I have always identified as a sub. There's never been any doubt in my mind that's what I am. With that being said I'm exploring and questioning my feelings about all kinds of options, what kinks I like, it's an evolving process that's scary, exciting, and unexpected.
I never had a desire to be a domme however, since meeting a new person who is a Dom in his day life but has many submissive tendencies I have been curious as to how I would feel about it.
After much deliberation and discussion we decided to see if it would be enjoyable for the both of us. OMG...I have found a side of me that I never knew existed and I feel comfortable with it.
Never be afraid to try something new, you just might surprise yourself! Not sure I'm ready to identify as a switch just yet though... we'll see what the future holds.
