Madboy​{Master }

dom male

54

Single

Hello and Welcome

I have a passion for black and white photography I like to find a female to explore this with in making some beautiful images of her in diffent Locations and in sexual ways of showing more of BDSM.

First and foremost - I am demisexual. If you don’t know what that is, I encourage you to look it up. If you can’t connect with me on a mental level, we are not meant to be. BDSM is born in the mind, and that is where I live.

I am a Dom/Master/Daddy

I’m old fashioned and seek something serious, but always welcome new friendship. My life is in New Zealand with my children, so relocation would be needed. I am 100% loyal to my partner and expect the same in return. I’m not into games, bullshit or one night stands. I’m not a sugar daddy, not into OF or polyamory - I do not share subs with other men.

I also look at training so important for us to grow together and one to take it seriously BDSM is not part time job or is it a hobby you can switch on and off.
Do not waste my time if you not going to take it seriously as I come across more time wasters then real people who want BDSM in there lives.

I’m seeking an articulate playful sub...

Someone I feel chemistry with who wants to explore and journey together, embrace the challenge of building a D/s relationship. I’m willing to train someone who wants to learn, and I am open to talk to any women who might be interested. I believe that sex is only a small part of BDSM and should not be the main focus, that should be an emotional and intellectual connection. I believe in working on the mind and the soul and spirit. You will want to submit to me of your own free will as you desire a Dom, someone who you can trust so that we can make a deep bond with respect and loyalty and trust.

I believe that being a Dom is like being the Captain of my subs ship, I am here to keep you off the rocks and keep you on course. I will make sure your needs are looked after and ensure that you get the aftercare you require. I will work on your senses taking away sight, sound, smell, touch, and taste with the right tools whilst always respecting your hard limits.

If you are interested in any of this then feel free to reach out and let’s chat. Even if we just end up as friends, I’m always respectful and won’t push beyond what you want.

My training is based on this

THE PURPOSE OF TRAINING

Let me tell you something what is missing out there on what I find is the deep understanding of what BDSM of to day is missing the Training.
The deep understanding of what BDSM is all about the Dedication to understanding of what it takes to be a sub or Dom or Master it not just barking out orders to someone or Punishing then for not doing what there are told of them.
There has to be Foundations layed down there has to be Purpose for training and steps much be taken to come to understand what happens.
It like bulding a relationship it just does not just happen.
I get a lot coming to me to want to be trained in BDSM but most are gone in a week as there for not understanding the Mental side of BDSM of how much time you must put into the reading the understanding of what it takes to know the knowledge of BDSM.
Let’s break it down for the way I train subs.
Frist I ask them to get 3 blank books 📕
One is for her Journal 📓
One is for the rules of BDSM
One is for her understanding of what BDSM is about
Then I strat to explain the understanding of what she sees as BDSM first start with the Basics of her to build her Knowledge on what she wants out of it and to build trust in what you show her in the meaning of what BDSM is to me.
The mind is the tool you use to Educate her for her understand of what the Process is and how it all comes together on how it works with each of my writings as we read and talk about that gives her more insight into BDSM at this sage it not about the sexual side of BDSM.
Most Masters will tell you to read to understanding the meaning of what BDSM gives and the what it means to submit to been a sub.
This is where the problem is for me not many come to understand the value or the benefits or the Beliefs on what makes a good D/s. Or how to be a good sub.
What are the true Foundations of a good D/s Is doing the ground work like bulding a house if you don’t get the Solid understanding in
The house will fall over and it won’t hold up on the long term.
This is a big problem with a lot of relationships of today the homework not been put into it to make it strong.
What is in the foundation or the deep understanding for me is
Trust
Knowing her
Knowledge
What you both Strive for
The understanding of each other
Your weakness
Your strength
How do you process
What is Important to
Your own triggers
Your own morals
Your own Beliefs

She must come to learn more about her own self on what she is willing to give up for a Dom or Master.

There so much put into the deep understanding of what true BDSM is about and how it all works together to form a life of it.

It a 24/7 life been a sub with the work been done inside of who she is and how she comes to submit to her own self first.

Most only want the kink sex.
I understand that but I not here just for that and my writing show that.

