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The Phoenix - Eros' Rising

"Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”
5 days ago. March 24, 2024 at 3:57 PM

OMFG!!!

Well we had one. Not even a week into the vetting process and the true colors came out.

(no this person is not on the cage)

I am not sure what people are thinking sometimes but, I know that some are not in their right minds.

One thing that I will not tolerate during vetting is disrespect and finger pointing someone trying to drive a wedge between Hekate and I.  That shit doesn’t work with me.

Hekate and I talk and communicate. We have a conscious relationship that is open and raw. We own our own stuff and are very self aware. We communicate about everything. EVERYTHING!!!


We make this very clear up front. We do not hide this fact. So when someone comes in and thinks they can drive a wedge, it isn’t going to happen.  Not to mention, they need to be able to communicate openly. 
Everyone knows we are seeking. We aren’t hiding it. 
With that said, if you are going to want to speak with us about it, come with the correct intentions, be honest, be willing to be transparent. We will not be duped. 


1 week ago. March 17, 2024 at 4:44 PM


It is that time of year once again for Shamrocks and Shenanigans.









Here are a couple for the ladies. 




The next one - If you know, you know. 



For those that have no Irish in them, this is for you.


I want to thank you for viewing.

The following gratuities are accepted.

😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️

Thank you for playing!!

😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️😈☘️

 

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

 

 

And because I am more Scottish than Irish.

 

2 weeks ago. March 14, 2024 at 4:11 PM

Okay, I am going to go on a rant for a moment so that I can get this out of my system. Please bear with me.

If you are going to start talking with someone, be honest about your intentions. Be upfront about what you are looking for and stop the BS games. No one has time for that and no one wants to be involved in the drama. 

Learn to live consciously and be self aware. If you are here just to play stupid games to see how many people you can fuck with, then grow the fuck up. Playing mental games with people who did not consent makes you one of the biggest douche  bags out there.  Stop your shit!!

 

(Thank you for listening to my rant)

 

Here is a little something for all the douche bags out there.

 

https://youtube.com/shorts/CDaDr4rWjtU?si=dfLIoMA8AJQWwwNE

 

 

1 month ago. February 14, 2024 at 10:18 PM

As many of you get ready for a Valentine’s Dinner, 

I sit in a waiting room of a hospital waiting for Hekate to come out of surgery. 

Before you all start with the OMG what happened???,

This was a planned surgery that happened to fall on Valentine’s Day.  We have been waiting for a bit for it. (Part of the reason I have been absent)

None the less, instead of  doing the traditional thing, I will practice my patience for a bit longer. As if I have a choice. 🤣🤣

It also gave me some time to reflect while looking over Lake Superior.

I/we are not looking for your sympathy or anything along that line. What we would ask is that as each of you celebrates in your own way, that you remember that there are those out there that cannot, for whatever reason. 
Say a prayer for those who are fighting this Valentine’s Day. 
Also, remember to never take for granted what you have and to give thanks for it every chance you can. 

To each of you

 

~Eros❤️🖤❤️🖤

 


 

3 months ago. December 23, 2023 at 4:34 PM


As we are only 2 days out from Christmas, I thought I would hop on a little early to wish all who celebrate it a Very Merry Christmas. 
And to all of us a Very Merry Kinkmas

 

Here are some funny things I found online while doing some shopping  

And of course the Kinkmas Shenanigans




 

3 months ago. December 21, 2023 at 9:16 PM

Only the picture. It says enough.

IYKYK

 

3 months ago. December 20, 2023 at 1:20 AM

When you get what you want in your struggle for self, and the world makes you king for a day.

Just go to the mirror and look at yourself, and see what that man has to say.

For it isn’t your father or mother or spouse, whose judgment you must pass.

The person whose verdict counts most in your life, is the man staring back from the glass.

Some people might think you’re a “straight shooting chum”, and call you a “Wonderful Guy”.

But the man in the glass says “You’re only a bum.”, if you can’t look him straight in the eye.

He’s the fellow to please never mind all the rest, for he is with you clear to the end.

And you’ve passed your most dangerous test, if the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years, and get pats on the back as you pass.

But your final reward will be heartache and tears, if you have cheated The Man In The Glass.

~Author Unknown


3 months ago. December 2, 2023 at 11:42 PM

Done with the permission of the Management.

 

We all have our “things” within the kink scene that we like.  One thing that I think we can almost all agree on is music while playing.

With that said, I reached out to Admin here on the cage and received permission to setup a Spotify Playlist that can be shared with the community.

Disclaimer:  This is in no way run by the cage.  The cage is in no way responsible for the music on this playlist.

Now that that is out of the way, I have posted up a link that, we as a community, can pull up during kinky playtime, scenes, or just to listen to while doing whatever you may do while alone.😈😈

I have added some songs already but, this is group participation.  Please send me songs that you would like on the playlist either in comments or by message and I will be happy to add them.

Let us see where this may take us.

 

 

3 months ago. December 1, 2023 at 11:00 PM

So again I see that the predators are among us.

I am not talking about the Primal/prey types either.

Nope!!  These are the ones that want to come in and pretend that they have been in lifestyle for a while , yet there profile screams “I am a newbie and on the hunt for a woman or man that I can manipulate under the umbrella of BDSM.”

They try and tell people that you have known for a good while that “That person is no good for you.” or “Protectors are only there to manipulate you because they are predators and that’s what they do so they can hunt as many subs as they can.”🤣🤣

Obviously, they will give you some story of how they have been in lifestyle for 10 years and that they see it all the time and to trust them because they are right. 🤔

What these people fail to realize is that the community is pretty tight knit and that we all talk. We have all heard the same crap over and over again. (If I had a dollar for each time…)

I like to think that we, as a community, are very welcoming to those that are just coming in to the lifestyle. We don’t care about how much or little experience someone has.  It is okay to be humble and say that you don’t know what you don’t know.

What I think that most of us can’t / won’t tolerate is someone that comes in like they know everything about everything when we can all smell the BS like a Male dog can smell a bitch in heat. Anyone in this lifestyle knows that it would take multiple lifetimes to learn everything.

If you are new to BDSM, just say so and begin your journey the right way.  Do not be so eager that you fabricate who you are.  Again, we can see it.  Also, a lot of us live by certain principles which include the 4 pillars of Trust, Honesty, Respect, and Communication.

Last time for the people in the back. 
It is okay for you not to know what you don’t know. Honesty is better than creating something based in a lie. 😉

Now we return to our regularly scheduled programming of Fuckery and Debauchery. 

4 months ago. November 23, 2023 at 6:47 PM