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A scent of Woman

A scent of a Women

To smell a women inter scent

To me is one of the greatest gifts ?

When a women gets wet over you and leaves it in her kickers for you to smell

Or hands you them her self when you may not be Expecting it

The inner thought ? of her thinking sexual things of what you do to her is a powerful thing in a mind

But to smell and taste her is the start of what
Desires she and you have for each other

Can we beat what plays on our minds

To take it to her to show her what she wants

How do you Seduce

How do we set the mood before you do anything

The art of Seduction can be fun in so many ways

To be Stirred not shaken

To be give the the thoughts ? of what she Desires is a powerful Image in her mine

As long as you know what she wants and read the book of her sexual Desires and you can meet them and make them true

You may have the best lover you will ever have in your life

We know women can use there body’s to show us what we want

But how do we as Men,Doms,Masters

Show our ladies the art of Seduction

Do we use the mind as sexual tool to bring her to beg for it

Where does it start and how do we make it right for her

This is my way on how I set the mood

For me it come from deep inner place inside of me to show her what Conversation can do

And where do I start this first we must set the mood in her head

All I do is Whisper one word in her ear

Tonight

She will know what the inner thoughts will come with that

This will set the mood for her to know what I will be doing to her tonight

This is my way on how I set the mood

On the bed will be a Dress a pear of kickers and bra of my choice what I want to see her in and a pair of ? placed at the end of the bed

A note will be left to say to be out in the lounge at Certain time

This is my way on how I set the mood

The booking will be set for dinner at her Favourite restaurant

The wine will be on ice the lights will be on low ready for us to Arrive home put her favourite music on hold for when you get home

The booking will be set for dinner at her Favourite restaurant

Sitting the home coming mood is important as much as the dinner and wine and Restaurant

To make her wanted and to feel loved

Mind fuck her get her to want you get the Juices flowing

As you set off in the car to thr Restaurant as you tell her how Beautiful she is

And what a Good Girl she’s been ?

You tell her how Beautiful she is as you run your hand up her Thigh but not to Touch her Sexually

As this she will know what inner sexual Desires will flood Through her mind and body of what she will maybe Expecting tonight

As you drive her to her favourite Restaurant

You tell her of noting you have planned for the night

As you to get to Restaurant you get out of the car and go and open the door and take her hand as you look into her eyes as you walk inside and say are you Ready for a good night

How to to Seduce her over a dinner table you want to unwind her inner sexual Desires in the things you will say

As you dive deep into her mind Exploring fantasy as she sits and wants it

As you sit over the dinner table and Exchange Beautiful conversation of how lovely she looks and how much you want her

As you look in to eyes and see the passion for her as you look deep into he soul and mind holding one hand as you reach over and give her a kiss on the hand

Know how wild it will be as soon as you get home

As you undress her in your mind she will want more and more as the time goes by over the wine and food and take to the dance floor and pull her in close

To Pull her so close to you as you bite her neck so slow not to leave a mark as you grab her ass

Tell her you own her

As you Whisper in your ear Let’s get the
FUCK out of here

As you run your fingers down her spine on
The the way out the door to the car

You walk to to the car with your her arm under yours as you open the car door for her and slap her ass as you Whisper can’t wait to get you home

As you drive her home you know what thoughts are going Through your head as you tell her to remove her underwear

As you pull into the drive she drops her kickers in your lap with that smile on her face you go into the house when the mood is set for a night of passion

As you put the Music on and pour her a glass of wine as you pull her close as you move slow to the music as you kiss her so deep as you unzip the back of her dress so she may slip out of it

Remember it about the Seduction of having her fully before you give your self to her as passion runs high you can feel the fire in her eyes for you and her body will tell you

But never to give it to her right way make her beg for you

As the night moves along

She becomes all you want and Desire

And she gives every thing in return
2 years ago. April 25, 2022 at 6:42 AM

JOURNAL ENTRY · 3 MIN READ
To be a Master
What does it take to be a Master ??

We talk about what it takes to be a Master but how many of us have what it takes on

Let me give my out look on what it takes me to be a Master.

