Many moons, many thoughts

There are three types of people that come into your life.

The first..

The leaf people.

These are people that come into your life for a season. They are there to take what need and when it gets cold or a wind blows in life they are gone.

The second 

Are the branch people.

Although they are stronger than the leaves you have to test them out before you run out there and put all your weight on them. They may stay for a few seasons but eventually they will brake away when life becomes tough.

And finally...

The Root people.

These people are very important. They do not do things to be seen. Their only wish is to support you and help you live a strong and healthy life. Even if you go through a difficult time they will hold you up they love you just the way you are.🥰🙏

I have found my Root People, here in this beautiful and mysterious  community we all share.

I'm eternally grateful for all my Root People. Humbly your APK 🙏🥰😘🌷

Original author unknown

My Spectator

You sent me to the gutter

You were my witness to my decent

My weaknesses 

My desperate

Falling failing

My blood

My injured body covering me in shame

You overdosed me on darkness

While you watched with glee

"No love after you for me"

Now you have become my spectator once again 

But this time your fixation will witness my levitation towards the stars

As I rise the blood I shed for you will drip from me like like black water

It will fall upon your misplaced self anointed crown

Drawing you deep down to the demons where you belong

For I am women

The universe resides in my flesh in my veins

I create life

I am life

I am light and love and healing

Did you really believe you had that much power to destroy a universe?

I contain fire

I dance with my fire my lover my friend. 

Unlike yours this fire does not burn me 

But sustains my life force within me

My one question is demon

Are you enjoying my epilogue 

The last pages I am writing

As much as you did creating your very last chapter?

,,,, Raven 🙏🌷🖤

And I do try ...

I try to love the world and listen to music and sing along trying to make sense of it all.

But inside me is loud.

It drowns out the bird song I adore to sing along to and I get lost in the screaming 

🖤🥹🖤

Just a giggle..

This person needs to be found and sacrificed to the gods! 

🤭 Apparently I need my tits slapped 67 times a day, go figure 😘😘😘

Ummmm yeah, I'll just leave these 😘😘😘😅

I feel attacked 😆🤭😋

🤭Yes daddy 🥰🥰

Seems correct to me😏

Note to self...invest in hand rails 😆

Wishing you many Wiggles and giggles today and all days 🙏🌷💜

Ahhh sat here looking at these little blooms of wishes for the year ahead. 🥰

Little pockets of dreams springing into life with magic and wonder.

Believe in a bit of magic today and make special wishes from your heart.

My wishes for you all are of hopes, joys and many many beautiful moments that make our lives just that little bit special 🙏🤗🤍🤍🌷

May your day be filled with little drops of joy throughout 💜🙏💜

Good morning wonderful people.🌷

Sat with morning coffee just flicking through some readings I've saved along the way and came across this one of the most wonderful expression of what primal play is, well to me 😊 this deeply resonates with me what about you?. 

Primal Play😈🫦

I adore this interpretation, what are your thoughts or personal experiences? 

The article source came from (Sharon Ashley):

The biggest misunderstanding that I’ve seen about primal play is that it’s always animal play. That’s not true. I would classify animal play under the umbrella of being “primal.” But you don’t have to be animalistic at all to tap into your primal side.
Not if that doesn’t come naturally to you.
Primal sex is honest sex.
Personally what I like most about primal play is that it’s an opportunity for all masks to fall away. Instead of concerning yourselves with a certain sort of sex act or getting each other off, you each revel in whatever feels natural and good.
The resulting sex play might wind up silly, strange, or aggressive. For some folks, doing whatever feels good without concern about looking or sounding stupid, might turn animalistic.
But it doesn’t have to be.
For me and other primal partners, I’ve discovered that it’s more about expressing ourselves freely and wordlessly. Doing what comes naturally. It’s also all about trusting each other implicitly.
I’m going to be wholly myself and trust you to accept me completely. Just as I wholly except you. It is going to be some of the most honest, raw, and real sex because neither one of us are interested in putting on a show.
Primal play is all about the connection.
The best thing about connecting with your partner through primal sex is how you get to push and stretch your boundaries together. You might switch off between being the hunter and the prey. You might test the line between pleasure and pain.
Whatever happens, you are bound to meet a new side of yourself. As you do so, you connect with your partner in new ways too.
The connection is all about acting on instinct.
Many people have trouble acting on their instincts in bed. They’re too concerned with protocol. They frequently overthink and find themselves unable to relax. The resulting sex is often awkward and stilted.
Acting on instinct is a very powerful thing. We reject the “shoulds” in favor of raw emotion and physical desire.
Raw instinct can be rough, and it’s not for the faint of heart. It’s also not for partners who haven’t established the foundation of trust necessary for such an intense experience.
Primal sex looks like a lot of different things.
For some folks it’s wrestling, hair pulling, biting, nipping, or guttural sounds. For others, it’s laughter, tears, body-to-body massage, mutual masturbation, or licking each other everywhere.
It’s free from shame. It’s joy.
And I don’t think there’s anything else in the world quite like it.
Primal sex begins with getting in touch with yourself first.
I don’t know that you can really get primal with a partner until you know how to get primal with yourself first. Practice whatever feels good to you. Close your eyes and lose your inhibitions.
Quit worrying about following some script or protocol.
Learn how to revel in the sensuality and feeling of it all.
And then talk to your partner. Tell them that you’re interesting in exploring primal play. Have a conversation with each other about what it might look like and how you might feel if either person goes “too far.”
You might decide upon having a safe word. Some people argue that you can’t be fully primal if you’ve also got safety in mind, but I don’t know that that’s true.
I think instinct can remain raw while also preserving a healthy connection. But you’ll have to be willing to go down that road with your partner.

