As long as the 50 shades of grey are sliding their way with Vanilla pictures to the unconscious mind of the desperate housewives and pulls BDSM from the collar to the highlights of mainstream; grows the calling of the brave young men for help from the brotherhood with navigating the wild spaces behind enemy-lines, in the untamed jungle of the instinctive original region of domination - that built its own militia and proclaimed itself as autonomous land.
You've got to wonder what's the nature of that collar around the thin neck of the world of domination...
Well, it’s the suffocating social-circle of the kinky Vanilla who thinks that hand-cuffs are cool because when they were children they dreamed of being cops and when adulthood came they wanted to be at least stripper-cops; And the leash that leads that collar is probably one of Christian Grey's pretend ties (again grey in the meaning of boring, I always was more in favor of the tragic portrait of Dorian)
Nonetheless, in time, backup comes and some beans of light are breaking on the foliage of the dense jungle inside the limits of control; outwardly serene but stormy inside and still there are some people who want to join where the real raves are going-on.
Only yesterday the postman knocked on my virtual-door and served me one of those white envelops posted from the website (the Israeli on). Inside was staffed by words one of those callings of the inner-game searchers that I mistakenly thought to be a beasty howling of a real young predator, that actually wanted to learn something… although, how much light you can be looking-forward to in the world of darkness?
So that kid (after I firmly explained him that he can't get the deeper kind of BDSM he wants when trying to dominate subs on the phone), simply asked: How you lead girls to really give-in to you?
Put aside the fact that after I gave him some brief idea of what he need to do and he saw it's not easy as he thought, so he chose the easy way by asking me if I also dominates men.
Still in this post I chose to address he's prior question - like all of you witnessed, I'm more of a guy of priorities: first-class, first-place in everything.
For this purpose, a busy-bee like me (and some girls still have the nerves to cry when I want them to serve me 😄 I went to sit in front the greyish gloom of the defying screen for a whole 5 seconds and thought on a theory that'll spill some light on the secrets of the profession.. oh ya baby deep-throat is in the house!
And I'm calling this theory, the Dom-Dom Theory (AKA Dum-Dum Theory)
Just imagine him – tall and masculine like Schwarzenegger before he got settled and became bourgeois-governor, tattooed like Axl-Rose and bald like… some bald fellow, with a Leather-jacket of the Hell's-Angels gang, unbuttoned so you can see the chiseled squares in he's belly.
In a grandiose show he's throwing her on the bed, flip her ass to him, unzipping he's jeans, tearing-off her panties underneath her short skirt and hit like a target-guided missile.
While the intercourse occurs she screams "Yes daddy!" he strongly pulls her oxidized hair, give her some musical spanks and finish before she can complete the anthem… what a bore!
And that exactly why I invented the Dom-Dom Theory
Meet the Dum-Dum bullet
The Dum-Dum is a hollow-point bullet that expands on impact -
This will slow the bullet down and more of its kinetic energy will be transferred to the target, creating a larger wound channel; meaning its stopping-power is stronger.
That grants it 3 special factors:
- It's being used by the policing authorities because when one of our 'cousins' broad shoulders like the Berlin-wall, run towards us – Machete in hand, screaming Allahu Akbar!
We want to stop him before he'll decapitate us and play ball with our head like Camazotz - It's got to be notorious, criminally banned by the international war law
- Hunters use it a lot for its ability to knock the prey down easily and we're hunters aren't we?
(Here I thought to put some graphic descriptions of skinning prey with the above Machete but I think it'll be too much all over the place and just between us, Machetes originally meant to clear-off the paths in the thick jungle – not to take-off heads)
The history
The first Dum-Dum invented near the Indian town of Dum-Dum under British-Empire rule (who said just bad things achieved by conquest eh?)
By the creative Indian vision it supposed to be only a soft-point bullet, what risked it to get-stuck in the barrel (we all knows the Indians excel in more peacocking than effective designs… Tinkling-Fetish someone? There are a lot of feathers here)
Than the British-Empire itself developed much more efficient bullet – strong lopping jacket (most of the time in the shape of a cross, cause all the sexiest things comes in crosses) and the soft-point bullet inside, thus calls Hollow-point.
And for the glory of the bullets-country we got an awesome bullet!
My Theory
A great Dom has to wear two faces (Dom-Dom) – hard from the outside and soft from the inside.
When I hit my sub with the arrow of Cupid I want it to spread a wider effect all over her body.
Dominant must know how to be rough enough to catch he's prey with lasso or at least Anal-hook, but also how to use the riding-crop the way that'll scatter the taming-pain all over her nakedness, so the latter don't need to be a physical-whip, vise-versa it should be mental.
Like always it sums up by communication.
As Dom's we need to have words with strong aura, bright enough not just to hunt our women but also to make them submissive.
We all know that stick and stones can break some bones, but it's hard to pay attention to the real meaning of the song between all those sexy wiggling's of Rihana – what's really exiting is the value we can bring to the woman.
One can use some words until tomorrow and tomorrow never ends, because no girl will submit to him if he won't touch her… and how he can touch her if she doesn't even care about him?
The difference between a word that hit the target and a word that miss humiliatingly doesn't lies in accuracy but in penetration.
When Rubin-Hood competed on bullseye against The Sheriff of Nottingham – the sheriff hit the middle marvelously but the crowd's excitement came when Rubin punctured the sheriff's arrow slicing it to half like a sweet butter.
Exactly the same way we've to penetrate the armor of our sub (her skull that protects her brain) and not just penetrate her cunt.
The way to do it, is not cracking her skull like a caveman letting all her brains spill-out on the floor (what are we? the Body-snatchers?), we need someone to take control of after all…
A proper way will be building rapport (not just with our dicks of-course, most of us don't have Dog-Knots… at least I hope so)
What we really need for that kind of contact is to know how to be gentle when needed.
"A smile is the thinnest line between two people" – it can be with predatory fangs, but your mouth won't help if it'll just cut in the live-flesh.
Excellent Dom must learn how to touch mind and soul before he put he's hands on the body and that you can do only by friendship, affection and the joy of life.
That's my friend the way to make a girl submit to you.
Warning
Don't let the Dum-Dum Theory turn by mistake to the Dumb-Dumb Theory!
Don't act dumb to score points for vulnerability and remove one's armor by deception only and don't be a real idiot.
Remember that to be soft is not being some stupid weakling, but an assertive man.
Know what you want, be capable; with the wisdom of your hands and heart.
And welcome to the jungle!