How Interesting

justcurvysub - 😔This....

Bunnie - Wise words. A hard lesson that one.

Anne achronism - Interesting. What of the friend that you choose to pursue as more and when it ends remain friends? Do you not feel that can exist for you?

Forge​(dom male) - Do I feel that it can exist for me? Possibly. Has it happened before? Yes. Will it happen again? Don’t know. Would it have happened there? Doubt it, I feel that if one goes in with the idea that there’s an end date just around the corner, it chokes the commitment level

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justcurvysub - May I ask where "there" is?
Why would going into a relationship with an idea that at some point there's going to be an end date effect the commitment level.

Forge​(dom male) - There? That was a particular event between two people whose views on matters of the heart and life didn’t align as well as they should have if they were going to share such a deep bond as I am seeking.

Why would going in to a relationship with an anticipated end date in your mind affect your commitment level? Personally, I’d just feel better in my journey through this life knowing that my co pilot isn’t staring at the parachute when the weather gets rough