First of all it all about the Respect and Manners of a todays Man in this world we live in the understanding of what makes you who you are and what you doing to showing people you are one

The big part for me is

Man will tell
The Dom will Explain
The Master will Tell them Explain but the big difference is he will Inspire you to try it or to do it for your self

Me as a Master wants to Inspire not just me but all the people around me to be a learner to have the power to Inspire you

I am humble in what i do

I Greet with a hand shake on all people I meet

I stand strong on your own Beliefs I do not back down them

How do you get the best out of someone it not Through control as most Doms think for me it’s about knowing her so well and teaching her how to be a better person
And giving her the tools she needs to grow

To be the best Master you must be in control of your own Thoughts 💭 Emotions body
and soul Intellect and heart when you have them you will be able to lead by Example

What do we do to Inspire each other on here I do it with my pics and with my writings and by running a learning group of BDSM on here

Ask you self if anyone tells you there are a Master

what do they do to show there are ??

Ask him what rules does he live by
My rules are clear and Simple for my self on
Who I want to be and how I Conduct my self in my life

1 be true to your self

2 Respect goes a long way

3 Manners is a must

4 Self respect

5 Protect your heart

6.Talk from your heart not always from the brain

7.Think what you say before you Engage
Your mouth

Honesty is a big one
Loyalty
10 Self control

I sure there are many more

These are my rules I bring to a sub

Respect is earned, not forced.
Breaking a hard limit is never acceptable.
Until control is transferred, there is no right to control.
Master must never punish when angry. The punishment should fit the crime.
Master is responsible for slave's health (physical and
mental), but They are not slave's therapist.
After administering punishment Master may follow up with
tenderness for the sub. It's not a sign of weakness to be loving
and kind.
slave's needs come before Master's wants and pleasures.
Master cannot change the rules without prior consent.
Respect and trustworthiness is required from Master towards slave.
Master may give rewards when earned.
If slave asks to be released Master must let them go, unless
you have negotiated termination requirements in your
Contract (e.g. counseling before ending the relationship).
slave's family, profession and every other aspect of their
life are off limits unless expressly agreed to otherwise.
13.slave is never allowed to be sold or leased (unless slave
has expressly given permission beforehand).

14.As a Master, I understand that I am not immune to making
mistakes; even I am human. It's how I deal with those mistakes
that makes Me a good human.

Being deceitful is never acceptable.
16.Above all else a Master Cherishes The slave/submissive, in the knowledge that the Gift the slave/submissive
Gives Them is the Greatest Gift of all.

17.A Master is Demanding & takes full advantage of the power Given to Them, but Knows how to Share the Pleasure
that comes from that Precious Gift.

18.A Master is in Control of Themself First & Foremost, so that They may Control others.
As a Stern & Demanding Master, They can cause Their slave/submissive to Cry real tears.

19.As the Consummate
Lover, They will then Kiss the tears away, Without stepping out of character.

20.In times of Trouble, a Master will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive Friend & Partner, Never forgetting that
this is still a Loving Relationship between Two caring Individuals.

21.A Master is quick to Understand the Differences between Fantasy & Reality. A Master would Never ask a
slave/submissive to put Them before their Career, or Family, just to satisfy Their own pleasure.

22.A Master must always show them that Their Guidance & Tutoring is Knowledgeable & Deserving of their attention,
that This is a Person they can Learn from, & that they can Trust Their Direction.

23.A Master is Romantic enough to be Protective and Chivalrous. When called upon, They will Fight for Their
slaves/submissive's Honnor

A Master proves to their slave/submissive that They are Someone they can Lean on,
& Depend on.
25.When it comes time to Teach Their slave/submissive their lessons of obedience, The rules of Engagement will outlined and will be talked over with slave/submissive

26.Never does a Master use Discipline without a Good Reason. When They do punish Their slave/submissive, it is
always with a Knowledgeable and Careful hand.

27.A Master is Always Open to Communication & Discussion; Always Ready to Hear Their submissive's wants & needs.

28.A Master is Patient; taking time to Learn Their slave/submissive's Limits, & knowing that as their Trust of Them
Grows, so will they.

29.A Master Never has to demand ritual behavior from Their slave/submissive. Their slave/submissive responds to
Them out of the Want of Pleasing Them. Compliance comes from the Wanting to please, Not the Fear of Punishment.

