The world according to meow

This writing is a shout out to someone I owe a lot of thanks to and care very much about. Hopefully it doesn’t come out as cheesy as I’m expecting it to haha. 

You know when you meet someone and there's some strange cosmic connection that makes you feel strangely comfortable around a complete stranger? 

I met someone who, regardless of the few short months since meeting, I consider to be a really good friend whom I wish to never lose. To be honest with you, when I first met the person and I jumped in I was scared. I have never considered jumping into anything without thinking through every possible situation as to what could go wrong and weighing the pros and cons on what I’m willing to give of myself in any form of relationship or circumstance. I’m so glad I did it though. Besides meeting someone who I trust fully and care for deeply, I’ve learned so much from them… more than I have let them know till now. He taught me that I don’t have to give up who I am or change myself to find a dominant that will take me in and care for me. I’ve learned how to be valued and how I want to be treated. I’ve learned how a man should treat me, can you believe that? I hardly could when I first thought about this, how could that happen? He taught me that I’m more than just my breasts and ass, and that if someone really wanted to they would try to get to know me. He means a lot more to me than I let off, as I do with most people which is probably one of my personal faults, but I’m glad he stuck through my awkward indifference and got to know me and I got to know him. He’s not my dominant but I hold him at the same level of respect, which says enough. I hope he meets someone who fulfils his needs both as a person and as a submissive. Someone who is is just as kind, caring, honest and compassionate as he is because he deserves the world. I know he would wish the same for me. He’s my bear and I’m his kitty. A friendship where you care for and learn from one another is very precious, cherish it.

 When it comes down to it, if you meet someone who you feel an automatic connection with, don’t fear it, accept it and enjoy it till the end. 

With love and cuddles,

Kitty 🐾

This writing can be applied to all genders of subs, however I am writing based on my experiences as a woman and as a submissive. I’m sure there are opposing feelings about what I am about to share... These are my own thoughts and there’s nothing wrong with either opinion if believed in by both parties in a relationship. 

So what I’ve decided to share with you all is that I am quite tired of being treated as less than. I’m a bad bitch, I have opinions, I have sass, I have self respect and it all works into one strong personality. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a super soft and squishy person, I have my insecurities, I can even be a bit shy at first, none of that takes away from who I am and allows someone to walk over me like I'm less than them. This is already a problem women face but also submissives. Everyone, not just me deserves respect and decency. Everyone includes both doms and subs. 

 I’m a submissive. I love to submit, it is a part of who I am... and not to mention it's extremely hot to have a dominant partner control you haha. Anyways, for me it takes a lot to submit to someone. I have trust issues, I am scared sometimes, but it’s not just that. A dom needs to EARN my respect, my loyalty, and my submission. Having someone submit to you is a PRIVILEGE not a right. I’ll submit to the person I believe has won over my trust, loyalty, respect, and who I deem is deserving. Just because you are a dominant it does not mean that you are put on a pedestal and are superior to anyone, let alone a submissive. Until you earn the submission of a sub, you are on the same level and there is mutual respect required. It does not mean that you deserve some magical level of respect that you did not earn. 

Listen, I’m not saying all doms are like this, many are not and everyone has their own reasons as to why they act certain ways. I have all kinds of respect for dominants. As much as it's a privilege for doms to receive the submission of their partner, it is also a privilege to receive the pleasures a dominant provides in allowing you to submit to them. Dominants take on a lot of responsibility over their submissives and it's truly an amazing role that should be noticed and appreciated. I’m sure there are submissives out there that enjoy an automatic authority presented by some dominants and if they both enjoy it that's great, all the happiness to you both! That is just not me. If I communicate to a dominant that this behaviour is not going to be tolerated, it doesn’t make me any less submissive. It means that I’m not going to put up with that attitude and that if you don’t like what I have to say I’m clearly not for you, don’t attack my personality or my position as a submissive. If you can’t handle a strong woman on the outside and a submissive little kitty behind closed doors then I’m not for you honey.

In summary, love yourself, respect yourself, respect others, and spread the love!

With love and cuddles,

- Kitty 🐾