We have been here and discuused this...
What makes up an acceptable conversation between 2 strangers on the internet on BDSM site?
Where do you draw the lines at getting know someone? What kind of questions are you willing to ask-answer?
One of my many lines in the sand--- Asking me what my pussy looks like after less than a day ( let me be more clear, less then 2hrs of actually typing time) of conversation. I was polite, when I said it was a disappointing question. (cause you know, I had hope) Doubling down on the gaslighting, and telling me to grow the fuck up.... well its very irritating that I let hope try to bloom again. My bad. We were done chatting the moment you sent the question.
I do not know or even claim to know what all the rules of what Dom sub or switch (or however you identify and choose to live ) are, but what I do know, is there is no social ettique or politeness these days. My little rant is not about changin your ways or offering you advice, that would fall on deaf ears.
No, if your going to ask sexually explict questions before you know my shoesize or what snacks I like... Don't bother starting a conversation with me. There are some who like to chit chat about that kind of thing, go find them. Let me be. I am firm believer that I can not learn to trust you with the dark the thoughts in my head, until I know what kind of person you are. Your words, tell me what what kind of person you are.
Mini tirade over. Back to the dock. A cool drink.... see what kind of fish are biting today.
