Random thought

Does anyone still remember the story of Mulder "Fox" and Skinner in 24/7? 

This is one of the poems in a classic BDSM novel "24/7" written by Xanthe.

Read this novel many years ago, but this poem still strike me 😄 Enjoy reading :)

To Whom It May Concern by David Steinberg
 
The eyes speak in rivers,
      the fingers in trees.
The body has a language all its own:
this time we'll send the interpreter home.
 
I will open you
      petal by petal
      taking all the time in the world.

I will build with you a slow fire
      stick by stick
      and watch the color of your sunrise.

I will play with the wind of you,
      cover your body with smiles and games,
      promises and fantasies that disappear
      without a trace.

I will stir your secret core,
      witches' brew of potions and incantations
      and feel you simmering, rolling
      floating in my hand.

I will fill you slowly up,
      every crevice and curve,
      watch feel hear smell taste you
      growing full.
 
And when every part of you is one,
when you are saturated, suspended,
water trembling over the brim,
I will ride with you over the falls
      drown with you
      disappear all boundaries
      tumble over and over and over and over
until there is only the spinning dizzy
dance beyond dancing
and the great wave crashing to bits everything,

leaving us strewn with the seaweed

in the sand and the sun to dry...

I wonder is this song written by a Dominant for a submissive? 

This is most challenging attachment style.

If you bumped into a Dominant or submissive who has this attachment style, hope this article could clear your doubt ?

Avoidant attachment type:

These individuals will let you be around them, but will not let you in. They tend to avoid strong displays of closeness and intimacy.

They start drifting off and distancing themselves from the partner when emotional closeness displayed. Adults with this attachment style believe that they do not need emotional intimacy in their lives.

Article:

Do you know what's your attachment style and your partner's?

There are four adult attachment styles:

1. Anxious

The anxious adult often seeks approval, support, and responsiveness from their partner. A strong fear of abandonment is present, and safety is a priority. The attention, care, and responsiveness of the partner appears to be the ‘remedy’ for anxiety.

2. Avoidant (also referred to as Dismissive)

Adults with this attachment style generally avoid emotional closeness. They also tend to hide or suppress their feelings when faced with a potentially emotion-dense situation.Fearful-avoidant people do want intimacy and closeness, but at the same time, experience troubles trusting and depending on others. They do not regulate their emotions well and avoid strong emotional attachment, due to their fear of getting hurt.

3. Disorganized (also referred to as Fearful-Avoidant)

Fearful-avoidant people do want intimacy and closeness, but at the same time, experience troubles trusting and depending on others. They do not regulate their emotions well and avoid strong emotional attachment, due to their fear of getting hurt.

4. Secure

Adults with a secure attachment style can depend on their partners and in turn, let their partners rely on them. The secure attachment type thrive in their relationships, but also don’t fear being on their own. They do not depend on the responsiveness or approval of their partners, and tend to

Congratulation if your partner has secure attachment style ? If s/he doesn't has it, may work on it together towards this type of attachment style ?

Dark vibe for today. Enjoy…

“I am addicted to you.. don’t you know you are a toxic..”