Behind friendly lines

There's a famous line in a mob movie that says "This is the life we have chosen". Army life is the same way. It's not an easy life. We "work" weekends and holidays. We go where the Army sends us. We can be deployed anywhere in the world at a moment's notice. We go into to violent and austere environments to visit violence and carnage on those who seek to harm. Sometimes days I love this life and some days I hate this life, but it's who I am and have become. Love us or hate us, we'll stand the post.

Take her mind..

Take her heart..

Take her soul..

Then take her body..

Own her, possess her. Make her beg, make her moan, make her cum, make her safe. Be brutal if she craves it, be kind when she needs it. Lead her, teach her, control her then own her. Be the Dominant you were born to be. Use her, abuse her, then take care of her. Earn the submission, respect and service and then fuck her as she craves and deserves. 

It's simple but complicated. Honor matters.

I've been having an interesting conversation with a friend about Dominance. I am far from perfect, but it is interesting to me that this individual has no idea exactly how to Dominate although he claims to. The simple fact of the matter, is that respect and submission is earned not demanded. Those who demand respect and submission without the proper effort put forward deserve neither. A submissive who refuses to submit to a "Dom" without the "Dom" putting forth proper effort is neither a fraud or a poseur. It's actually a sign of a submissive who knows her worth. If only that was commonly understood. 

Education within and without the lifestyle is essential. In order to Dominate properly, one must know how to lead correctly. Dominance does not come from instilling fear in a submissive, it comes from earning respect and doing the things that make a submissive want to please. It often takes a while to learn this. Too many enter this lifestyle, with a false sense of self.

It's often been said, if one wants to learn how to lead, learn how to follow. Leading men in combat, has been both the most rewarding and most difficult task of my life. There is no greater responsibility than being in charge of life and death decisions that effect those who look to you for leadership. 

I've just returned from an extended absence. Spent some time dealing with the chaos that was the Kabul evacuation and went down with a break through case of Covid. 

I'm not really sure when it started. As a child, I was always either picked to be the leader or naturally led my classmates. Team Captain, Class President etc. I joined the military after attending a Military College in the South because I wanted to be part of something bigger than myself. It was at my second duty station that I met my mentor and his submissive wife. Once that door began to open, it would never close..

To be continued..