The mind is the tool I want to work on and with the understanding of her to come to see what’s all the aspects of BDSM what starts with the building of the deep Foundations of all of her life in looking at every part of her in her life from the first moment she wakes up till her eyes shut at night.

It all about growth in showing in the way you teach it all about life.

Looking into what has to happen to reach the next level of training.

Look on how far you are willing to work on your self to become better as a person or looking at what is holding you back.

It about the inspiration to move forward to make things better for you as a person.
There so may Factors of understanding BDSM it can’t be rushed ot push aside lot of my writings talk about all the different Elements of what you need to understand and for me it working on then as you move t Through your life to make it better for you.

To Manage your own self in ways to better your life.

For me it what you put into your training tell me how far are you willing to work on your own self as a person.

To understand the importance of what you want for your self.

The truth is in the taste of what you learn for me it for me to show you what is out there for you to take on board to grow.

The deep want to change on how you do things or want the guidance of someone who you can put your whole trust into to give you the right Direction.

To me it comes down to Me been your Captain of the ship who points you in the right direction to showing you how fast to go to not to hit the rocks.

How to manage your self in all situations.
It more about the suport and to Inspire her to do more things on her own with out the fear of been Judged or put down on.

You may fall it’s the one who gives you the helping hand to make sure you feel safe you have that one who stands behind you.
Never to let go of you.

Training goes way past any sexual act what anyone can do to you.

It about her been able to be vulnerable letting her walls down letting her fear go knowing you will never Judge her or to ridicule her.

This is my favourite words and I want you to read it 2 times

Any man can grab a woman by her hair,
throw her on the bed and rip her clothing off.

Sure he can tie her up, call her a bitch'
or a slut' & have rough sex with her. But
that is not dominance...that's rough sex,
maybe even violent sex. If she's into it, it can even be fun but that's still not true
dominance.

True dominance is the ability to whisper
softly in her ear then observe as she
obediently removes her clothing.
Methodically.. one piece at a time.
Watching as she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. Willingly, without hesitation or reservation. She will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame Vou will lenow that nothing makes her happier than making you

More on my principles

I’m in a pack with a good mate, and we currently run a learning group on all things BDSM: Gentlemen and Old School Domination
On other platform you may come ask me about it or give you all the information on it

I have a wealth of experience, possess the caring nature of a true Daddy, and give the discipline of a Dom and Master. I inspire my sub to be the best version of herself, and give her the tools she needs to grow.

I care for the one I guide and value authenticity above all else. I’ll never push past your limits; I want to know your mind, your soul and who you truly are. Because when the mind is claimed, the body follows.

My Principles as a Man
Before I ever take the title of Master, I am a man first and foremost. These are the values I live by, with or without a dynamic:

Be authentic and who you are
Have self respect and extend it to others.
Manners matter. Grace is never weakness.
Think before you speak; words carry weight.
Lead with loyalty, honesty, and honor.
Protect your heart, your mind and your peace.
Trust your gut. Confidence is built from within.
Practice restraint. True strength is measured in control.
Be open minded in learning new things. Growth is the unknown.
Let your actions speak and show through integrity.
Too Long, I’ve Held Back the Master Within
I ache to show my true nature - to have a submissive or slave at my feet, on a cold concrete floor. There’s no warmth there nor comfort.
Stripped bare and blindfolded, you’ll kneel.
You’ll hear nothing but my breath and feel nothing but your heartbeat, until your senses heighten and your mind starts to slip into my palms.
This is where the real journey begins.
Where I mark what’s mine.
You’ll descend into subspace as your thoughts fade - replaced by sensation, silence, and most importantly me.
Your mind will quiet, and your body will speak.
And your submission will become the key to your freedom.

This is the dynamic I seek.
A woman who doesn’t just kneel, but surrenders with intent. One who waits for my presence, eyes down, palms up, ready for me to take what is offered - your full and unapologetic submission.

I look for a sub I feel chemistry with, who wants to embrace the challenge of building a D/s relationship. I love all aspects of women and I’m open to submissive or bratty personalities - as long as you have a desire to learn and be trained.

