Back in the day it was a real privilege to be owned. From what I hear its what most men seek as a submissive yet no one wants to give up anything to be owned? Do they understand that in the old days a slave came basically wearing the clothes on his back and stayed until dismissed. Today so many don't want to give up anything yet they want the privilege of having a Master to go on the journey with. Im Trying to find out what has changed? Everything seems to be about the bottoms wants and needs yet that isn't the way it has always been and to my knowledge the definition of the Dominant is to be pleasured. The submissive gets their pleasure from pleasing and in pleasing.
Maybe I scare men away as i am very aggressive. I don't want long periods of courtship, a visit or two should be fine. My alpha met me at an event and came immediately two weeks later with no visits other than at the event. He has been with me 10 years now.
Am I asking to much? Are submissive really not interested in bettering their life becoming educated to the 9's in play and go on that special journey between a Master and a slave? Where is the trust? Where is the desire?
Im frustrated by all the flakes on all the sites as they all say seek ownership but when it really comes down to it they want to experience me in my dungeon in a play session. I understand it but there is no journey in that and you can't really push limits one a one time visit.
One says he is interested lets see what comes of it he had rental issues getting out of hi lease.