A scent of Woman

THE TRUE POWER OF BDSM

"She stood before him just as she was made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that raged within her, the strength of her heart, the stubbornness of her will and the soul that burned like fire and he.... He took all she had to offer…saw the beauty amongst the chaos…stared every flaw, every doubt and every fear in the face. He saw her spirit and ran free with it…he showed her the fire that ran wild within his own soul and together… despite the storms of life… together they set each other ablaze and danced in the flames." Let me envelop your weary soul with the warmth of my body and heal the places that have been broken for far too long.
This is the form that makes a D/s so strong in seeing her at her best with out No walls up and her own vulnerability is shown of who she is.
If you can give this to a true Dom or Master and he sees you for who you truly are you blessed with finding you own self in him of what you both give each other and of you lucky enough to find such a woman who you can see in her eyes the passion she carry’s to belong. You are truly blessed
And the fire burns and you both dance in flame 🔥 what makes you feel more alive with her as the sex is on fire.
The desire to have her as your own becomes more real as the more you Learn about her.
True BDSM is a light that shines and can not be put out the more you try to push away from it the more it will pull you in.
You own hunger for it to belong over powers the mind on what you so Desperately need a way to shine in your own light on what you have What you learned on who you are.
In her need to Surrender to please that someone who Sees her for what she sub/slave to her own self in what she needs to give up to be free on what so much she’s wants the power to hand it over not to anyone but re one who deserves her Completely.
One who shows her the love the Strength of who and why he is a Dominant in her eyes he will touch her mind in ways she needs.
This will bring herself to her knees in her own Submission to Surrender her whole self to him.
He will teach her the understanding of what she longs for to be safe to be held in the right with a deep trust and a way to be understood of who she is.
He will Cherish her more then anything he will lead her to what she must become the woman who lives in no fear of what she is and he will inspire her to try and do new things.
There be know other deep bond like it there will become one her wolf 🐺
And his Princess

HOW YOU SAYING I LOVE YOU

I been looking into ways on how to say I love you in out of the box ways.
I come up with a few way that I think people may want to say it to there lovers
I want you to fuck me in love ❤️
I want you fuck my mind into loving me
As we can Express our selfs in so many ways of what we deeply want without it sounding like to over the top or Romantic when we truly want is that someone to love us but Instead of saying I want you to love me.or full in love with you
Say more of Gesture like.
I want you to fuck my mind and make me see love.
How do you Express on you want from a lover with out been to much over the Top ??
How do you go pass of just been used for sex and seeing if we can push the person into the right direction for you.
You may want more then just sex .
As I sure a lot of women have felt been used or evern men have to when someone won’t Commit to anything and only comes over for booty call.
Do we live in a world where sex is more common. Any time and place and any where.
Any where you can get it from take it.
As I sure a lot of people come here for more then sex but I could be wrong.
How many want the deep connections what comes with sex.
We look more into BDSM and what it has to offer is just to hard to find that in what we want in a person.
Where is the world we sit into day more about is sex like put on pair of shoes is it more common to go to bed with a first date those days then ti wait to out what there like as a person ??
As a site like this why is so popular in what give The Cage a place to find sex but not a partner in life.
It so wide world we know just have sex like a hand shake and jusf live like who gives a fuck as you see more of lust then you do friendships on here or am I wrong.
If you like to find out more Interesting Topics of the lifestyle of BDSM come and talk to me 
Master D

WHY CUM IF ITS NOT LOVE

What’s the point of cumin
If you not cumin for love

You can look at a women with the desire to fuck her and then you look women for passion in love you have for her soul.
The 2 women are diffent on how you see them but you know your heart won’t settle for the one you only want to fuck.
This what I miss so much the laughter of her the sound of her the the touch of her in ways not sexual the touch of her lips her hair on you face as you hold her at night
It lipstick on the coffee cup in the morning or the smell of her on your pillow.
The Desire to fall asleep with that one woman who will show you love in ways you dream about the talks of what you both dream about.
The passion in how you Surround your self in her as she lights the fire in you can never put out.
She one and only one you want to do every thing with in love as you open new doors with her as you Explore the world together. Knowing you will do any thing for her to Protect her to be her rock to Support her in everything she Everything she does to Inspire to be the best she can.
You come her Sir. No not on the way that you fuck her the on the way you see her she see the love in you for her in everything you do for her
She becomes your Strength you become her Protector
She lends more onto you in ways you become stronger for each other to form D/s that can not be broken.
This is the true meaning on what a lot of us come here for but we only find tye one we want to fuck bit don’t full for the ones we truly want.
Ask your self what you cumin for ??

