i have become aware of a battle going on inside of me..
a battle of a long suppressed dominant energy that is used as by my caregiver and the caregiver energy that is dominating.
in the online Bdsm world i have found its easy to be in my dominance, i find submissive's i have spoken to enjoy the feeling and are interested in being in connection and seeing where it goes.
but when i get to or even visualise a real life connection with a sub, my caregiver steps in and pushed my Dominant self to the back and uses it to add caregiving. i am aware i probably just need more real life experience and i am working on it. i am just uncertain how to put them into balance.
i don't yet know how to surrender to my dominant side and put my caregiver behind. i am enjoying exploring the depths of these parts of myself.