30.A Master Understands the Fragile nature of Mind & Body & Never violates the Trust Given to Them.

31.A Master is Secure enough to Laugh at Themself & the Absurdities of Life. Open Minded enough to Learn new things.
Strong enough to Grow.

32.A Master's tools are Mind, Body, Spirit, Soul, & Love.

33.A Master Understands what Each other puts in

34. To win a slave/Submissive Mind, body, soul, Spirit and love a Master Know there must first win the trust in them


35. The Master will show the slave/submissive Humour, Kindness and warmth.

2 years ago. April 25, 2022 at 1:15 AM

SLUT
The name Slut why is it so used on here
And why do I want to to find my Slut
When she not a Slut in my eyes she would
Be adore and would be so loved ❤️ Her with all of my heart and soul

I ask a lot of people how far would you go for a sub or women you love so much as the Measures of what and how far would you go for that women you see as she call her self a slut for you

Who you see so strong in your eyes and so Beautiful inside and out as she calls her self a slut in your eyes to say take me 24/7 to do with what you wish

It shows me other way of how a women can fully submit her love to a man with giving her self a name that some women see it Degrees
Them if called it

The name Slut can be used as a Insult to many people in the world but the word on here is used to say I am His slut but what she is to us and what she wants to be for us
The devotion to giving us what we want is so much of his her body to do what we want to do to her

I find the word my self as very Unattractive word to say but what it means to me if she says she’s one is her body belongs to me to to use anytime I see fit

I Do not say the world out right as I find it hard to call any woman I love a slut but if she calls he self one I can Except it

There are a lot of Insults in the world of many names we use or people call them selfs when of today the name we bare my be once Upon a time would never to be used

I see of today what is more less manners of what we say and do is become less Disrespectful to some but I ask this is the swear words we use become more Common
In how way we talk to each other or are we just become a race of all words to be Excepted as I see so many pass them out like it does not care of what we say to each other

Where I told to speak of manners and do not use Swear words as the Generations grow the more swear words I hear

But this it only my point of view
I ask where does the Respect and manners of what we say to each other stand into days world ???
 

 

2 years ago. April 18, 2022 at 6:15 AM

Been Broken or have a lost soul


Have a broken heart and broken soul can be one of the hardest things to get over
Not bern able to Trust or know who to believe in and you can be hard person to love but I say no one is not untouchable it takes a special soul to get inside of you and he will find his way in and he will teach you again how to love and trust and he will put back the things that are missing from you and put that smile on your face again you will see the light that’s been turn off for so long

He will Patient and hold you in your times of need he will be strong in the times you yell and fight of what going on inside your head and when you push him away he will not run
but most of all he will not walk alway from the love he sees in you
we all have big hearts but some are little harder to see

He will stand by you and he will Support you
In all you do and on the times when you break down he will be the one who’s there

I am a Dom frist for a sub in her time when she needs that Discipline the Structure of what a Dom should be showing you my Dom side comes with rules not for me but for her to show her what she needs to keep her self safe inside her own self to show her what she needs to be strong I put a subs needs at a higher place of my own to keep her safe and making sure she is happy with in her own self it takes time to build on something that can torn down in seconds by others

It comes down to what she wants for her own self to keep safe as I work on her being the best she can be the role of a Dom is to give her what she needs the Strength is already in her but the power is hers but the control is mine

I work on the keys Opponents

Trust
Commitment
Loyalty
Been hers
Not giving up
Keeping her self
Making sure she feels safe

I sure there’s lots more you can add to the list

We as Doms can only give what a sub is wiling to take she has the power to stop it at any time as long as you stay in her Boundaries you will only be doing what’s right for her

Why do I need to Discipline

It to show her she can’t just get way with bad Behaviour but we must see where it coming from is coming form Anger
Or Disappointment or Frustration of what’s going on inside her head and if she been broken or hurt or feels like there something wrong inside her we can not Discipline her for that
The act she carry’s out can be told it not Acceptable and can be Punished

But what’s going on inside her head that is the real cause of what need to be Discussed to be a Master to her is to get inside of her head to find why she is broken and what her soul and mind are going through

The Strength of me to show her it’s not the Behaviour she shows when she knows it not ok I stand clear on what is Acceptable and not Acceptable

