I recieved a nice message from someone, she was truly sweet. I just didn't understand what she was trying to say. It was a run on paragraph that I didn't understand or if there was a question.
I asked politely what her question was. Was there a question.Is she a slave, sub,pet, little. Profile lacked all the above.
I am fully aware of sub frenzy. There's even Dom frenzy. I have been their. If you haven't then I would believe that you want, need, desire it.
My simple advice is slow down (way down) With my limited experience I would request that you follow blogs that are as like minded as you. Even reach out to those writing them.
Here's the tricky part...wait for it....wait for it...read the replies. Yes those lovely or sometimes nasty or just agreeable replies. They give alot of insight as well. Those replies will tell you if that person is followed and even respected inside this community.
By the banter that takes place inside those replies give the details of that persons wit, intelligence and how they are when confronted.
Me, well I don't respond much so that would say I either don't follow through, am self centered, can't handle a disagreement or the truth is thank you for loves, responding but I'm still learning all the buttons
The very point I'm trying to make here is my online dominance difers to my IRL dominance. I realized this from those blogs, following insightful people and discovering that for myself. You should do the same.
Everyone should find out who they are before they go jumping into the deep end. Then inquire about your prospective other, there on someone's radar for better or worse.
Oh and be safe