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ErosRising{Hekate}
Age
52
About me
Married to and Dominant to Hekate
Dominant: (n) /damenent/ - One who guides and protects another.
My Name:
I have always been fascinated by Greek mythology. Eros, the Primordial Greek God of Love, represented desire, passion, and connection. In Ancient Greek, his name literally means desire. Because I find fulfillment in understanding, guiding, and fulfilling the desires of those I love, I adopted the name Eros. It is more than a screen name—it reflects who I am and how I approach relationships.
"Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”
I am a caring and passionate man who loves deeply, invests fully, and remains fiercely loyal to those within my circle and those with whom I share meaningful relationships. I believe strength is measured not by how much power one holds, but by how responsibly it is used.
I am a protector by nature and a guide by choice. My door is always open, my ear is always available, and I take pride in helping others find their footing when life becomes uncertain.
I lead with a soft heart and a firm hand. My kindness is intentional, my loyalty unwavering, and my strength reserved for those moments when it matters most.—offering compassion when it is needed, guidance when it is sought, and strength when it is required.
Kindness is one of my greatest strengths, but it should never be mistaken for weakness.
As Above, So Below.
To lead is to serve. To guide is to protect. To hold authority is to accept responsibility.
The standards I expect of others are the standards I first demand of myself.
My Name:
I have always been fascinated by Greek mythology. Eros, the Primordial Greek God of Love, represented desire, passion, and connection. In Ancient Greek, his name literally means desire. Because I find fulfillment in understanding, guiding, and fulfilling the desires of those I love, I adopted the name Eros. It is more than a screen name—it reflects who I am and how I approach relationships.
"Passion has overthrown tyrants and freed prisoners and slaves. Passion has brought justice where there was savagery. Passion has created freedom where there was nothing but fear. Passion has helped souls rise from the ashes of their horrible lives and build something better, stronger, more beautiful.”
I am a caring and passionate man who loves deeply, invests fully, and remains fiercely loyal to those within my circle and those with whom I share meaningful relationships. I believe strength is measured not by how much power one holds, but by how responsibly it is used.
I am a protector by nature and a guide by choice. My door is always open, my ear is always available, and I take pride in helping others find their footing when life becomes uncertain.
I lead with a soft heart and a firm hand. My kindness is intentional, my loyalty unwavering, and my strength reserved for those moments when it matters most.—offering compassion when it is needed, guidance when it is sought, and strength when it is required.
Kindness is one of my greatest strengths, but it should never be mistaken for weakness.
As Above, So Below.
To lead is to serve. To guide is to protect. To hold authority is to accept responsibility.
The standards I expect of others are the standards I first demand of myself.
BDSM and me
The wannabe Dom thinks only of themselves, while the Dominant thinks only of their submissive.
The wannabe sub thinks only of themselves, while the submissive thinks only of their Dominant.
To me, both Dominance and submission are gifts.
The titles we use—Sir, Master, Daddy, Mistress, Ma'am, Lady, Goddess, or any other honorific—should have meaning behind them. That meaning is built through communication, trust, respect, and consent.
I do not believe a Dominant should expect a submissive they do not know to immediately address them as Sir, Master, or any other title unless that has already been established within an existing dynamic. The same applies to female honorifics. Respect can be given freely, but authority and submission are earned.
I believe both Dominants and submissives should know their worth and value what they bring to a dynamic. A Dominant's leadership, protection, guidance, and authority are gifts. A submissive's trust, vulnerability, service, and surrender are gifts as well.
Neither should be given away carelessly.
The strongest dynamics are built when two people take the time to get to know one another, establish trust, communicate openly, and consciously choose to exchange power. When that happens, titles become more than words—they become symbols of a meaningful connection.
Know your worth. Do not freely give what has not been earned.
BDSM is not about taking power from another person. It is about creating a relationship where power, trust, vulnerability, and responsibility can be exchanged in ways that are meaningful, consensual, and deeply human.
I believe that every D/s relationship should be built on a foundation of mutual respect. Regardless of the roles we choose to embrace, both partners deserve to be heard, valued, and treated with dignity.
I also believe that both Dominants and submissives should operate within boundaries that have been openly discussed, negotiated, and agreed upon. Clear communication and informed consent are not obstacles to power exchange—they are what make it possible.
This is one of the reasons I believe in contracts. To me, a contract is not about control for control's sake. It is a tool for communication, accountability, and understanding. It serves as a reminder to me, as a Dominant, of the boundaries within which I have been entrusted to lead. It also provides clarity for my submissive regarding expectations, responsibilities, limits, and any agreed-upon consequences.
A well-crafted contract helps ensure that both partners are working from the same understanding and moving toward the same goals. It creates a framework where trust can grow, communication can remain open, and both people can feel secure within the dynamic they are building together.
For me, a D/s relationship is not about taking power. It is about being trusted with it.
We live by the 4 Pillars - Trust, Communication, Honesty, and Respect.
When 1 Pillar fails, Consent falls with it.
"People before protocol.
Trust before authority.
Consent before everything."
The wannabe sub thinks only of themselves, while the submissive thinks only of their Dominant.
To me, both Dominance and submission are gifts.
The titles we use—Sir, Master, Daddy, Mistress, Ma'am, Lady, Goddess, or any other honorific—should have meaning behind them. That meaning is built through communication, trust, respect, and consent.
I do not believe a Dominant should expect a submissive they do not know to immediately address them as Sir, Master, or any other title unless that has already been established within an existing dynamic. The same applies to female honorifics. Respect can be given freely, but authority and submission are earned.
I believe both Dominants and submissives should know their worth and value what they bring to a dynamic. A Dominant's leadership, protection, guidance, and authority are gifts. A submissive's trust, vulnerability, service, and surrender are gifts as well.
Neither should be given away carelessly.
The strongest dynamics are built when two people take the time to get to know one another, establish trust, communicate openly, and consciously choose to exchange power. When that happens, titles become more than words—they become symbols of a meaningful connection.
Know your worth. Do not freely give what has not been earned.
BDSM is not about taking power from another person. It is about creating a relationship where power, trust, vulnerability, and responsibility can be exchanged in ways that are meaningful, consensual, and deeply human.
I believe that every D/s relationship should be built on a foundation of mutual respect. Regardless of the roles we choose to embrace, both partners deserve to be heard, valued, and treated with dignity.
I also believe that both Dominants and submissives should operate within boundaries that have been openly discussed, negotiated, and agreed upon. Clear communication and informed consent are not obstacles to power exchange—they are what make it possible.
This is one of the reasons I believe in contracts. To me, a contract is not about control for control's sake. It is a tool for communication, accountability, and understanding. It serves as a reminder to me, as a Dominant, of the boundaries within which I have been entrusted to lead. It also provides clarity for my submissive regarding expectations, responsibilities, limits, and any agreed-upon consequences.
A well-crafted contract helps ensure that both partners are working from the same understanding and moving toward the same goals. It creates a framework where trust can grow, communication can remain open, and both people can feel secure within the dynamic they are building together.
For me, a D/s relationship is not about taking power. It is about being trusted with it.
We live by the 4 Pillars - Trust, Communication, Honesty, and Respect.
When 1 Pillar fails, Consent falls with it.
"People before protocol.
Trust before authority.
Consent before everything."
Limits
All Kink Related Limits are between Hekate and I as of right now.
What's new
5/31/26 - Completing my book
5/11/26 - Back after a long Hiatus
5/11/26 - Back after a long Hiatus
Member since
Jan 21, 2021
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