LIFE OF THE INTERNET SPACE 

Is there any thing real in the land of Internet space as we look into a screen with over million images.
Of what you can Imagine but do we lose the Focus of real life.
Life is more then Images of sexual body’s doing all you can are we lost in own minds of what we Imagine.
Do we forget we are who we are in the real world of what happens around us or we to Focused on what going on in our own Fantasies of looking for the Image.
The net has become more of Fantasy then Reality to most.
Have we lost Focus on what going on at home with our own family’s to a world of make Believe.
When most of us have lost sight into the real world of what going on around us
Are our own thoughts of what we see are blurred by what we want.
When most want true love someone to stand next to and to hold at night some one to grow old with a Companion on the life Journey.
This word is giving us what ??
A door way of sexual Desires yes but in real life how much time do you her to play out a Desire then a need.

Life is not like porn movie that can play out 24/7.
But how may of you are filling out a life of true happiness.
Or are you Faking it and hiding it in a Secret Life behind a Screen.
This world of what we know and do can Destroy the heart we so do long to fill.
I ask what your Internet space like ??

LIFE OR FANTASY

When you ask your self do you want a life or live a Fantasy.
What comes to mind ?
What Images and thoughts 💭
Come to you as you growing up of what your Mum and Dads tell you about love or what you saw in the early days of finding out about love.
Did some say you end up on a site like this looking for a Fantasy that will never come true.
As wonder how many people are truly happy in there life’s like Fairytales of the books like your Mum and Dads give you who’s find the life of true happiness in who there are.
How many come here looking for that one who thinks there going to give to them.
What would you say to your children who would end up on a site looking for love and only come out Disappointed not been loved.
I ask you all what does a site like this hold for you in your life.
What does it give you.
What does it mean to you .
How many of you need this ???

SILENCE OF THE PASSION

The silence of the passion
When you mark a women’s body only drives on what you want from her
To feel you to be proud of what you done to her to show off your handy work.
Why do I do the things I do to her
It s not me trying to make her cry or hurt her Emotionally.
I do it as she need to feel my Dominance in the way I touch her
Why I use my tools on her and the way she submits to my needs.
As our souls Dance to Rhythm that know one else can.
What’s gives me what I need from Her.
See her so happy in her own life on what’s she as Accomplished out of what I support her in all her needs and wants as she submits to only me.
When you understand a women from the inside of her own mind and how far she go for you.
That alone is enough to show you just how lucky 🍀 you are.
When she open her soul to you it not a sigh she is been weak her Vulnerability Is her gift to you to show you that she trusts you with all of her Emotions and you must be so grateful and hold her and keep her safe.
My job is to protector to keep her safe to make sure she trusts me 100%.
This is just the top of Iceberg of what’s will make Last long Memories.
I didn’t get into BDSM to fuck about or to have lots of kink sex.
I want to touch peoples hearts ♥️
In showing them it ok to be them
Selfs.
It ok to be you to have no fear or to be Judged by anyone who comes on here to be true to them selfs.
I do pics of hope of life and of Courage to Inspire people to show them it ok to be Vulnerable.
We all have a story we all come from somewhere.
What has BDSM shown me how to be my own true self not hiding of who I am or to be ashamed of who I am.
It given me the Opportunity to touch a few life’s in what I show of who I am.
It Given me hope in what I believe in.
It let me be who I want to be.
It let feel all my true Emotions of what goes through my head.
It give the Opportunity to share my story
My life my passion for BDSM.
When you come to understand BDSM is not a sexual act or is kink sex.
You stat to Appreciate the Knowledge of what it can do to Impact on your life and others.
Or your own partner or just the people you meet.
It goes way past of what you think it may be.
How it Affect you in your own life.
You learn more about people about what people need or how there think 🤔
It 80% Mental and 20% sexual.
You learn to Appreciate the knowledge of what BDSM can teach you about your own self in how you can put it into your own Daily life.
It never been about a sexual act for me on what I want to carry out on someone I dint know.
It how you make a connection with a soul who becomes your eveything in what you see true BDSM to you.
TURST
RESPECT
MANNERS
LOYALTY
LOVE
HONESTLY
COMMUNICATION
With out those I believe you can’t have a what’ most of us want a deep Relationship in a D/s
Someone who will grow with you on a higher level that understands you as who you are
Someone who will push you to be the best of your own abilities.
And only wants the best for you.
This is why i believe I make a good Master as I feel like I have a knowledge and the understanding of true BDSM.

