive
The following for me really capture the power of the relationship between myself and my Submissive as they permeate through every part of our connection. They are cornerstones for the relationship and give certainty and structure.
Acceptance: knowing that The Rules, protocols and routines are set and that they will be there until Sir decides otherwise. This gives assurance when she is doubtful or troubled, knowing that Sir is there to guide and instruct.
Obedience: knowing that Sir’s Orders must be followed to the letter but also knowing that these are set for her development, growth and to make her the best Submissive that she can be.
Dedication: knowing that the focus on Sir is of paramount importance in all that she does, thinks and works towards. Family and work/career are very important alongside this but loyalty and commitment to Sir are essential.
Permission: knowing that Permission is needed where decisions need to be made. Again, this is all about Dedication and Obedience.
Control: knowing that Sir can direct behaviour, choices, physical position and Tasks to demonstrate that I am present even when there is physical distance between us. Control is essential, small but simple examples show this as does setting more difficult and challenging Tasks.
Reminders of the Five Words should not be necessary but form the basis of any Attitude Adjustment that may be required when things slip or when behaviour becomes wayward.
