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Welcome to my Fantasy Zone! I want to share my experiences and anything else I would like . I hope to continue my journey where I learn, grow, and develop connections.
1 week ago. March 20, 2024 at 2:39 AM


I am a soft dom and still learning. I’m not into things such as humiliating, degrading, or inflicting pain. I hope and envision this relationship to be a safe environment built on communication and trust, to learn and grow all while controlling with a gentle approach.

The dynamic that I envision and aim to achieve is one where a beefy muscled man is controlled by his small soft dom. He acts as a protector for his dom all why being doing his best to please his dom.

2 months ago. January 20, 2024 at 6:13 AM


In March 2021, I was in an online m/s relationship. This was my first real experience as I was inexperienced, but read up on a lot of things to have some knowledge. He was a muscular build male and what he wanted was a master to control his workouts, and body growth( becoming the desired appearance of what the master wanted). He was inexperienced as well and I never had the best luck finding anyone online until I met him.

We talked everything out before starting anything, so we were becoming more comfortable with each other. Involving his growth, I wanted him to become a more beefy build. He showed me that he was committed to our relationship because he altered his workout routine and diet to accommodate what I wanted him to be. Our way of communicating with one another was through kik. Eventually, we both had the idea of placing all of the tasks, rules, and other information somewhere else. For as we talk on kik, the information would get lost and it would be endless scrolling to retrieve it again. I began searching for apps that could suit our relationship, and that is when I stumbled upon an app called Obedience on the App Store. I am sure people are aware of this more than I am. It is an app designed for BDSM. We placed all of the important information in the desired tabs, along with creating habits/tasks for my slave. Sadly due to becoming busier with work, he wasn’t able to continue. He opened my eyes more and expanded more things for me than not I even knew. I never had someone serious and committed, which motivated me as well. I usually have rough experiences finding someone online, but he was the first real slave that I ever had. Our connection was genuine and I hope to continue my journey by creating new experiences just like this one.

2 months ago. January 3, 2024 at 5:14 AM

When I discovered BDSM I was very fascinated by it. I wasn’t sure if I would be a dom, sub, or even a switch due to my personality. That can change of course.

I took an interest in the dom role, but there were some things that I didn’t like which were the pain, humiliating, and degrading factors. Being a gay male, those factors tend to be very common from what I see. That doesn’t reflect who I am as an individual, and I don’t want to put on a persona of any sort. I want to take a gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible. Encouraging, understanding, growth, empathy, and trust from both sides. I don’t have much experience as it can be difficult to find potential people. But I hope to learn and develop into the soft dom that I want to be.