Hi. Here are my thoughts of what this blog could be. This will be a place I can write down my thoughts and experiences on the subject of being locked in chastity. I welcome questions and encouragement to keep me going.
I have been interested in chastity devices since back in the Remy tube days. I was new to BDSM, and it was a fun way to experience a type of personal bondage without others knowing. As time went on, my interest grew. I tried different ball trap devices, looking for something that wouldn't be too noticeable, yet something i could wear for days at a time. My lockups never went more than a few days, as chafing or other issues usually ended my time in cage.
Later on, my girlfriend started playing the game. She would lock me up for a day or two and hide the key. Once I was secured for 3 weeks non- stop while she was away. That brought a new type of excitement, not having control of my own body. Most of the time, I still self- locked for short periods.
(Btw: I am not into many of the other activities that seem to get associated with chastity. Cuckolding, sissification and such are a hard no. I'm not really intrested in FLR, outside of orgasm control.)
I continued looking for something that i could lock on for longer times. I bought a custom mature metal watchful mistress. Stainless steel definately upped the ante. But, I still had issues with ball trap devices never quite working out. Plus, I always fantasized about the absolute security and feeling of being controlled, both by the device and my keyholder, that a full belt would bring. I found that Walter Gothels was going to be in Chicago. We made the trip, and I was measured for a custom chastity belt. A few months later, it arrived. What a device! There is no way I can get out of this without the key once it's locked on me.
It's been a couple of years since I've adjusted the belt to conform to my body. For the most part, it is comfortable. And, it definately brings that feeling of security and control. My girlfriend will lock me in it on now and then, for 1-2 days at a time. But, I'm trying to wear it more when we're apart. It is far too easy to grab the keys and take it off when it gets downright annoying, or just plain Inconvenient.
My goal is to be able to wear the belt for extended periods at a time. I eventually want to be able to hand the keys over to my girlfriend and have her know she can leave me secured until she decides to release me. At some point, I think it would be interesting to experience what it really is like to be truly locked in inescapable chastity for a month. (I know, be careful what you wish!) In that end, I am trying to train myself to wear my Carrara chastity belt for longer periods of time.