Rose's Thorns.

When you suggest trying some new things in the bedroom, your vanilla boyfriend looks very shy and goes for the same thing most guys think of .... the backdoor. 

There is so much fun to be had, is that the best they can come up with?

I stand there and innocently ask 'which way round' .... its a genuine question. 

I don't think he knew how to process that bit of information. 🤣

Anyway it takes a fair bit of patience... I don't think vanilla guys realise you can't just bash in the backdoor on a random Tuesday. 

I wonder if this is an expectation regarding porn. I don't watch any, so I wouldn't really know but... when trying to find someone like minded and let a vanilla guy know.. there instantly thinking of some kind of scene from a porn film. 

It doesn't work like that. You need to get to know someone's mind if you truly want to fuck with it in the best sort of way. 

I can't sleep, I'm in a particular mood... I blame my cycle..  because it's the week before and ladies we know what that means.... 

....

Discussing past endeavours had got her mind racing...  

Sometimes things simply start out with a kiss

Before you know it you have ...

A 5D loop leather collar, a hog tie, cane, clamps and on the 'to get' list, a spreader bar and metal ring to screw into the headboard. Because... why not

....

Imagine a woman bent over the back of a sofa, in vintage see-through lace, violet lingerie against pale skin (with the exception of a few marks ;). The lace bra has been pulled down slightly so her nipples are peeking out... of course with clamps on them, a small chain with beads at the end. They almost look burlesque. Suspenders and seamed garters are adorned but there is something missing.... her underwear, she's completely exposed. 

Her legs wide entrapped by a steel bar... she's not able to close them. Hands cuffed and tied to the front of the sofa, so she is face down, her hips on the back of the sofa and on her tip toes. 

Just left there ..  'I need to get my wine darling' 

Erm... 'excuse me?!  Walking over he placing a gag in her mouth, leans in and whispers 'Yes dear that can wait'... before giving her a kiss on the cheek. 

Tied up, unable to move ... while the smug git gets to look so pleased at his handy work. 

'Oh yes I did forget something' 

Hearing footsteps behind her... she dreading to think what's happening next... either way she isn't going to give in..  she's already mortified but stubborn as anything. 

A familiar hand finds the small of her back, he shifts his weight so she can feel his body against hers while his hand goes lower... she tenses up as he moves over her rear 

Leaning in he whispers 'shhh not that one, this time' and moves further down, 'remember you dont come until i say you can' then runs his finger around before placing a plug inside her. 

She ponders thank goodness I've got the gag in, I don't have the strength to answer back... although I do have some choice words. 

Leaning up he straightens himself up... picks up his glass and goes to put some music on... prehaps it's best the neighbours aren't disturbed. Taking a sip from his wine glass... he sits down. 

At that point she notices a remote control for the plug in his hand. Before any more embarrassment or dread can fill her mind... the absolute smug look on his face, he sips his wine and presses the controls, while she lets out a soft moan. 

'Oh darling, we just getting started, I need to get you decently wet before having my go' 

I'm slightly addicted to this song. Women are not my thing but damn it sounds hot. 

I tried vanilla 

It was too bland

There was once a dream of such freedom and joy ... to go where you want when you want. To simply go to work and back. Meet friends... go to conferences.. night's out. 

To be free is a marvellous thing. 

And then she woke up .. 

There is something exceptionally cruel about watching each opportunity you worked for disappear in front of you while everyone lies to you and tells you how lucky you are to end up back in your grandparents house that being upset is not worth it ... its a waste of energy to even think i could have used those opportunities i worked for... because i never should have tried to begin with. 

Its just cruel... i can't believe you left me here ... with no way out after convincing me to give up everything and come up. You didn't even tell me so i could make a plan 

... i don't come back here without a plan to leave... because otherwise i never get to leave. 

Nothing worse than feeling trapped and your wings clipped. Can't do anything you want to. 

Leverage.... the route of all evil. 

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When you're in relationships or trying to build one and come from a good family background... they just don't get it at all

I work hard for my opportunities they have gone now. 

I trusted the wrong person and they dropped me off back to family... i can't stand it

That feeling like molten lava that burns up into despair. 

Grief for loss, for missed chances for things that should never have been taken away from you. 

I hate the place im stuck in so much, its beyond words. 

Pain and anguish for the useless idiots know not what they do. Thing is what if they do and they just act out of fear, its no less painful tho. 

Emotional scars are not so easy to deal with. They hurt like hell and atm its like salt is being rubbed in the wound. 

Pray for me because honestly... not much else is keeping me here

Sometimes you put your trust and faith in others very occasionally it works, other time .... well it just doesn't. 

I trusted someone i shouldn't... its been a rough week