When is it the time to talk and get her to open up is when she is most clam not of the time when she’s yelling or feeling the the pain of what’s going on inside her own self

We must take the time to give her mind time to feel at ease this can be after a light play Session to make her feel so Relaxed
A Sensual massage or light wax play on here can make her feel at ease or a hot bath

Any way can work as long as she’s feels like her mind is at ease

Then it my time to show her the Master in me to Guide her to be strong and let out what’s going on inside her mind it’s time I must show her she can fully trust me in what she says to me

To be open and let go of the hurt and Anger that plays on her mind

We must Encourage he to open up fully and put her Trust in us ti tell us and not to be Judged or Ridiculed or to be dismissed

It so important the times she tells you things to take on board on what’s she says to understand of what’s going on for her is to open ears and just Listen

I look at it like sub care I call it mind therapy
We all need it it out time to talk and what are some of the big issues of what really going on for our subs

Does your Dom doe this ??

Ready take on board on you say it so important to give her time to talk and get out what going on inside for her how can we help her if we don’t no what’s going on for her

For me 80% Mental 20% sexual come on if you think it all about kink you NO DOM

It time to to know you sub inside of her head
So if you want to a Dom get inside he head

So subs if you want to be find a good Dom
See how well there listen test them on it tell them something if there pick it up that’s good if there don’t and your have to repeat it
You know you going to have trouble

But there is someone out there for all of us to put back what we lost yes not aways easy to find that special someone as so many have lost souls only hoping one day to meet that special someone

But why you wait it time to work on your self to build your own Strength up so when they’re come long you are ready for them

It’s time to do the hard work on your own self and emotions find your own happy place
Inside your self and heal

Yes people can break us and do the most Horrible things to us but we can grow and become stronger its up to you to take what there done and say I am strong and I will not let this pull me down or let this keep happing
I hear of women who stay in relationships with men who not good for them
As there think there is nothing else out there for them I say it time to open your eyes and look for a better way for life for you

No one should stay in a relationship if it not working or if it Abusive there are so many people who just put up with what there have and Notting will change of what there go through

You must find your own inner Strength to stop it from let you be who you want
It time to stand up and say enough is enough and love your self for who you are
The more love you give your self the more people will see it and you will pull in the people who will like you

It’s like Karma the more you put out of hood vibes the vibes will come back to you yes it not easy and you make me kick down again but never give up it like if you full of the horse ger back right on

Life can be hard but it can be good if you willing to work on it

The ones who just sit and do noting and Complain get know where the one who work on what there want rise and become who there want

Who we are as Individuals lies in your own hands no one else can change you or make you who you want to be

We can get help and Advice From others but the work must come from with in our own selfs to better our lives

For me I come from what would say a bad childhood but I come out on top and I shown the world I come out to be a Master on my own with giving my self the tools I need to grown in side my self if you like to know what I went through have a read of my writing

Called Abandonment it’s linked to my profile
And if I can come out on top I know you everyone can

I hope this helps a few and love al your feed back on this 

come to fet GoodDom2 

2 years ago. April 16, 2022 at 7:02 AM

HOW TO LOVE A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN TO HELL

This is a writing I was given it so true

HOW TO LOVE A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN TO HELL

The woman who has been to hell and back is not easy to love.

Many have tried. Most have failed.

The weak need not attempt, for it will take more strength than you even know you possess; more patience, more resilience, more tenacity, more resolve. It requires a relentless love, one that is determined and not easily defeated.

For the woman who has been to hell and back will push you away. She will test you in her desire to know what you are made of, whether you have what it takes to weather her storm. Because she is unpredictable, at times a hurricane, a force of nature that rides on the fury of her suffering, other times a gentle rain; calm, still, quiet.

When she is the gentle rain that falls in time to her silent tears, love her.

When she is the thunder and lightning and ferocious winds that wreak havoc, love her harder.

She is a contradiction, a pendulum that will forever swing between fear of suffocation and fear of abandonment, and even she will not know how to find the balance between the two. Because today, although she will never tell you, she will feel insecure. She will want you to stay close, to tuck her hair behind her ear and kiss her on the forehead and hold her in the strength of your arms. But tomorrow she will crave her independence, her space, her solitude.