My focus will be on her alone, as hers will be on me. I will burn my soul into her, etch my name onto her spirit, and she will never doubt how far I’d go for her. She’ll sit at my feet with my hand in her hair, be under me, beside me, on top of me, but always within me. I’ll protect her and love her with her safety and peace being my priority.

She will be my lover, my princess, my whore - not out of force, but desire. I’ll guide her through all aspects of BDSM, and bring her into the lifestyle fully, from private moments to public events. In return, she’ll offer her loyalty and devotion. She’ll follow my rules, perform tasks, and live within old school D/s dynamics - collared, leashed, and proud to be mine. Her desire to submit will be just as strong as my desire to lead, and we’ll grow stronger because of it.

I believe that being a Dom is like being the Captain of my subs ship, I am here to keep you off the rocks and keep you on course. I will make sure your needs are looked after and ensure that you get the aftercare needed. I will work on your senses taking away sight, sound, smell, touch, and taste with the right tools, whilst always respecting your hard limits. As her protector, I make sure she has structure and the understanding that I will catch her if she falls.

My Guidelines for a Sub
This is not without intent - it is with structure, consent, and care. My rules exist to protect, guide, and deepen the D/s relationship

Control is earned through consent, not force.
Hard limits are absolute.
Honesty is mandatory. Lying is not tolerated.
Discipline is calm and measured, not out of rage.

Rules do not change without discussion
Your mental, emotional, and physical health are my responsibility - but I am not your therapist.
Aftercare matters. It is how I bring you back to baseline.

Respect goes both ways. This is earned and upheld.

Rewards are also earned, never expected.
If you ask to be released, I will honor it, unless otherwise agreed upon (e.g. counseling first).
Your family, work, and private life are never mine to touch unless you say otherwise.
You will never be sold or leased unless that boundary is negotiated and explicitly stated.
A big part for me is knowing what a Master is:
Man will tell. The Master will explain. He will Inspire you to try it for yourself. To be the best Master, you must be in control of your own thoughts, emotions, body, and soul. Possessing Intellect and a heart full of tender love & care will equip you to lead by Example.

How I Lead as a Master
Power is a gift, and I hold it with reverence, clarity and control.

I honor the submissive. Surrender is never taken lightly.
I master myself first - discipline begins within.
I am both the whip and the comfort. I can give pain, but follow it with care.
I do not confuse fantasy with real life - there is a difference.
When life calls for it, I step out of the role and become your partner, anchor and friend.
I teach with patience and guide with purpose.
I never ask of you that would cost you your worth, work or family.
I speak clearly and listen with intent, Communication is a core value I hold.
Submission and devotion is never forced - it is earned and given freely.
I respect limits, build trust slowly, and never rush what is vulnerable.
I lead with humor, humility, and heart. Dominance does not mean detachment.
And above all: I don’t just offer control, i offer depth, safety, a place to exhale.
Come find me when you’re done playing games and chasing something temporary. Come to me when you are no longer afraid of your own vulnerability and ready to dive deeper into raw passion. Let me envelop your soul with the warmth of my body and heal the places that have been broken.

BDSM is not a game, it is my life.

If you want to get to know me more then please:

drop me a message
if you read my whole profile let me know by telling me your thoughts on a name you give your self to show me you read all of this.

Thank you for reading my profile it show me a lot of who you are in wanting to know me.

I’m seeking an articulate playful sub... Someone I feel chemistry with who wants to explore and journey together, embrace the challenge of building a D/s relationship. I’m willing to train someone who wants to learn, and I am open to talk to any women who might be interested. I believe that sex is only a small part of BDSM and should not be the main focus, that should be an emotional and intellectual connection. I believe in working on the mind and the soul and spirit. You will want to submit to me of your own free will as you desire a Dom, someone who you can trust so that we can make a deep bond with respect and loyalty and trust. I believe that being a Dom is like being the Captain of my subs ship, I am here to keep you off the rocks and keep you on course. I will make sure your needs are looked after and ensure that you get the aftercare you require. I will work on your senses taking away sight, sound, smell, touch, and taste with the right tools whilst always respecting your hard limits. I am focused on your training and what you need out of me to bring you to what you see is a good Master in making sure your needs are meet.

I am open to most things what a sub wants to do

Feb 19, 2022