Nature is a violent, brutal, beautiful, seductive mystery, isn't it? Nature is basic, vital need broken down in its purest form. It's not a want. It's deeper than that. We're talking about the core five: sleep, eat, drink, hunt, fuck.
There is only one other species that fucks for pleasure besides us, bonobo monkeys. See with us you have physical, mental, emotional attraction. Men are easy right? Just gotta get in the right position where you can see tits and ass, but men are designed this way. They are designed to get excited at what they see and want to fuck as many as possible.
Women have four different attractions. The base physical (Karl Urban, Jason Momoa, Gerard Butler). Men that melt panties with thier voice and looks, men who make you want to strip down to nothing, kneel at their feet and beg them to breed you hard. There are the men who get what you're thinking. It's almost as if you're one mind. When you move its synchronized, cordenated by an unspoken understanding. Then there are the men you lean on for emotional support. The ones that always know even before you do that you're in a bad way. He understands my need to hurt physically to reach that tender state in which I can cry. He knows when I need to cry. Then, there's the man who touches your soul. You feel him when you're alone like he's watching you. There's a deep connection inside, spiritual....
I've figured out why so many women are frustrated. They are looking for one man to fulfill all of those requirements, and there are a few who can do it all. Unfortunately, for most of us we'll find one that fits maybe two categories if we compromise on a couple of things.
Since men at thier core do things in order to get the chance to fuck. Why not have 4 or 5 different males who help you. We could find a man who embodies each,connection without the need for jealousy. Your physical guys satisfies all those raw needs. The intellectual guys that get you stimulate you on a mental level. Same for emotional and spiritual.
5 guys to every girl. Each guy gets as many women as he can attract and handle. The tinge of jealousy about who's the best or a sneaky pack waiting to take her together. Gods wouldn't that make a great living.