The cradle of wisdom

I expressed a few of my frustrated thoughts in my previous blog, and while I think they're completely valid, I still feel a bit embarrassed about them. I decided to go and do the opposite in this blog, to even it out a bit. With that said, I hope you'll forgive me for my outburst and here's something pleasant for you to enjoy as my apology.

Whenever I see a couple on here who is in perfect sync with each other, I can't help but feel envious and jealous. But it's the good kind, the kind where you wish you were in their position. I always seem to quietly cheer them on in my head, and hope for the best in their daily lives. It must be such an amazing feeling to have found a person who, not only is attractive personality wise, but also matches your sexuality. I've met a lot of people who felt unfulfilled because they never did match completely.

Which is why I think it's amazing that everyone here, even though there is a bit of a mainstream going on, has an opportunity to display and explain their various sexualities and fetishes. Feeling accepted, especially in a society where these sorts of perversions aren't appreciated more often, is something I believe most human beings are looking for. We ARE pack animals after all, and there are few pleasures as gratifying as feeling you belong somewhere.

On that note, it's also amazing to see how many experienced, and inexperienced, people are willing to help each other in the forums! You get the perspective of someone who has been through a lot, and also the fresh, new view of someone just starting. To me, it helps immensely to create a nuanced spectrum of our various doms and subs.

I suppose this atmosphere springs from the fact that everyone is exposing themselves here. It's stressful, embarrassing and sometimes scary to express exactly what you like and what you want, especially if people are unwilling to understand. But I hope that everyone of you know that while you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position, dom and sub alike, you are doing it with so many others who are also just slowly, gradually and carefully sticking their necks out to find happiness.

And how amazing is it to find everything from the most hardcore sadist and masochist to the most softcore of the bunch. There's a little something for everyone here, and if you look closely, I'm completely sure you'll eventually find the one you can truly feel comfortable sharing your sexuality with.

Well that's just a little something I felt like I wanted to write/say. The old "carrot and stick" approach, so I hope you enjoyed the carrot after my previous stick.

Also I really enjoy strawberry ice cream as well.