My other pet peeve is ghosting especially since that book came out all these new do called Doms thinks it okay to ghost , especially when they start for the first time and think they can order a sub to do what ever he wants . Then gets upset and tells her you not a true sub in which he ghost s her as punishment , for one thing subs in that respect really don't care because the Dom has made the fundamental mistakes at the start . But then you get some Doms who think it is punishment to ghost a sub in one respect it is but Doms have to realise that 97% if subs crave contact , communication with out that they start to panic and over think things like what did I do wrong or why was he not happy , it affects them mentally .
If you going to use not being in contact with someone as punishment you tell them that they can not reach out to you for a time period , and why they are told to do this it does help but also still makes them scared. So before you ghost someone think about the issues that arise from that and be thoughtful towards your submissive..