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3 years ago. November 1, 2021 at 3:58 PM

How do I know if my partner is into being a dominant like what are tell tell signs that she would be dominant or into the things I like such as pegging and 24/7 chastity play I really want to pic her brain we have known each other for 9 years and dating for less then a year I want to introduce her to the lifestyle but I don’t want to scare her off smh I don’t know what to do and she is an older woman 45 with a young free spirit very beautiful has a Domme appeal 

Lazuli - Just be up front about the dynamic aspect of the relationship you want. Instead of introducing it as hey don’t you want to be this, explain the interaction you feel most fulfilled by and see what she thinks about it. If it’s something that scares her off then would you really be happy without it?
3 years ago
playfullpanda - By strange coincidence on another site that I am on had a link which I think might help. In my case I sat down and was up front with my partner about certain things I liked and although my partner is not fully understanding she understands..
https://www.submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/initiating-a-discussion-about-bdsm-interest-with-a-vanilla-partner
I hope this helps.
3 years ago

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