He silenced her mind with sheer determination and the will to see her at her best, the need for her to see herself as he sees her, because she needs to believe that the safety he gives her is not just physical, but mental as well. The vulnerabilities she shows him feeds his soul and shows him that she truly belongs to him, a battle worthy of the warrior deep inside of him. She fights the silence, she fights the peace he has given her, she fights the submission, and he goes to battle again. He knows she wants the peace, she wants the silence, but the storm in her mind gives her a false sense of being, it's the comfort zone she wishes she didn't have. His armor is wearing thin, but he knows she needs him to help her fight this battle again. He sacrifices himself for her silent mind, not because he has to, but because her submission completes him, and her submission is her true self. He needs to show her that her submission is who she truly is, it's embedded in her soul, it's in her DNA. He battles her demons because her submission creates the weapons needed for him to battle his demons, her submission is the light that makes his demons retreat into the dark, her submission makes his demons hibernate. A dynamic is so much more than two people acting out a scene. Its a battlefield of past traumas, overthinking, and insecurities, it is a choreographed war zone that allowes each other's demons to come out and be dealt with through whatever means necessary so both parties within a dynamic can find their peace deep within their soul. So both parties can allow their mind to rest, to thrive within each other, the Dominant craves the comfort of his submissive and his submissive craves a silent mind by fulfilling the role she was born to fulfill. It's a space of passion, of communication, of mutual respect. It fills voids in each other's souls and mends the broken parts of each other. It is the drug that cures all the things that fight to take away the peace within. It is a war zone filled with doubts that are unfounded, trauma that's been unhealed, confusion that add to the storm with each other. Her peace is his peace, her silent mind is his silent mind. It's a battle zone that each person willingly fights for each other, not because they have to, but because it's what they were born to do, what they were born to be.

He sat there looking at her, on her knees, head down, waiting on lthe next task he gives her, her mind a chaotic mess, he knows he has an uphill battle to fight for her, but he finds her worthy of the battle he must fight. He knows she wants to give her submission to him, but she doesn't know how. He must silence her mind, show her what peace looks like, show her that he is the vessel in which her peace lies, he just needs to lead her there. He decides the best way to lead her is to break her walls down one brick at a time, bring her demons to the surface and face those demons together with her, show her how to to to battle, show her that he will fight the battle with her, and not abandon her, no matter how hard the battle gets. He tells her to humble and he grabs his paddle and growls, "count" she complies without reservation as he has already shown her that she is safe in his hands. Which every thud another brick falls, and he keeps striking, knowing that with every fallen brick another thought is removed from the chaos. She counts to 15, he knows she needs a break, but her walls are falling, brick by brick. He pauses, check in with her, tears in her eyes, not from the paddle, but from the slow release of the chaos that inhabited her mind for so long. He saw in her eyes the confusion the silence was creating, she had forgotten what silence sounds like and it was deafening to her, she was bracing herself for the wave of chaos that she knew was coming, it always came. He knew he was close, he saw a glimpse of relief as those bricks fell one by one, but she will not let her demons out for him to battle, she will not allow her mind to be silenced, she still will not give him her mind, she will not submit. He picks her up off the floor and places her on the bed, lays next to her, holding her, praising her, telling her she is safe. He feels her body start to relax, he knows she is making peace with her demons, he knows that she is starting to understand that the peace that he is offering, the silence of her mind he is creating. He kisses her tells her to let it go. She starts to sob, it's painful to let her past go, it's foreign territory, it's what she has fought for, but has not found. She tells him her story, she releases her demons, she silences her mind, she submits to him, she finds peace. He knows she is his, he knows the battle has fought an won.

HOW TO REMIND A SUB SHE IS SUB

A moment of unintentional clarity.

