The wannabe Dom thinks only of themselves,
while the Dominant thinks only of their submissive.
The wannabe sub thinks only of themselves,
while the submissive thinks only of their Dominant.
Dominance and submissiveness are both gifts!! The titles that are given are earned through Communication, Trust, and Consent.
I do not believe that a Dominant should require a submissive that he does not know to call him Sir, Master, or any other honorific unless otherwise instructed by their Dom. (Please insert Female honorifics if needed)
Dominants & submissives should know their worth and not freely give what has not been earned. Do not freely give what has not been earned!!
"If you do as He says, you will suffer. I don't know how, or when, but it will cost you. He will draw you in and tie you down, until all that you are is His."
I believe that all D/s relationships should always have respect and that each partner should work within the boundaries that have been discussed and agreed upon by both parties. This is why I believe in Contracts. This is a reminder to me, as a Dom, the boundaries of which I am allowed to work within and for my sub to know what the expectations are as well as the consequences that are involved.