Thoughts on a cloud

Hello everyone,

Interesting fact the snakes in Ireland refers to the non-Christians in that particular area.

SO WHAT ARE WE ALL UP TO?

I myself have been to the gym and shopping, the base for my punchbag has turned up but not the punchbag itself and on Etsy the other night I found some interesting BDSM furniture that can fold down into inconspicuous forms, such as bedside tables and hallway tables .... interesting I've always wanted a chance at DIY Dungeon gear

Next weekend I am off to a BDSM party near me, first one in this area, I'm taking my ropes and my bag of tricks but mainly because the host offered to do some shibari/kinbaku teaching sessions, sadly not going WITH anyone and not going to FIND anyone either ... I'd rather just enjoy myself.

SO TODAYS TOPIC.

What DIY dungeon gear would you suggest, want or own for all your sordid scenes and fantasies? Paint me a picture with words :)

I quite like the idea of a bdsm chair (which I have an wooden ikea dining chair downstairs, that I could just remove the cushion from, or the seat itself to give me access to all areas.

Also a St Andrews cross, I've got a door jam kit that I bought to use with my last partner, sadly she ended things before we ever had the chance to test it and it sits at the bottom of my bag of tricks mourning its lack of use.

Also Also, am I the only one who, despite being ostensibly single and not planning on changing that soon, still hunts for good deals on decent BDSM toys/equipment/clothing online? Seems a bit pointless if there is no sub to play with.

Also how does one repress the urge to eat ones weight in cookies in a Friday afternoon ... no really I can't help myself what do I do? (depression is a marvelous thing really I stress eat like you wouldn't believe)

All the best,

Moonlighter

Queries, inquiries .... posers if you will.

Now I make no secret of the fact I am currently in therapy, it's right there in my profile ... at time of writing, if its not there now I probably changed it ...

So I KNOW I'm a bit of a mess, I know I have some anger issues and I'm currently grieving (still) two close family members and one who is currently still alive but terminal.

I'm not in the frame of mind to have a relationship ... period, kinky or not. Don't get me wrong I would still like to practice my rigging but I would want to practice it in the same way that I go to the gym and bake, its a therapeutic exercise more than anything else.

So my question is this, while I myself am not seeking a dynamic or relationship currently what are peoples thoughts on meeting people for dynamics and either knowing or finding out they are in therapy?

Is this a red flag to you?

Does it show poor qualities in Doms/subs?

Does it show good qualities?

Is it irrelevant to you?

I'm curious, for myself I would want to be taken seriously and not just as a lump of depression, but while I would try to understand and help someone I'm not sure I could commit to a relationship with them ... which sounds harsh I know. But I know I don't want to burden other people with how I feel lest I appear to be emotionally using them as baggage carrying services.

So picture this,

You want to find a new job, maybe you're looking for a pay rise or a new location of course you have to send off a CV and cite references of employment so you can be vetted against job experience.

Now let me ask this, bouncing around the varied world of kink I've often seen people say that they want a potential partner to cite references, especially to Doms, they want to assess the previous subs for whether said Dom is as good as their word and, while I've never seen a Dom request references from a sub, it would allow for the Dom to see if there is anything he/she should be wary about in their new sub.

On the surface this absolutely makes sense and one should always, ALWAYS, thoroughly vet their partners long before the handcuffs make an appearance. actually make the effort to ... y'know, date them for a bit (the three month thing is actually a thing guys seriously).

But here's the thing, many of us don't keep in touch with our exes fewer still would be happy handing out contact details for such a reference.

Anyways it just made me think of the personals section on here and how the cage could start making us attach full on kink CVs to the ads for review :D.

Question is what would be on yours???

So, to start with there are now photos of me on here because I figured you'd all want to see the face behind the voice of sarcasm ... should that have said reason.

My relationship with my last partner has ended, mainly due to the fact that I'll be moving some 5 hours away soon and I'm already an hour and a half away so, they didn't want long distance and to be honest I got the distinct impression she was bored. I did try to keep things lively and active but between the distance, the lack of opportunity to see one another and the fact that once she made her mind up, she made her mind up. Still c'est la vie.

What this does mean is that I may go quiet for a few months, although I will try to respond to messages as I don't really get overwhelmed and I'll have some spare time.

Hopefully speak to you weirdos soon.

Moonlighter

FUCKING SIDEWAYS... I tell you, you get comfortable for more than 10 seconds and the universe just shits in your bonsai tree it really does.

So I can't go into details BUUUUUUT life is sucking a bit.

Some projects are behind.

Some relationships are having their final bell tolled.

Some takeout orders turned up yesterday without my bloody garlic bread .... Jaysus Fooking Wept.

The relationship isn't on the rocks, we both like each other we get on well and enjoy time spent together, but the time isn't that long, and has been getting further apart. And pretty soon we're going to end up on opposite sides of the country.

It was good ... but its gonna end soon I feel, and that's sad

Still an undeniable truth of relationships in my past is that every woman who I have dated has found the one pretty much straight after, so she's in great hands apparently lol.

