We need to take proper notice into what our desires are telling us and why we have the kinks we do for example.
I love the idea of a woman with a strap on pegging me I think it's beautiful hot deeply creative. But for the longest time I never really understood why I like being pegged or dominated into submission by a right woman who proves my whatever wrong it to understand how she feels to me and what she could possibly see in me or the idea of changing places with her in a fanticy but mistaken for other reasons lead me to other things I had no interest or really didn't like and some sparked a great desire to want and curious enough to maybe one day try and explore . We all have feelings less hurt them heal them nurish them love them and teas them reach out and grab someone loanly to show life's worth living because alot don't think so and need it.