Life in poly as told by me

Our first break up was a giant cliff for sure. My wife and i saw it coming the couple she had attached too was starting to have some very sad Fights. It seemed the doms wife was upset he liked there new sub more. Im not 100 percent sure how this conclusion was made but i did learn in life people get jealous of the thing you'd never expect. Time attention and words always get you in a bad spot. Your primary should always feel that love from you and in this case she felt like a secondary. He broke it off with my wife and then they proceeded to hang out one last time. This experience taught us a lot about poly and how it works we learned a lot about the functional and non functional parts of our own rules vs how to get others to combine. At the end though this staind my wife she was heartbroken and upset but was torn cause she felt like how can you be married and miss someone else. It became more obvious with passing years of how this is corrected but early on it was a struggle. I never took it too personally cause i understood we was growing and with growth will be pain and bumping into each other.