I welcome all opinions, please share 🤗

Happy Sunday 💜🥰🌷

🖤💜ENCHANTRESS💜🖤

Magical

Witch

Sovereign

Wild

Alluring

Sensual

Fierce

Siren

Hypnotising

Sorceress

Seductive

Enchanting

Empress

Unapologetic

Fierce

Passionate

YOU

Queen of Her realm

Seeking unlimited pleasure

Embracing the darkness

Reclaiming Herself 

Step into your Enchantress

She’s been there all along

Remember

YOU make the choices of who you want to be

Blessings 💜💜💜

Just little thoughts about little kisses..

My most favourite thing....🤗

For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it’s something they have to do to get to the next step.

Conscious Kissing is its own incredible moment of being. There is nothing else other than the delicious sensation, the feeling, the taste of our mouths.   

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything. Because kissing is so intimate, it also expresses our emotional state.

Kissing is the sharing of our essence. In the exchange of fluids and breath we mix ourselves with our lovers.

Our kiss is a communication. As well as being arousing it’s a journey we take our partners and ourselves on. In the delicate touch of lips and tongues we tell where we are. Our intention, our love and our desire are communicated in the moment.

We can bring ourselves into presence during our kiss. It’s not just a prelude to sex, rather a world of sensation and emotion on its own. When we’re present during a kiss it has no need to go anywhere, be anything other than the beautiful connection it is.

We can ride the waves of gentleness and fire, kissing slow and soft, hard and deep and urgent. Our mouths become the expression of all that is within us at that moment. My hand in your hair pulling you to me as I share my fire with you. My hands on your face surrounding you, enclosing us in connection.

Kissing is playing, celebrating our joy in each other.

Kissing is sex and lovemaking on its own. We get lost in the taste, in the sensation. My whole body, my whole being, my heart is expressed in my kiss. It’s a dance of energy as we move in and out and around each other. It’s the song of our intimacy in our sighs and our moans. And it’s the portal to lovemaking divine in the sacred element of our kiss.

There is a connection between the tongue and the brain.

Kissing becomes a meditation, on sensuality, on presence.

If your mind wanders during your kiss, come back to your breath.

Then focus on the feelings and sensations you’re experiencing. This will intensify the moment.

Look into your lover’s eyes.

Bring the energy from your Heart.

Mirror each other’s dance, whatever they do, you do…

Sigh your breath, your moan, your love, your desire into their mouth…

Slowly, so slowly you kiss…

Laugh as you kiss…

A Kiss from your heart, has a purity of  expression like no other.

I wish you many many kisses all the different kinds of kisses, share your kisses they are magical, kiss the babies, kiss the grandma's, blow kisses to strangers, bless them with why a stranger kissed them instead of how they are paying this month's rent!  kiss your friends a simple act of one tiny kiss can make the most broken of cold hearts warm again.

💜💜💜

Do you know what, there was a time I would have set myself on fire, to keep others warm.

There was a time I would have crossed oceans to reach people who wouldn’t cross a stream for me.

There was a time I would try, too hard, to be seen by those, who would simply never see me.

There was a time I felt myself unworthy of a person, who could actually never be worthy of me.

But not anymore. I now see myself and my time is precious so is yours.

You see my friend, there are many ways to spend your time on this earth 

but wasting it on those who are not appreciative of your attention, is a crying shame.

Use your time wisely.

Save your best efforts for those who care. 

For those who would return the favour or at least appreciate your attention. 

Those who truly value you.

And the rest? 

If they do not see you now, they never will.

And they are missing out.

Make this the time that you realise your time is precious and should only be bestowed on those who bring you comfort, positivity, support, love or joy.

Or all of the above.

Remember, you are the main act, not a warm up, 

and this, my darlings, is no dress rehearsal.

This is it.

The curtain is well and truly up.

Shine on my precious ones like the stars that are within you.

Many sweet blessings 💜💜💜