For while you have slept, she has been awake, unable to slow her thoughts, watching clocks and chasing time, trying to make the broken pieces fit, to make sense of it all, of where she fits, of how she fits. She fights her demons and slays her dragons, afraid if she goes to sleep they will gain the upper hand, afraid if she goes to sleep she will no longer be in control. Tomorrow she will be tired, and your presence will smother her, she will need only herself.

When she reaches out to you, love her.

When she pushes you away, love her harder.

New situations will make her anxious, new places, new people, new experiences. She will be fiercely independent and long to overcome her fears, all the while as terrified as a small child alone in the big world. Sometimes she will need to be courageous, to prove to herself she has what it takes. Other times she will need you to take her hand and hold it firmly in yours. Sometimes she may not know what she needs, and you will need to read her like a book with worn pages and a tattered spine and be what she needs when she does not know herself.

When she is brave and steps into the world on her own, love her.

When she is scared but refuses to take your hand, love her harder.

She will live in fear of not being enough and always being too much, an endless battle to find the middle ground, ashamed if the scale falls one way or the other, ashamed to be herself for no one has ever loved her both when she is small and also when she is tremendous.

When she feels too much, love her.

When she feels not enough, love her harder.

She will sometimes not hurt and the light will shine from her eyes and her laughter will be a rare and precious melody. But sometimes she will hurt so much from the trauma still in her body, she will feel pain, she will ache, she will anguish, the light will grow dim and the music will fade.

When she is the light, love her.

When she is the darkness, love her harder.

She will always love you with caution, with one foot out the door. For she does not understand a love with no conditions, one that is powerful enough to withstand hard times. She cannot allow herself to fully trust in your love, and she will keep parts of her heart hidden, the parts that have been hurt the most, the parts she can’t risk being hurt again when she has worked so hard to stitch them together.

She will always watch, wait and expect you to leave first. And when you don’t, she has a truth written upon her heart that says you will, it’s only a matter of time, for everyone who loves her leaves her, hurts her. And so she will seek to sabotage the relationship; she will seek to destroy it, she will seek to leave first, she will seek to hurt you before you can hurt her. This is how she stays in control, this is how she survives, how she will ensure she will not get hurt again.

When she wants to love you, love her.

When she wants to hurt you, love her harder.

Being out of control terrifies her. Don’t ever make her feel powerless, trapped, or without her freedom. She needs to dance barefoot under enormous blue skies, to feel sand between her toes, to run with wolves as the wind weaves magic through her hair, for here is where her healing is found. Never clip her wings, for if she has the freedom to fly, she will always come back to you.

Love her when it’s easy, and love her harder when it’s not.

Love her in a way that will defy all she has ever known love to be.

Love her because you understand with every damn fibre of your soul the gift of her love, what it has cost her to offer you her fragile heart.

She does not need you. She has chosen you.

You, because you have what it takes to survive the storm.

You, because even when she doesn’t know how to love, you know how to love harder.

