So starting down this road of Polyamory has been a fun time. But... I've made some stupid mistakes. One of those mistakes is: I went on a date with a super cute girl and I ignored all the red flags. In my defense a lot of the bad shit happen towards the end of the date but... still the red flags were there I just gave this girl more credit than she deserved.
So this girl comes into my work a few times and she's super fucking cute. So I'm like shit I'll ask for her number. To my surprise she gives it to me. I'm super stoked. My day off comes up and I call her up, I'm like hey did you want to go out for dinner or something? She's like heck yeah! I want to go to the casino. And I'm like... ummm... sure? Seems odd but she's super cute. I'm down. Red Flag number 1.
Because I don't drive she has to pick me up. I have her pick me at a restaurant pretty close to my house. She tells me she's 5 minutes away and she'll be there soon. I get there... and 45 minutes later she finally gets there. I was about done... then I saw her and I was like... okay I'll keep this going. Before we head out she needs to go help her Mum with her car. I'm like no problem. We go and we help her.
Then on the way to casino we start chatting and she's really cool. We talk about Rooster by Alice in Chains and more music. She tells me she is an ex addict, and while she relapsed a few months ago, she really wanted to stay clean and get her life together. This could also be seen as a foreboding red flag buuuut I have her the benefit of believing her.
She needs gas in her car. But she apparently has no money. Another red flag but I'm like whatever here's a 20. Then we're off to the casino. She's gambling I'm just sitting with her, then her phone rings. This isnt the first time but it is the same Caller ID each time. She claims it is her Ex Boyfriend who is in prison and that he's obsessed with her. But when she answers immediately she's lying to him and it is clear they aren't over. She "goes to get a drink" mid call when it is clear he was getting upset she was with a dude. Again Red Flag.
Anyway she keeps gambling with my money, and I give her like a total of $40 bucks. Then her Mum shows up in the middle. Where I am asked to give her Mum some money, which i just hand her 5 dollars. This girl ditches me multiple times, leaving me with her mother at a certain point. So we are finally going to leave and get lunch but she tells me to "go over there" so she could talk to this sketchy chick and these two guys with her.
At this point I'm well and beyond pissed off but she's my ride and I'm just trying to stay calm. So suddenly she leaves the building with them, telling me that she'd be right back. I'm like whatever. When she comes back she finds me, then we find her Mum, just so my date can look at me and go, "Hey I'm just trying to be straight with you but my Mum and I are going to my car to shoot heroin. You can be there or don't. I don't care but it is going to happen." Apparently she bought the Heroin from the sketchy mother fuckers.
So I'm like well... fuck. I tell her basically like "Yo dude, I'll give you all the money in my pocket right now and I'll pay you in full for the heroin, just give it to me. And I'll get rid of it. No one will know." She then gets upset saying I'm being to much and what not.
She tells this dude that's there this and he can't be older than 21, like legit he looked barely out of high school besides his tattoos. This dumbass comes up to me and starts running his mouth because that's his, "Brother's old lady and he's in prison for armed robbery. You need to leave her alone, she's going to do what she wants." blah blah blah. He starts throwing around his little threats which is making my already pretty triggered PTSD ridden brain want to go even more berserk than it already did.
I try to tell him, doesn't matter I'm going home, I already called a ride and I'm going the fuck home. I tell him that I've had many friends do what she's about to do and they're all dead. And he threatens me again, at this point I'm just imagining how the back of his head would burst like a tomato if I smashed agaisnt the brick wall of the casino but he ended finally walking away.
I sat down on a near by bench and waited for my ride. While I'm waiting who walks by? The girl I'm on a date with. She sees me and is like, oh hey! I'm going to my car with my Mum to do something then I'll be right back and we can get food. I look at her completely confused like bitch... it is Heroin. The thing is heroin. You already told me what it was. It is not a fuck secret.
I tell her I'm going home, and she's like oh! Do you want a ride? I tell her no, trying my best not mention how she's about to do heroin so no I most definitely don't want a ride. Instead I let her know I called a ride. She's oh okay... text me okay? Then walks away.
Needless to say I did not.
