Can you be gentle and still be in this lifestyle?
I pride myself on being tough as nails. I like for not just Doms but anyone to fully be themselves around me. I usually can take it. But the oddest thing I found out about myself is that I read energy of a Dom. It keeps me understanding behavior patterns and what may or may not happen next. To do this, one has to be very sensitive & caring. But at what point is the sub being too sensitive and caring about a Dom? A Dom who wants full possession/access of you has too much control in that they have too much access to your heart. Do all Doms think walls are unnecessary? If so, why? Also, if a sub is required not to have walls up, shouldn't the Dom also be required to not have up walls?
Just Thinking Out Loud
~In search of Truth