2 years ago. April 16, 2022 at 6:51 AM

Shout Out
Lights out, lights out on every street
It's like God turned a switch on us
As we stand in Dark of the nightmare of what’s playing inside our mind
As i see only what we don’t want to hear or see the Violent acts been play on me
Telling me what’s going on inside of me
Shout out, shout out for someone to hear
But no can hear me
There's nobody left but the mind of me your mind and chaos fight to make sense of
What’s going on
Hold tight, hold tight to memories of what once i only have left to hold onto
Oh my, it's so hard to let it go of what I had to slip back into the dark place of life
Shout out, shout out for someone to hear
There's nobody left but the me to fight what’s going on inside of me
Oh Lord I want someone her what going on inside my head
What if we can say that we made it? To my happy place
Oh, no
Nothing there was broken and wasted the mind was silenced
Oh what a place that would be
Oh, no
We were all caught in the crossfire of life
And no one to know who we I am
And everyone was starting to wait for that special someone to come into there life
I am just waiting for a change but
Dark clouds, dark clouds in every sky
I stand in rain and only hear the Thunder of what going inside our mind
Dark thoughts 💭 running through the head
I run fast towards the light for hoping there be someone there
You say, theres someone special out there for me
As I just like a happy life not asking for to much am I
All those years I spent alone on my own
There must be life after tragedy
Shout out, shout out for someone to hear
But there's nothing left but the memory
Oh Lord
Where is my happy place I scream out
Where
Nothing there was broken or nor the fear of there was something wrong and I had that Peace inside my heart and mind and the Chaos was gone
Oh, no
I was caught in the crossfire from the people who would bring there Violence out to show me there was no love to be given
And everyone was starting to look Dark to me and standing in the Shadows but could not do anything to help me
As I could not shout out what going on in side my head
I just waiting for a change to let out what’s going on inside of me
As I just waiting for the Nightmare to end
What if this is not our fate I ask my self
And we still have the time? To make a life of my own
To find out where our happy place is
And what if everybody stood with arm in arm to fight together? To stop the Violence
To make this world a better place so I could let out what’s inside my head
It’s time to find my happy place
Where the music plays happy songs
I going to hold on
For the rest of days
Here I go again on my own
Where there know place I can find my happy home
Lost I inside my head with the mind not
Been Silenced
With out that someone by my side
It like am a Drifter walking on my own trying ti find out who I am
Trying to find that someone to shout out to
But as I turn my head
To only to shut my eyes to try and stop
The Chaos inside my head
How does someone love you
With so much Chaos inside you
Not knowing how to stop it
We all fight our own Demons inside us

2 years ago. April 7, 2022 at 12:56 AM


Caught in a bad romances

Caught in a bad romance
Want your bad romance
I want your ugly, I want your disease
I want your everything as long as it's free
I want your love
I want your drama, the touch of your hand
I want tied up on the floor
I want see you soul asking for more
I want to feel my self inside of you
I want your leather-studded kiss in the sand
I want your love to have no end
You know that I want you
Is to Dom you over my knee
And you know that I need you
I want it bad
Your bad romance inside of me
I want your love, and I want your revenge
You and me could write a bad romance
As I Throw you on the bed
I want to have you with no Mercy
I want you to feel all my tools
To no you belong to me
To feel your Restrained
So you no you not going know where
I want to see the Bruises I give to you
Caught in a bad romance
Want your bad romance to bring out the brat on you
I want your horror, I want your design of BDSM
Cause you're a criminal as long as you're mine
I want your psycho, your vertigo shtick
Want you in my in my head baby, you're sick bad romance
And I want it all
I want to feel you in my arms
And you know that I need you ('cause I'm a free boy as you can see
I want to work you inside out
Work it I want to sere the bat crazy bitch inside of you
To come out
I want you on gaged on
The floor with your eyes looking into mine
As I take what is mine
So make some Noise
And shut down your mind

2 years ago. April 6, 2022 at 9:10 AM

Caught in a bad romances

Caught in a bad romance
Want your bad romance
I want your ugly, I want your disease
I want your everything as long as it's free
I want your love
I want your drama, the touch of your hand
I want tied up on the floor
I want see you soul asking for more
I want to feel my self inside of you
I want your leather-studded kiss in the sand
I want your love to have no end
You know that I want you
Is to Dom you over my knee
And you know that I need you
I want it bad
Your bad romance inside of me
I want your love, and I want your revenge
You and me could write a bad romance
As I Throw you on the bed
I want to have you with no Mercy
I want you to feel all my tools
To no you belong to me
To feel your Restrained
So you no you not going know where
I want to see the Bruises I give to you
Caught in a bad romance
Want your bad romance to bring out the brat on you
I want your horror, I want your design of BDSM
Cause you're a criminal as long as you're mine
I want your psycho, your vertigo shtick
Want you in my in my head baby, you're sick bad romance
And I want it all
I want to feel you in my arms
And you know that I need you ('cause I'm a free boy as you can see
I want to work you inside out
Work it I want to sere the bat crazy bitch inside of you
To come out
I want you on gaged on
The floor with your eyes looking into mine
As I take what is mine
So make some Noise
And shut down your mind

2 years ago. April 3, 2022 at 5:19 AM

Wedding Ring or a Collar
I have give both In my time but what do we get out of them what’s true difference Between them

If we look at what goes with them yes there both Meaningful and come with love and Respect but how Different are there on what you get out of them

For me let’s look at the wedding ring first

What does just it stand for when I put that on a women’s finger it does not mean I own her or does it mean to tell her what to do
It means I see her as my Equal

She will support me as I support her but how does it look like been married in each other eyes i ask you ??

