Its amazing how people twist things around. No concept of boundaries or behaviour and push it onto the other person.
So after a neighbor who asked to see my lady parts as normal behaviour i asked if this was something he often did with female friends and now im being told ive provoked him and he doesn't want any contact with me after giving into being human.
..... seriously and yes this idiot goes to bdsm munches.
Each time trying to see my boobs or my vagina trying to seehow far he could get. Saying im harsh and lost a friend for giving into being human.
A friend would never have put me in that position. Watching porn and then coming over telling me how he keeps getting hard and finding it difficult. Thats not my problem.
Now ive provoked him been judgemental and harsh. Really?
Oddly asking why i didn't tell him i was uncomfortable at the time after he asked me if i would sleep with him.
This response is exactly why i didn't i say anything at the time.
Self control is important. Calling me judgemental and then saying you apologied when you didn't by saying all these things isn't an apology.
God its hard being a woman sometimes. Even the nice ones can be arseholes.
This wouldn't happen in a bdsm club. Not at least without someone going okay thanks bye. I wouldn't have to say no and use contraceptive as an excuse. I wouldn't be asked these questions and if i didn't want to play it would just be okay i don't have to think of reasons and one no is enough for the other person to respect that decision. Not this. I would feel safe. Xxxx