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Behind friendly lines

Musings from a former Military man..
2 years ago. February 6, 2023 at 4:20 PM

It's often strange to be a Kinkster in the vanilla world. We all know the feeling or at least most do. I often wonder how my teammates or colleagues would react if they knew the truth. Would they understand? Would they shun? Would they have no reaction at all? Would they not at all be shocked at the revelation? A few times, I've been close to a revelatory moment only to withhold and withdraw. Retreat is not in my nature, so I call it simply a "strategic withdrawal".

 

As a grow older and bolder, I walk the line closer and closer, but professional considerations continue to be the bulkhead. Eventually, dear readers the truth shall be known...

JustGreenie - I have found my friends and family to be more accepting than I originally thought, yes there are some comments that are made but I prefer to be out and open than hiding my authentic self
2 years ago
InfantryDoc - It's pretty interesting at times. I suppose on a personal level, it may be easier than anticipated.
2 years ago
InfantryDoc - I agree with everything you've said. I suppose for me it's the reaction that interests me. I simply wonder how those around my sphere would react.
2 years ago
Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - I feel like in the age of the internet people have more access to kinky knowledge and are generally more accepting. Ive never brought up my kinks in a professional setting because it’s simply not appropriate.
2 years ago
TreasureMe​{loved} - I've personally told my parents and siblings about 6 months into my submissive journey. They've even read my blogs and support my writing in every capacity that I choose to explore it, along with my choice of relationship. I never wanted to feel like what I was doing was wrong or should be hidden like a dirty little secret. They don't need to know the details, but I didn't want anyone I was in a dynamic with to feel any less of my respect and reverence at any given moment. So to my family, this person isn't just my boyfriend, but my partner, my teammate, my Sir and that's the part that matters to me. If I'm on a call with my Dominant and I say "Yes Sir", it won't be an odd or abnormal occurrence. And whether my family agrees, understands or chooses to have the same kind of relationship I choose to have, would be irrelevant.
2 years ago
Beautiful eyes​(sub female)​{Taken} - I wish you well with it, my friends we only concerned with my safety but they know, trust and love me. Its still scary admitting to something that is who you are. Xx
2 years ago

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