As I have a given a lot been married in my own mind heart and soul but what was lacking in it I ask my self

A Vanilla relationship was the Depth of knowing and understanding of what was missing as I did not need to know every thing what was going on inside my wife’s head each day and I would wait for her ti come ti me with her problems

I did I have the right to tell her what to do I could Advise on what we could do to make her life better but in the Vanilla relationship you dint have the same Responsibilities in looking after your Spouse i fell like the connection was different on the way I look after my wife it was more doing stuff stuff around the house lawns and helping out with the kids and not so much getting into her head trying to help make her grow as you would with a sub mind

I not say everyone like this with there wife’s but I felt like my Dom side could not shine
I felt always there was some missing a deep part of my was shut down

Do we as husbands have the same Connection as with a Vanilla wife as we have our subs i ask this question as it hit over time and time again inside my life that drove me to leaving her

What was missing that my wife could not give me what only a sub could as lots tell me there can’t go back to a Vanilla relationship but I ask why that is is just because of the kink Lifestyle or it it become a Dom looks and owns on what you do in your life

I always say to people we are like cake looks great on the out side with all the Thrills and colour of it could just bite into it but it going to have Flavour we all had a bad cake looks so yammy but taste like shit

It’s like the Substance of what we are looking for in a person but most jump in
On what on the out side to no fully getting my see the Substance of the cake

So let me ask you what do you see the difference between a wedding ring and a collar

Witch one ate you going to chose ??

Can you Define between both ??

For me it’s look at what I give when I give out a collar I not just going to own you I going to be all you need in side your head

I going to be reading your Journal to see what’s going on inside your head

I will be more in touch of the Emotional side of you your well-being but I will be in Charge
Of all of you to guild you to keep you safe
To make sure you doing what you told
To have have the full Understanding of what I do and how I take care of you

To me it like a full time job to make sure you getting what you need from my collar and how important it is ti me you not just wearing it is a Symbol of our Relationship for our love for each other it go past and other thing in our lives and I will die to Protect you

And I see the wedding ring more of Status
To say yes she taken and she will carry my last name but I ask how many Marriages fail
If you look at collar Relationships I sure there out way on who says togetter longer the Master who put so much more into his relationship or a Vanilla man who will more like to cheat not saying all men cheat

I just like to know why we don’t put more Effort into Promoting what the collar has to offer a relationship in the D/s

And how important it is to be that man for your sub/ slave

Where I here women talk about fake men like a bad cake or women not meeting the Standards of what is a true sub should be like

I see and her a lot of people on here and yes we all different and want different things that’s all good but when you say you are something you not that’s not so great

And when it come to a wedding ring and wedding we can spend millions

Do we spend millions on a the day you get Collard when I say most would take a collor over a wedding ring

But I could be wrong

I love some feed back on all of this love your foughts if you been married and now have a collar

Tell me what your thoughts 💭 are on it all

2 years ago. April 1, 2022 at 8:57 AM

BAD DAY


Where is the moment we needed the most?

You kick up the leaves, and the magic is lost

Does anyone get what you need

They tell me your blue sky's faded to gray

They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carrying on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low

You're faking a smile with the coffee to go

You tell me your life's been way off line

You're falling to pieces every time

And I don't need no carrying on

'Cause you had a bad day

You're taking one down

You sing a sad song just to turn it around

You say you don't know

You tell me, "don't lie"

You work at a smile, and you go for a ride to try and hide

The camera don't lie

You're coming back down, and you really don't mind

You stand on a cliff to say goodbye

You had a bad day

Well you need a blue sky holiday

The point is they laugh at what you say

Where are you to say it going to be ok

When I need you

You're coming back down and you really don't mind

Sometimes the system goes on the blink

And there Notting you can say

And the whole thing, it turns out wrong
Any way

You might not make it back and you know
That you could be well, oh, that strong
And I'm not wrong

So where is the passion when you need it the most?

