How Interesting

justcurvysub - 😔This....

Bunnie - Wise words. A hard lesson that one.

GiannaRay​(sub female) - Yeah. That's rough. I usually want to forge ahead to try anyway, because if it works out it can be amazing (is my thought).....what if? (my other thought)......I need to take the chance (I think WAY TOO MUCH).......have lost friends this way. Sometimes that was a bad thing, and quite a few have shown by their actions or words that they actually weren't a true friend. Because a true friend wouldn't have treated me that way. AS the old saying goes, with friends like that, who needs enemies? But if you have a valued friendship, as it is now, then you are probably WAY smarter than me to leave it as such. Good luck.

Forge​(dom male) - I’m 55. I understand now that everyone that comes into our lives isn’t necessarily meant to be there forever. However, if that’s the case, I’ll just keep trodding along until something more permanent shows up

justcurvysub - That sounds so much easier said than done lol. You are right though. Tired of this heart🙄

Anne achronism - Interesting. What of the friend that you choose to pursue as more and when it ends remain friends? Do you not feel that can exist for you?

Forge​(dom male) - Do I feel that it can exist for me? Possibly. Has it happened before? Yes. Will it happen again? Don’t know. Would it have happened there? Doubt it, I feel that if one goes in with the idea that there’s an end date just around the corner, it chokes the commitment level

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justcurvysub - May I ask where "there" is?
Why would going into a relationship with an idea that at some point there's going to be an end date effect the commitment level.

Forge​(dom male) - There? That was a particular event between two people whose views on matters of the heart and life didn’t align as well as they should have if they were going to share such a deep bond as I am seeking.

Why would going in to a relationship with an anticipated end date in your mind affect your commitment level? Personally, I’d just feel better in my journey through this life knowing that my co pilot isn’t staring at the parachute when the weather gets rough