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A locked journey

This is a place I can write down my thoughts about chastity and document my experiences.
1 year ago. April 13, 2023 at 12:47 PM

It's been a long time since I've made any updates to my little blog.  Most of the winter and spring was spent trying to get caught up with life and all the things going on.  Our toys sat unused most of the time. Once and a while I would get curious and lock my belt on for a few hours or a day. But that was pretty much it. 

Around the beginning of the month,  I thought I'd bring out the Carrara and try to re-train myself to wear it more or less full time. I was enjoying my freedom, so it isn't easy to just jump back into chastity.  Starting slowly, locked in a couple hours a day to start and adding time as I go to get my body used to being wrapped in steel again. This is day 16, and my goal is to wear this at least 8 hours and overnight.  I'm thinking of having my gf start locking the keys away until my training time is up for the day so she can help me keep on track.  We want to try having me in longer term chastity with her in full control,  but wearing a chastity belt is hard. It's easy to put it aside when it gets annoying without a good deal of support. 

 

B L O N D I E​(sub female) - As you say, I don't see how anyone could do it without a significant partner keeping you focused on why you're doing it. My main suggestion would be for you to try a much smaller cage rather than the full belt. It would be a lot more comfortable, easier to manage, and easier to ignore while you're doing other things. I've read blogs by men who have been locked for 18-24 months and not looking to get unlocked anytime soon if ever. They can easily forget that the cage is even there unless their domme is specifically playing with them. It's small, requires no upkeep apart from showering and cleaning yourself, and goes on and off much more easily. I hope it works out for you.
1 year ago
cbteased - Thanks for the reply. I do have a couple cages that we still use now and then. They do their job, but the ring often ends up being an issue. I decided to get the belt that I use as an avatar so I don't have to deal with a ring. A full belt is a little more to manage, but do I enjoy it's tight hug and the absolute security it brings.
1 year ago

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