What is missing ?

Someone to know you and wants your dreams ?

You turn to your inner self to find the Master of your self

She's suddenly beautiful with a mind to die for

And we all want something beautiful
Man, I wish I was beautiful you say

So come dance the silence down through the morning

And slip into my head and song a song

Believe in me
Help me believe in anything

What BDSM has to offer

'Cause I wanna be someone who believes in me

Yeah

Tell each other fairy tales

And we stare at the beautiful women

Who show them selfs on here

She's looking at you
Ah, no, no, she's looking at him

Smilin' in the bright lights
Coming through in stereo types

When everybody loves you
You can never be lonely or have a bad day

With everyone loving
You

Well, I'm gon' paint my picture
Paint myself in blue and red and black and gray

The blue of the sky the red of heart ❤️

The black Shadow and the gray of my loneliness as I sit in loneliness

All of the beautiful colors are very, very meaningful

Yeah, well, you know gray is my dis favourite colour

I felt so symbolic yesterday not knowing of my true colour

I would buy myself a gray guitar and play to play lonely love songs

Looked into the future

Yeah, we stare at the beautiful women on here and dream

Wish She's looking at you

I don't think so

She's looking at you

Said I'm never gonna be lonely

I wanna be a lion like my star sign

With the power of you inside my breath as I look deep inside my self

We all wanna be big, big stars in our own eyes

Yeah, but we got different reasons for that
Believe in me

As I look deep into eyes

'Cause I don't believe in anything

As it hard ti believe in my self

And I wanna be someone to believe, to believe, to believe in me

Stumbling through the profiles you come to believe there’s no one for you

Yeah, we stare at the beautiful women
She's perfect for you

But will she see you for who you are

Man, there's got to be somebody for me
I wanna be seen and touch by someone who will love ❤️

Staring right back at me

But we don't know why, and we don't know how

I'm wanna be just about as happy as I can be

We're gonna be big stars

What she says

As you look into what BDSM has shown you

2 years ago. March 31, 2022 at 10:45 PM

Women’s Mind


As I look more inti a women’s mind for Pleasure yes her body is good to see yes
But it like the old say any man can fuck you but how many men mind fuck you

How many Capture your mind and give you a deeper thoughts 💭 on them
And where does your lust come from whar do you think about

A body can only take you so far of what your Hormones want but a mind of a lady you like can blow mind fuck you out of this world

I love ❤️ Interacting with the mind of a lady ti see how far I can get inside her head I Learnt it do important to build on her ti give her the thoughts 💭 of me inside her head

It like the mind tells us so much about you and who you are ti know me you will never see my cock first before you see inside my mind feel me no me want me as I have a a mind worth Discovering

You as a woman or a lady or a sub or what ever name you go by must want that deep connection that deep mind fuck that make you keep wanting that person inside him

As I want to know more about you then your tits ass and Pusssy I want to know the mind fuck I will you I want to feel the Fireworks going off inside your head

Most say there can’t find what there are looking for on here but ask your self why you can’t it it as he’s not Capturing you mind

Or it the deep connection of what old school is teaching you of that it starts in the mind and it grows in the mind and becomes a deep connection

Where does it start for you when you see him or her nude or pics of that person in there profile that’s lust what will not stay around

Over the years the best subs ti me are the ones minds are open and ready to Embrace
The understanding of what the mind fuck is and how to fully get inside each others minds

The full understanding of how and what the mind is and how to get inside it and make her see you are inside her head not just in her holes

We as people should be Embracing in the mind do you remember when there was no net or way of seeing pics we would spend hours on a phone talking and getting the mind fuck we most needed and to look deep into the other Persons mind

We need to do more of the talking and less of the looking to find that true person we could have a deep connection with

Is phone sex the same as you used to do it in your past with the naught txts messages and the way you could flirt thought a message then a pic what is more sexy the message that sits Inside your mind making you think or a pic what’s just a Image

I think it time we looked more into the mind for that blow minding thoughts 💭 of that person we wish to make a deep connection with and you will see the connection grow and become so strong and feel the Dom the sub in that person

I long for it and I want the mind fuck not a sub who will open her mind fully not just her legs

What are you thoughts 💭 on all of this
Love to know