risingflower

dom male

Single

I am a 25-year-old black male. I graduated from college with honors cum laude, earning a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration majoring in Business Information Systems. I am very proud in what I have accomplished, and hope to go even further in my plans to achieve my masters. I also earned my associates degree as well. I am currently working, however it’s not in my career field. I’m taking it little by little until I find something that aligns with my career goals.

I’m 5’8” and weigh around 128lbs. I have light brown skin and a slim/athletic build.

I’m an introvert and shy, but I open up when talked to. I enjoy playing video games. Some of my favorite franchises are Sonic, Pokemon, Bayonetta, Kirby, DMC, Spyro, and many more. I also play fighting games, and think I play very well. I enjoy going for walks, light exercising, anime, art, tennis, badminton, and technology-related things.

Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. When I discovered BDSM I was very fascinated by it. I wasn’t sure if I would be a dom, sub, or even a switch due to my personality. That can change of course. I took an interest in the dom role, but find certain aspects such as pain(some factors), humiliating, and degrading unappealing. Elements such as those don’t reflect who I am as an individual, and I don’t want to put on a false persona of any sort. This is where I considered myself being a “Soft Dom/Master”.

What does it mean to be a Soft Dom exactly? For me, I view the role of a soft dom to be more than just simply being in control. It’s more of being a guiding hand to hopefully bring encouragement, support, structure, and more to allow one to be their best self possible. That being as an individual and sub.

While the feeling of being in control can be empowering, it’s not truly felt when you don’t have someone that’s chooses to listen to you. Someone that actively listens to you, understands you, and wants to follow your guidance is what being in control is. This goes both ways as well.

This is what I hope to learn and achieve, and what feels empowering to me.

I want to take a gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible. I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. Encouraging, understanding, growth, and empathy from both sides and creating positive experiences. I don’t have much experience due to the challenges of finding potential partners. But I hope to learn and develop into the soft dom that I want to be.

Who and What I am looking for:

In terms of the ideal partner, I’m seeking a man with a muscular build, preferably beefy, who is submissive (submissive top). That is personally the type of men I am attracted to, body type wise. Additionally, I find it appealing when the larger , more muscular male submits to someone smaller and less physically imposing. It creates a contrast between both individuals, and gives the impression of the larger male as a knight or bodyguard protecting the dom while under his control. I would prefer a partner between the ages 25-55, but am open to slightly older or younger.

I don’t have overly high expectations of how this should unfold. I believe building a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are important factors to a successful relationship. Creating a safe environment free of judging to be able to learn and explore my interests, while respecting the others person. I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. While Im mainly looking for online connections , I’m open to in-person connections too if we reside in the same area.

Feminization, Degrading, Humiliation, Blood, Race play, Scat

Jun 9, 2022