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A locked journey

This is a place I can write down my thoughts about chastity and document my experiences.
1 year ago. April 21, 2023 at 9:20 PM

Somewhat annoying day today. I've had the belt locked on since before midnight last night,  but that's only a small distraction.  Made it thru a shower and one meeting,  but just couldn't keep focused on work the rest of the day. I've learned I can't keep my phone nearby,  as there's always a compulsion to see what's going on in the world.  But,  today there were just to many thoughts bouncing around in my brain. Just glad it's the weekend and I can recharge a bit.  

I'll probably be locked in the Carrara all but a few hours this weekend,  if the training continues as planned.  Should be interesting. 

1 year ago. April 19, 2023 at 12:47 PM

This is day 22 of my slow and steady chastity training regimen.  Yesterday went pretty well.  There were no issues with moving around in the belt for 11 plus hours of work and running errands. Today should be another 11 locked hours plus overnight. It's getting a little more challenging, but hoping to continue with no big problems we can't solve. 
 
 Documenting the days to keep me honest. 

Day   Target    Actual
1           0            night
2           1hr           6
3           1hr           4
4           2 hr          0
5           2 hr          0
6           2 hr          8
7           3 hr          8+night
8           4 hr          5
9           0 hr          0
10         5 hr          8+night
11         5 hr          12.5
12         5 hr          4
13         6 hr          8+night
14         7 hr          7
15         7 hr          8
16         8+night   8.5+night
17         8 hr          8
18         9 hr          13
19         9+night   11.5+night
20         10             9.5
21         11             11.5
22         11+night
23         12+night
24         12+night
25         12+night
26         13
27         13
28         14
29         14+night
30         14+night
31         15+night
32         15+night
33         16+night
34         16+night
35         17+night

1 year ago. April 17, 2023 at 4:23 PM

As said before,  my gf and I had an eventual goal of her controlling my release from chastity,  at least for a few weeks - month trial period.  We lost sight of that as things got a bit crazy,  but I'm trying to ease back into it.   I'm using the 6 week to 24/7 chastity guide at https://thecage.co/magazine,82.html as a rough guide to get my body used to being belted again.  Yesterday,  I was locked up most of the day,  as I was working an event and running around with little chance of finding time to get free.  Today is day 20, and my time is at least 10 hours without direct key access.  It was fairly easy to this point.  But, the required locked time goes up quickly from 10 to 17 hours a day  plus most nights. Now I'm going to need a bit more support if and when the belt becomes annoying or uncomfortable and the days of frustration build up. 

1 year ago. April 13, 2023 at 12:47 PM

It's been a long time since I've made any updates to my little blog.  Most of the winter and spring was spent trying to get caught up with life and all the things going on.  Our toys sat unused most of the time. Once and a while I would get curious and lock my belt on for a few hours or a day. But that was pretty much it. 

Around the beginning of the month,  I thought I'd bring out the Carrara and try to re-train myself to wear it more or less full time. I was enjoying my freedom, so it isn't easy to just jump back into chastity.  Starting slowly, locked in a couple hours a day to start and adding time as I go to get my body used to being wrapped in steel again. This is day 16, and my goal is to wear this at least 8 hours and overnight.  I'm thinking of having my gf start locking the keys away until my training time is up for the day so she can help me keep on track.  We want to try having me in longer term chastity with her in full control,  but wearing a chastity belt is hard. It's easy to put it aside when it gets annoying without a good deal of support. 

 

1 year ago. October 10, 2022 at 2:57 PM

Updating my Locktober journey...  I had to take about a day and a half out of any device due to some inflammation. We tried switching from belt to a cage,  but it still caused irritation. Better to let everything heal.  Even though I was free, no touching was allowed.  Last night I was sealed back in the Carrara chastity belt and she again controls the key.  Feels ok now,  but frustration is definately building. 

1 year ago. October 4, 2022 at 5:37 PM

Day 4 of Locktober.  I remain secured in the Carrara chastity belt.  I was allowed 15 minutes to unlock,  clean,  and adjust fit today. No fooling around allowed.  The waistband was a bit bothersome,  but I think it's better now.  Beginning to adjust to wearing it again,  but it's still a bit arousing, feeling my dangly bits held in metal. 

1 year ago. October 3, 2022 at 4:12 AM

My girlfriend seems to be getting a kick out of the idea of locktober.  I started the month in my Guardian cock cage with a new ring.  We were hoping that it would be secure enough to use for most of the month.  Unfortunately,  the ring size is still a bit too big,  and I slipped out of it during the evening.  That won't do.  We decided to switch to the Carrara chastity belt.  It's definately not coming off accidentally.  Day 2 went without incident.  It's a bit strange laying in bed with my groin covered in steel,  knowing it could be a long time before I'll be able to get hard, let alone do anything.  

1 year ago. September 20, 2022 at 6:47 PM

For those who aren't savvy, October is a month that many people interested in chastity lock themselves or their partner in a chastity device for 31 days.  The details are up to the individuals,  but that's the basic idea. 

My SO seems to be on board for Locktober this year.  She just mentioned I have around a week left (until I lose my freedom). 

My 1st try at Locktober last year, I got maybe halfway through, but it was just self-locking.  This year she will be choosing the chastity device(s) I'll be locked in over those 31 days and watching the keys to make sure I can't cheat. I'm anxiously looking forward to the challenge. 

1 year ago. June 30, 2022 at 5:07 PM

We surpassed my old record for being locked in a full chastity belt without release by half a day.  It probably would have been longer,  except for a dr appointment. I'm sure I'll be back in it again soon after though.  

1 year ago. June 29, 2022 at 5:08 PM

It's now two and a half days locked up and she is planning to keep me secured in the belt who knows how much longer. I had a bit of annoyance with the belt a couple times today. But after having it on so much last month, I'm happy to say there's no issues this early that I can't live with. Starting to get a bit frustrating to have everything down there sealed in metal.  But,  that's why we give up control.