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United States
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Slim nerdy dom looking for beefy muscled sub/slave (online)
Hi! Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. I am a fit slim built male looking for a bigger muscular male sub/slave for an online dynamic. Looking to find someone that shares similar ideas and interests, and form a connection with one another. You can view my profile to get to know me better and what I’m looking for. I hope to meet some potential people.
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About me
Hello! Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. I have been interested in bdsm for a while now. Taking the leap to further learn and explore what best suits me and more. That being said, I’m going to completely honest about who I am, open as possible, and be descriptive about what I’m looking for to find a compatible match.


I am a 22 year old male. As of now I’m currently a senior in college majoring in Business Information Systems. Appearance I am 5’8 weighing around 130lbs with a slim/athletic build. I am an introvert (INFP-T personality type) and shy, but as you talk with me I open up. I enjoy playing video games. Some of my favorite game franchises are Sonic, Pokémon, Bayonetta, and Spyro. Recently started learning fighting games more in depth, and I honestly proud of my progress The games I play are Guilty Gear Strive and Dragon Ball FighterZ. Other things I enjoy are anime, art, and anything technology related.
BDSM and me
Regarding BDSM, I am a “master/dom”. My perspective on things are different though. I personally believe that a title has to be earned. Self-assigning myself with that title doesn’t truly make me a master. That title must be earned. Being a Dom/Master is most than just being bigger, aggressive, and the demanding. It is what qualities that you present to the other person. Your honest true character that you show to the other person gives them a reason to why they choose to submit to you. I have had only one experience in an online relationship. It gave me the knowledge that true bdsm is deeper and meaningful.

Who I am looking for:

The type of person are beefy muscular/rugby/thick build men that are subtops. Usually, it’s always the bigger masculine male controlling the smaller male. I like the contrast of a much stronger male being controlled by a smaller male, as if the sub is protecting his master. All races are welcomed, and for age range to be between 22-40. Im willing to up the age but that is the set preference. Experience or no experience is okay with me. But aside from appearance I generally seek other intellectuals that understand where I’m getting at.

What I’m looking for:

I don’t have such high expectations on how I want this to go. I believe forming a connecting first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends is what makes something very successful. Creating a safe environment free of judging to be able to learn and explore what I have an interest for, as well for the respected person. I want to be able to share these feelings with another person , as we both grow. Due to living in a small area, I can only do online for now.

Everyone is different and unique in how they want a certain thing that they envision to go.

Here is my kinks and limits

Kinks: cum play, cei, joi, cbt, wardrobe control, forced workouts, domestic servitude, total control, orgasm control/denial, milking/edging, chastity, ruined orgasms, tpe, rules, and bondage.
Update date
Jun 9, 2022
Member since
Jun 9, 2022
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