risingflower

dom male

Single

I am a 23-year-old black male and a recent college graduate earning my bachelor’s degree. Appearance I am 5’8 weigh around 128lbs with a slim/athletic build. I am an introvert (INFP-T personality type) and shy, but as you talk with me I open up. I enjoy playing video games and going walking. Some of my favorite game franchises are Sonic, Pokémon, Bayonetta, and Spyro. I also have found an interest in fighting games and have been enjoying it. Other things I enjoy are anime, art, and anything technology-related.

Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. When I discovered BDSM I was very fascinated by it. I wasn’t sure if I would be a dom, sub, or even a switch due to my personality. That can change of course. I took an interest in the dom role, but there were some things that I didn’t like which were the pain, humiliating, and degrading factors. That doesn’t reflect who I am as an individual, and I don’t want to put on a persona of any sort. This is where I considered myself being a “Soft Dom/Master”. I want to take a gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible. I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. Encouraging, understanding, growth, and empathy from both sides and creating positive experiences. I don’t have much experience as it can be difficult to find potential people. But I hope to learn and develop into the soft dom that I want to be.



Who and What I am looking for:

The type of person or sub I’m looking for is a beefy muscular/thick build male who is a submissive top. Usually, it’s always the bigger masculine male controlling the smaller male. I’m breaking that to show that anyone regardless of how they are physically can take on the dom/master role. It’s their characteristics as mentioned before and I also like the contrast of a much stronger male being controlled by a smaller male as if the sub is protecting his master. My age range is between 23-55. I would be willing to up the age but that is just the set preference. Experience or no experience is okay with me. We’re both here to learn, aren’t we? But aside from appearance I generally hope to find other like-minded individuals.

I don’t have such high expectations of how I want this to go. I believe forming a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are what make something very successful. Creating a safe environment free of judging to be able to learn and explore what I have an interest in, as well as the respected person. I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. Mainly looking for online, but I’m open to in-person as well if we are in the same area.


Here are the kinks that Im interested in:

Kinks: cum play, cei, joi, cbt, wardrobe control, forced workouts/muscle growth, domestic servitude, total control, orgasm control/denial, milking/edging, chastity, ruined orgasms, tpe, rules, and bondage.

feminization, blood, race play, scat

Feb 19, 2024

Jun 9, 2022