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To be a Master
What does it take to be a Master ??
We talk about what it takes to be a Master but how many of us have what it takes on
Let me give my out look on what it takes me to be a Master.
First of all it all about the Respect and Manners of a todays Man in this world we live in the understanding of what makes you who you are and what you doing to showing people you are one
The big part for me is
Man will tell
The Dom will Explain
The Master will Tell them Explain but the big difference is he will Inspire you to try it or to do it for your self
Me as a Master wants to Inspire not just me but all the people around me to be a learner to have the power to Inspire you
I am humble in what i do
I Greet with a hand shake on all people I meet
I stand strong on your own Beliefs I do not back down them
How do you get the best out of someone it not Through control as most Doms think for me it’s about knowing her so well and teaching her how to be a better person
And giving her the tools she needs to grow
To be the best Master you must be in control of your own Thoughts 💭 Emotions body
and soul Intellect and heart when you have them you will be able to lead by Example
What do we do to Inspire each other on here I do it with my pics and with my writings and by running a learning group of BDSM on here
Ask you self if anyone tells you there are a Master
what do they do to show there are ??
Ask him what rules does he live by
My rules are clear and Simple for my self on
Who I want to be and how I Conduct my self in my life
1 be true to your self
2 Respect goes a long way
3 Manners is a must
4 Self respect
5 Protect your heart
6.Talk from your heart not always from the brain
7.Think what you say before you Engage
Your mouth
Honesty is a big one
Loyalty
10 Self control
I sure there are many more
These are my rules I bring to a sub
Respect is earned, not forced.
Breaking a hard limit is never acceptable.
Until control is transferred, there is no right to control.
Master must never punish when angry. The punishment should fit the crime.
Master is responsible for slave's health (physical and
mental), but They are not slave's therapist.
After administering punishment Master may follow up with
tenderness for the sub. It's not a sign of weakness to be loving
and kind.
slave's needs come before Master's wants and pleasures.
Master cannot change the rules without prior consent.
Respect and trustworthiness is required from Master towards slave.
Master may give rewards when earned.
If slave asks to be released Master must let them go, unless
you have negotiated termination requirements in your
Contract (e.g. counseling before ending the relationship).
slave's family, profession and every other aspect of their
life are off limits unless expressly agreed to otherwise.
13.slave is never allowed to be sold or leased (unless slave
has expressly given permission beforehand).
14.As a Master, I understand that I am not immune to making
mistakes; even I am human. It's how I deal with those mistakes
that makes Me a good human.
Being deceitful is never acceptable.
16.Above all else a Master Cherishes The slave/submissive, in the knowledge that the Gift the slave/submissive
Gives Them is the Greatest Gift of all.
17.A Master is Demanding & takes full advantage of the power Given to Them, but Knows how to Share the Pleasure
that comes from that Precious Gift.
18.A Master is in Control of Themself First & Foremost, so that They may Control others.
As a Stern & Demanding Master, They can cause Their slave/submissive to Cry real tears.
19.As the Consummate
Lover, They will then Kiss the tears away, Without stepping out of character.
20.In times of Trouble, a Master will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive Friend & Partner, Never forgetting that
this is still a Loving Relationship between Two caring Individuals.
21.A Master is quick to Understand the Differences between Fantasy & Reality. A Master would Never ask a
slave/submissive to put Them before their Career, or Family, just to satisfy Their own pleasure.
22.A Master must always show them that Their Guidance & Tutoring is Knowledgeable & Deserving of their attention,
that This is a Person they can Learn from, & that they can Trust Their Direction.
23.A Master is Romantic enough to be Protective and Chivalrous. When called upon, They will Fight for Their
slaves/submissive's Honnor
A Master proves to their slave/submissive that They are Someone they can Lean on,
& Depend on.
25.When it comes time to Teach Their slave/submissive their lessons of obedience, The rules of Engagement will outlined and will be talked over with slave/submissive
26.Never does a Master use Discipline without a Good Reason. When They do punish Their slave/submissive, it is
always with a Knowledgeable and Careful hand.
27.A Master is Always Open to Communication & Discussion; Always Ready to Hear Their submissive's wants & needs.
28.A Master is Patient; taking time to Learn Their slave/submissive's Limits, & knowing that as their Trust of Them
Grows, so will they.
29.A Master Never has to demand ritual behavior from Their slave/submissive. Their slave/submissive responds to
Them out of the Want of Pleasing Them. Compliance comes from the Wanting to please, Not the Fear of Punishment.
30.A Master Understands the Fragile nature of Mind & Body & Never violates the Trust Given to Them.
31.A Master is Secure enough to Laugh at Themself & the Absurdities of Life. Open Minded enough to Learn new things.
Strong enough to Grow.
32.A Master's tools are Mind, Body, Spirit, Soul, & Love.
33.A Master Understands what Each other puts in
34. To win a slave/Submissive Mind, body, soul, Spirit and love a Master Know there must first win the trust in them
35. The Master will show the slave/submissive Humour, Kindness and warmth.