I guess this is a ranty type of blog, no one really wants to hear about Doms who don't have 100% of control 100% of the time but you know what?

We don't,

Sometimes we flounder, we hit our heads against brick walls, we get stuck in a rut.

We just get back up and plough on, and that's just what I'll have to do.

I give myself 15 minutes a day to feel sorry for myself, everything else is for moving on.

I need help completing a predicament Bondage idea .... and thought I would turn to you lovely lot.

So the idea is do perform predicament with a pair of these "https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/nipple-clitoral-toys/nipple-clamps/p/bondage-boutique-adjustable-nipple-clamps-with-double-chain/a34821g63056.html"

The sub (while kneeling and with hands on head or tied behind back or put wherever you feel like putting them) will have one part of the loop of chain in their mouth and the other will be holding a small weight (kinda like the ones you used in science experiments in school sorta like these: "https://www.amazon.co.uk/3B-Scientific-U30030-Slotted-Weight/dp/B071G36C3D/ref=asc_df_B071G36C3D/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=463215433622&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=949857061406805090&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1006567&hvtargid=pla-807767109098&psc=1&th=1&psc=1"

NOW the predicament I envision is that the sub has to either keep their end of chain in their mouth or their nipples take the full weight of the ... well the weight.

But I can't figure out in my head currently how I would entice them into dropping the chain from the mouth short of leaving them there till they got bored!

I could try using a nose hook and slowly tighten it until they have to let go or I could put something like honey on the chain so they salivate till they drop it ... I have ideas but nothing that is making me go "AHA that is what I shall do!"

So Doms and subs of the cage ... give me your best ideas!!!

In the UK it is entirely too bloody warm.

I've also had a chance to go through my kit bag and sort out my rope properly so there's that.

There also seems to be a recent surge of people advertising themselves in their blogs which to each there own, but I do wonder if the know about the personals tab.

I'm still plodding along and hope all you wonderfully weird kinksters are as well.

Moonlighter

Yup bit late on that train I know but I was visiting family so no apologies,

So New Year, New opportunities, New Ideas?

Well this one probably isn't a new idea and many may have tried it but I will put it up here for all to consider.

So the idea is, a bag ... a nondescript every day bag, could be a sports bag or something a bit more upmarket it doesn't matter. 

What matters is the contents!

In my head here's how it would work.

I agree a play day with my sub, probably won't be the only day of the week that I "play" with them but this day in particular is special, why? Because of course the bag!

At the beginning of the week I will put things into the bag, say a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, a flogger and some nipple clamps. (The world at this point is your oyster but do not put EVERYTHING in there, you'll see why in  a moment)

Inform sub that contents of this bag will be used in full on the set day, whether they enjoy implements or not is irrelevant.

Now say I start on Monday and the day I pick is Friday. they have 5 days maximum to influence the outcome of the day.

If the sub behaves/ does as they are told/ performs exceptionally throughout the week they may add an item they would like used to the bag or contrariwise remove an item they would dislike from the bag.

(Example being on Tuesday evening my sub performs amazing oral sex on me, the reward is the choice to add or remove something.)

Likewise if the sub performs poorly or does not behave or brats about when they shouldn't an item they like can be removed or one they dislike can be added.

You see where I'm going with this?

Come Friday the contents of the bag are used in a play session and I think its a neat background game to play with each other throughout the week.

Also this could work with a long distance dynamic as tasks could be assigned over web/phone and rewards could be placed into a bag for a meetup or in a bag at the subs house where they cannot interfere with the contents without the Doms/Dommes permission.

Tell me what you think below.

also enjoy that joke

'Sup you kinky S.O.B.s.

So I find myself in a bind (pun intended). I'm looking to get back into doing some rope work, always liked a good shibari, I've done bits and bobs with partners but nothing intensive generally none of them were rope bunnies.

UNFORTUNATELY due to a mold outbreak at my last flat (and my asshat of a landlord) I lost all the rope, store in a cool dry place guys it catches mold like you wouldn't believe, So wondering if anyone can point me to a reputable-ish corner of the internet where I can buy more.

And while I have your attention any literature on new ties because I'd find that an interesting read as well.

Ta muchly

Moonlighter

I watched Sarah through the doorway, I had been leaning on the door frame for the last 5 minutes observing the way she tried to stay calm with no sight, I knew she was imagining me swooping down on her at any moment pinning her to the floor and taking her. I heard her soft moans as she tried to work the ball gag around her mouth, a trail of drool started to form from the gag and dripped down onto her breasts. I saw her twitch as the unconscious impulse to wipe it away was suppressed. She didn’t know I was watching, her moans intensified as the drool ran slowly down her body. Finally, slowly so as not to get caught, she reached up to wipe at her face.

“Don’t move.” I commanded.

This time she jumped for real, her hand snapping back down to Nadu so fast she almost slapped her own leg. Her breathing quick, I stalked behind her taking both wrists and fastening them into leather cuffs behind her back.

