Tersely Pertinent

Good Morning all!

A some of you all have reached out and wanted to see why I have not blogged in awhile.   One special Domme wanted to make sure I was ok.   To be honest, I lost my groove a bit.   But things have been evening out and I thought I would do a bit of writing here.

On one of the other BDSM websites, someone asked what the most important questions is within the lifestyle.   While the answers posted ranged from "well thought out" to "rather moronic", what I think is most important wasn't listed.

In my not so humble opinion, the really important question is:

Why?

Why are you driven to this?   Why are you seeking to be owned or be an owner?   Why did you cross the threshold?

And on and on and on.

Now when I have asked this question in people in the past, they move to quickly to answer.  They really haven't looked in the mirror and asked that question to themselves.    Or, they know and refuse to identify what it is.   Drag it out of that locked chest in their mind and bring it into the light.

Or they simply do not know.   

So take some time today and grab a cuppa, sit back and look at your "why".    You don't have to tell anyone.  Just know and try to understand it.

When

You want to beat someone's ass

when you are aggravated

But 

Know you should be engaging

in play when you are

aggravated 

Hey

Hey there all!

Sorry I haven't been around all that much, but been a tad buzy in real life.    Been dealing with a spider bite on the wife and getting cats taken care of.    Also been dealing with the fuck machine, though it is almost finished and will be posting about it soon.

I just wanted to make a quick note about something I saw on here:   Someone made a podcast about 50 Shades of Grey.

Now I think it is great that someone should be talking about BDSM in literature.   There are many great books on the subject and to get those books to the forefront is a wonderful idea!

The problem is:  The 50 Shades books are not the best idea to holding up and say "Read this if you want to understand how BDSM works"

50 Shades is a badly written, poorly edited, pile of tripe that started off as Twilight fanfic.   

The best thing it has going for it was it come out in a marginally good time with some good marketing.    That's it.    It gives a bad narrative to some kinky stuff, but largely it casts a bad reflection on the lifestyle and we, as a group, have to deal with the stupid ideas those crappy books represent.     

Now I have not listened to the podcast.  However, I encourage others to do so and then form your own opinion on the subject.       

For breakfast 

No, not that kind of help...

As regular readers of this blog have seen, I am currently working on my own fuck machine.   While is it cumming along very well, I have been showing it off and came across a problem

The design is fine, it is what to put on the end of the rod to place inside someone.   I bought a dildo but it seems to be a big large:

What you are looking at is 7 inches long and I think a bit over 2 inches in girth.   All the women I have shown it to says it is too large.  One even said it hurt her cervix just looking at it.

So what do you think?

Something smaller?

If so, what size do you think?

With balls or no balls?

Please post you reply below!

Thanks!

So this came in the mail today:

I have been wanting a Fuck Machine for awhile, but didn't want drop the kind of cash everyone was asking for one.

However, looking in a toy building forum on Fet,  a guy showed this linear actuator that made work for a Fuck Machine.

After playing around with it for awhile,  I started on an Oak box to house it.

I'll post the final results later 

For sometime now, I've been interested in getting my own Fuck Machine.    

The main deal is I don't want to drop that kind of cash all at once.   I'm fairly good at building things and have given a good deal of thought on how to make one of my own.   Recently, I found a post on a Fet forum about making your own toys saying some one has taken a Linear Actuator and made a fuck machine out of it.

So after doing some research, I found a Linear Actuator with all the bells and whistles I like.   Various accouterments for attaching dildos (though I may see if I can find a way to attach a vibrator) remotes and what not.   

My main concern is thrust length.  

The unit only has a 3 inch thrust length.    Other models have adjustments for up to 6 inch, but they don't come with the bells and whistles. 

So you do you all think 3 inchs is enough?

Have you used a fuck machine, if so, what is it's thrust length?

I'm not really looking for recommendations on full built machines, just what people think is a good thrust length.

Please post your ideas below!

Thanks!