I have read blog after blog. Honestly it feels all I do with my life is read others blogs.
My history is before the CAGE you couldn't find me on the net. Common name, no Facebook (ugh) living a life of solitude. I read some great kink blogs but most things I looked for were on Amazon. Walmart check out. That's it!
So the CAGE changed that. My interest in others has changed. I do enjoy a good blog to get to know someone. The how to message me. Don't go to point D. Start at point A. Don't message hi. Intrigue me. No DICK picks, this doesn't work for them but works for others. Man, so complicated.
See then the questions arise, how often does the DICK PICK WORK? It's still being done. Who's not saying no. Where's that blog? Why don't they advertise? More questions.
If all your messaging is hi, why doesn't that work. What if they are not shy but reserved? It's not a DICK PICK. Are they showing restraint? More questions.
Protocols, see now that's a question for the novice like me. Your an O.G. of the lifestyle. I read about protocols. I did, I want to use them. I desire to use them. I won't message a collared (taken) if I get a message I ask permission. Then they say it's fine, they know (no worries) But I read, wondering, questioning myself. The old guard said this is the way.
This is the way. Best line ever! Really that should be said everyday by everyone all the time. 😆
I genuinely want to know you. That's me! All the time. I want to have proper vetting. I will be respectful. That's me hopefully all the time. But that's not everyone is it. Some want to be degraded right away. So just say so. Put it out there. That's why we have profiles, blogs to get to know one another. Good or bad.
I believe the ghosting isn't always intentional. Life, new toys and everything in between happens. I don't think all went out of there way including myself to ghost anyone. When you have 5 minutes and someone new chimed in and you have one message to write, well I have to make a decision. I want to keep in touch with everyone. The messages pile up. They all sound like great people. Friendships are being made but this might be my next babygirl. What to do.
Holy moly I didn't know my brain had so much to say. Guess I'm not mysterious anymore. FUCK that was my go to move.
Back to my rambling. Collars..... you want one, mine is shiny. Come on and get you some😄 All jokes aside I'm reserving that for one. Maybe two at the most. That's me. You do you. The blogs about collars interest me. I have one for sale by owner. I can't help it and yes I take it seriously. I want a ceremony and all the stuff that goes with it but it would be a long time before I hand one out if ever. But you do you.
Thanks for reading, I started getting off topic so have a great day and may the kink be with you. This is the WAY!