“You don’t move until I tell you to” I growled low in her ear, she nodded in response whimpering as my fingers slowly traced the path her drool had left down her body. I circled her nipple lightly with my fingers and her head rolled back into my shoulder as the pleasure and anticipation pulsed through her. My hand snaked lower across her abdomen, reflexively she tried to thrust her hips towards my hand as it rested on her inner thigh.

“Such a messy slut” I whispered running my tongue around her ear, she nodded slowly. “I have just the thing for you.” Pulling Sarah back away from the wall I push her head down into the carpet. “Show me my pussy”

Pushing her head deeper into the rough carpet she raised her ass up for my inspection, I could see how slick she is between her legs. I barely need to lube the vibrating egg as I push it inside her swollen lips. Her moans as it pushes into her making me painfully hard, I have to stop myself from tearing into her. I want it now, to feel her hot cunt squeezing my cock as it rams into her to listen to her climax through her gag, to pull out and spread my cum all over her quivering body, marking her as mine.

I take deep shaking breaths to control myself when I noticed Sarah returning to a kneeling position, I grab a handful of hair and force her back down My other hand pulling her ass back up “That is the second time You have moved without permission.” I spank her ass on one side then the other, she squeals through the gag as I. “I will not tolerate disobedience from you, you will take another 10 on each side as punishment do you understand?” She nods her compliance. My hand falls on her again 2 slaps each side, her ass starting to turn red and she mewls pitifully through the gag as my hand caresses each cheek, squeezing gently on each side. My hand passes in between her legs feeling her wetness on my fingers as she shudders under my grip, before she has time to finish registering the pleasure I’ve already laid another 2 spanks on her.

I alternate with her punishment, changing my rhythm and force so that she can’t predict when or how the next strike will land. By the time I’m finished Sarah’s ass is blazing red. Pulling her upright I unbuckle the gag “Are you going to disappoint me again?”

“No Sir,” she gasps running her tongue around her lips to try and clear the last of her drool “Sorry Sir.”

I use the collar to pull her towards me, kissing her deeply, when I pull away she leaves her mouth open slightly panting for breath.

“While I’d like to believe your apology, you have a lot to apologise for.”

“Sir?”

“You made a mess all over my jeans earlier so now I’m going to make you apologise like the slut you are.”

I clipped a short leash to her collar and pulled her up to her feet, I made sure to walk backwards as I pulled her into the living room so that I could admire Sarah’s naked, bound and blindfolded form as she tried to carefully find her footing. A sharp tug of the leash sent her stumbling forward into me with a gasp, an opportunity I used to feel her ass again.

“Kneel!” I commanded.

She dropped to her knees, I pulled upwards on the leash cupping her chin in my hand.

“What are you?”

“I’m a slut sir”

“And what do you want?”

“I want to be used Sir.”

“By anyone?”

“No Sir, Only by you Sir.”

“Open your mouth, show me your tongue.”

Dutifully Sarah opened her mouth wide and held her tongue out for me, unzipping my jeans I pulled out my cock, now achingly hard, I placed the tip on her tongue and she began rolling it around the head.

“Tongue only” I instructed.

She complied with enthusiasm running her tongue down my shaft and up again, lapping at it as though her life depended on it. The feel of her wet tongue sent shivers across my body, in an attempt to control it My entire body tensed and released. Sarah must have noticed because she doubled down in her efforts.

“Does that taste good?”

“Yes Sir it do…mmph.” I push my cock into her mouth mid-sentence. She reacts in surprise I can feel her tongue pressing against me but she adjusts herself and begins taking me deep in her mouth. Her lips gripping me and sliding up and down my shaft as I feel the back of her throat at my tip.

“You’re such a dirty whore aren’t you.” Its not a question, it never is for her. She is on her knees helpless as one hand rests on her head and the other holds her leash tight. As she has been taught, she answers my question even with my cock gagging her mouth, while all that comes out is unintelligible and spit that further lubricates me the vibrations from her throat add to my pleasure.

I can feel myself losing control, the desire to pound her throat raw as a thousand voices in my head all tell me to claim what is mine. Again I breathe in deep through my nose and slowly out through my mouth. I must maintain control, I have more to enjoy of Sarah yet.

I pull myself free of her mouth, a disappointed groan escapes me. She smiles at that, it’s a small victory for her and I feel she has earned it.

“Aren’t you just a greedy little whore?” I ask with a smirk

“Yes Sir,” she says once she finds her voice “I am an insatiable slut.”

“And what do you think I’m going to do with you?”

“Use me, please Sir.” There’s a tinge of desperation in her voice now, she wants to feel me inside her, the knowledge makes me even more excited “Use me in anyway you please, I want to be your good little slave.”

I pull her up off her knees the dampness that was in her pussy is now over her legs as well.

“Oh I think I have just the thing for you.” I pull sharply on the leash again and walk her back into the corridor towards the bedroom. Watching as her hips sway with her hands bound.

And I knew I was going to have fun!