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Fetishist's Journey and the new Drone.

Gay male 49, and been with my man for 26 years currently.
I have autism, am heavily into Gear (clothing) fetishes, BDSM, sex and orgasms.
My sex and gear addictions led me to cheat on my man many times over the years and I have had therapy which helped me straighten things out in my head.
My husband is now disabled and terminally ill, and has allowed me to indulge my needs and desires as long as I don’t cheat again.
I am converting our spare room into my own BDSM playroom which will be fully kitted out. I already have the gear, sling, chains, etc... and I have built a bondage style bed frame with tie-downs, and will make it a cage underneath.
My new 'drone' has arrived and taken up it's role to satisfy my sexual and fetish needs.
My 'drone' will always be fully clothed with appropriate accessories.
It's 'outfits' will include: bike leathers, flight suits/overalls, rubber gimp/pup outfits, motocross armoured gear, scally/chav (shiny trakkies), skinhead (bleachers and bomber jacket) , lycra running/cycling gear, and many more.
Accessories include (where appropriate), footwear, gloves, hats, harnesses, gags, hoods, cuffs, plugs, helmets, etc.....
3 years ago. February 28, 2021 at 4:09 PM

I kind of know what I want in my new bed, and I plan to build it myself from scratch.

I’m still trying to decide on the width - I want it like a padded bench similar to a massage table, but on braking castors so it can be moved about.  Storage space underneath for ancillaries and lots of eye plates for restraints to be attached.

I’ll always be fully dressed so the padding must be durable (think: wearing heavy motocross boots) and wipeable (for when I release my bladder).
I also need to be able to share it with my new sex toy, and he’ll be taller but slimmer than me, so maybe a drop-leaf at each side that will widen the top by so much each when deployed. Not quite sure yet.
I don’t want him falling on the floor and getting damaged.

I was thinking of making the bed 180cm long and 70 wide with the drop leaf of 20cm each would be sufficient.

I’ll decide what height once I’ve decided the other dimensions.


Any comments and suggestions will be appreciated.


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