I have been asked to share a moment I shared with Madboy, but first a little background on myself. I was in a 20 year 24/7 M/s dynamic with my husband who passed away in 2017. It was a beautiful dynamic in which I grew as a person and as a slave. On his passing I not only lost my soulmate, but I lost a dynamic in which I thrived and found peace in an overthinking mind. The loss was devastating and my mind very quickly turned into a chaotic mess and was almost impossible to find the peace I enjoyed for so long. On his deathbed he asked me to promise him that I would continue to work on myself and I would remain abstinent until the right Dominant came into my life. He protected my peace to his very last breath and 2anted to contulinue protecting me after his passing. He knew I needed a Dominant in my life to keep the storm in my mind calm, and thanks to him I knew what I needed from my Dominant. I have kept that promise for 8 years, although the first part of that promise has had its ups and downs. Fast forward to today. In speaking with Madboy2, we were discussing what a dynamic looks like to us, and I was asking his thoughts on a couple subjects within a dynamic and how proper communication is essential within a dynamic. He shared with me three separate writings, the first 2as regarding Maintenance spankings and why they were necessary, the second was about love vs relationship, and the third was about Dominance versus being a True Dominant. In reading the last writing, I started tearing up. It explained the void I have felt for so long and how I longed to feel the safety I felt within a healthy dynamic. Let me share to you what it said.
True Dominance is the ability to whisper softly in her ear and observe as she Obediently removes her clothing. Methodically...one piece at a time. Watching ad she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. Willingly, without hesitation or reservation. She will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame. You will know that nothing makes her happier than making you happy. Alter Ego. "

Upon reading that and without putting any thought into the response, this is what I wrote... "Ugh that actually made me tear up a little. That is what I miss the most about being without a Master...being completely exposed inside and out and feeling that acceptance from my Master and him looking my demons square in the eye and telling them they need to contend with him now. Let me be in my feminine and let my mind give in to servicing my Master without reservation with peace in my mind and soul and joy in my heart". Before I reread that message I hit send. It wasn't until He said "Now I see you" that I went back an reread what I had wrote. It was in that moment of clarity that I remembered what was forgotten over an 8 year span, I remembered what I was born for. True submission is a gift that cannot be bought, it cannot be forced, and it cannot be demanded, for true submission is only found in the safety and peace found only in a dynamic that is built on honest communication and leadership from a Dominant that is willing to do what it takes to battle her demons, offer her protection, and give her the tools to find peace withing her mind and soul and allow herself to accept that the most vulnerable parts of her are what makes her beautiful.

This is how you come to understand a subs mind on who she is from my point of view Madboy Master D 

FAKE SUBS

I hear a lot about women who want to be subs on here and I ask the questions why you waiting to be a sub.

Do you need a Dom to tell you to be a sub ???
As I hear a lot of women want it done in Privacy of showing them selfs as a sub to.
I Question them on so you want to turn your submission on and off like a tap when it suits you.
I have a laugh as it not a thing you turn off and on. Is it
Why is so much Confusion on what’s it is to be a sub.
For me I new at early age I was a Dom it was not a feeling of wow I want to be a Dom I new it was like in my DNA not to take orders from who I did not want to
Or to be told what to do in a relationship
It taking the control of my own life.
I ask a lot what do you do as a sub when you not in a relationship with a Dom. What Tendencies do you keep up as a sub this I find very interesting in a lot of women there don’t feel like a sub when there not with a Dom.
So how can you say you are a sub with a Dom telling you or Reminding you are one.
What do you do Daily as a sub in a non Relationship with out a Dom to be a sub I ask.
As it should be like you knowing you are a sub and act like it.sonr say it about doing it in a Safeway but you don’t have to been seen doing what subs do it more of taking on board of what you think and how you feel as a sub.
I should not tell you are a woman you know you are and act like one.
You don’t need reminding of who you are or how you should think as a women so why would you if your are a sub.
It like you go to buy a dog you come home with a cat as it acts like a dog.
To know who you are you have to act of who you are am I right.
The role of who you are should not stop you from been who you are.
So my question is to you subs who are you.
when you don’t have a Dom and if I was to meet you how woud I know you are a sub with out me asking.
There are a lot of dreamers out in this world of what you like to become or be.
But till you start living who you are you only dream of it.
It like woud you buy a Replica of something or buy the real thing.
It like I always going to pick a real sub over a want-a-be sub.
So I say if you want a Dom to take you for real maybe it time to set up intio the role of who you are.
You can do the things you would do when you with the Dom.
Like look at own Tendencies of what makes you a sub and do them so when a Dom meets you he sees you as a sub.
It like me people now I am
A Dom not because I tell them but by my actions on who I am.
So I ask you subs what do you do to Promote on who you are.
Are you living the life as a sub or waiting to be one.