Tersely Pertinent

Awhile back, I teased you all with the workings on my latest toy project.

I finally got it all finished and thought I would see what you all thought of it!

One of my friends told me the floggers I was making were boring and needed to get a bit more creative.  So I decided to see if I could work a bit combining my love for metal with the clear rod I could get to light up.

So the start of it all was the butt end where I cut a brass tube and capped it off with a copper cap:

Then tested out the LED to make sure it would fit:

I then added the acrylic rod and screwed it to the brass and added some bling:

(the black and red tape is some batwrap.  It holds the copper cap on the brass)

Then added some bling and the handle ring to the copper:

When all that was said and done, I needed to make the topper which would hold the falls

But first, I decided the rod was too long and cut off about 2 inches

Then I cut more brass and two rings from a 1.5 inch copper connector

and screwed it on the top of the rod with some bling:

(also pictured is less complicated, plain wood handle.  The next project)

Then came the falls:

72 Hours later, you have seen the final product

It feels really good in swinging it!   I can't wait to give it a real test sometime!

Her nipples are aflame,

from the wax dripped on them

Her Arms chaff from the jute rope,

bound behind her back

Her neck is stiff from her hair, 

chained to the ceiling 

Her legs are wooden,

from the bar keeping them apart

Her cunt lips are streched, 

from the weight clamped to them

Her ass cheeks are stinging, 

from the cane marks left behind

Her soul cries,

begging again for His Touch

This post is going to be a bit different from the rest of what I usually post.   

While waiting for the glue on my latest flogger to cure, I decided to revisit something I put together awhile back, but wasn't really happy with.    Those who have visited my profile probably have seen this photo:

The stand which holds the wand is very Rube Goldberg and needs an update.   So while thinking on the replacement, I got to thinking about the primary use of it.   

Now lots of people practice edging: Bring the s type up to the point of orgasum then back off and let them cool down and do it again.   And again, and again.

But that really isn't my goal.    I want to see how many orgasums an s type can have in a row.   One after another, after another after another, before they safeword.   Course I also want to put them on a stopwatch and see how long it is before they are completely done.   

So the question becomes:  How many is too many?    Is there a safety issue?    Have people done this before and I haven't heard about it?

What do you all think? 

She drove her tongue deep inside his mouth.   Her hand pushed  the back of his head toward her, so she could taste the inside of his throat.  In turn, He pulled her hair away from him causing her tongue to slurp from between his lips.

"I won't submit to you", He told her before he bite the point of her neck where it joined her shoulder.

"I don't want your submission," She growled back at him, as she reached down to stroke his engorged member. "I want this inside me!"

"Dom Fucker" He laughed at her before biting a nipple and sliding a hand between her legs

"Domme Fucker" She moaned as She racked  His back with both sets of nails

You have a very nice set of Tits!

As requested, here is the Castle Realm Checklist

For you youngsters or those that came into the lifestyle after the turn of the century, Castle Realm was one of the early (if not the first) websites dedicated to the lifestyle.  It was originally set up as a submissive collective to get s types data they needed to know to get the most out of their role and to keep them safe.

The checklist you see below is probably the first of it's kind.   It was developed as an aid to what is now known as "Negotiations".  I don't remember what it was called back in those days, I've always referred to it as "The Dance".

There may be terms here you have never heard of before, as they have fallen to the wayside.  There may be activities you do not agree with (there is at least one I know of), but I am presenting the list as it was in those days.   Some of the terms are cringy today.   We were not as enlightened back in the mid 90s as we are today.  But in preserving the history, I decided to keep it as it was.  

Some of these terms have changed over the years: if you need definition for those days, let me know and I will provide.

Enjoy! 

Castle Realm Checklist:

24/7
Abrasion
Age play
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Anal plugs (large)
Anal plugs (small)
Anal sex
Anal Toys, Other
Animal roles
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Asphyxiation
Auctioned for charity
Bastinado
Bathroom use control
BDSM Furniture
Beastiality
Beating (hard)
Beating (soft)
Bedroom Only
Being bitten
Being serviced (sexual)
Blindfolds
Body Worship
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (light)
Bondage (multi-day)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Boot worship
Bootblacking
Branding
Breast whipping
Breast/chest bondage
Breath control
Brown showers (scat)
Cages (locked inside of)
Caning
Catheterization
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chastity belts
Chastity Play
Chauffeuring
Choking
Clamps
Clothespins
Cock worship
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Competitions (with other Subs)
Consensual Non-Consent
Corsets (wearing)
Costumes
Cuckolding
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cum Eating
Cutting
Diet Control
Dilation
Domestic service
Double penetration
Edging
Electricity
Emotional Sadism
Enemas
Enforced chastity
Examinations (physical)
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy abandonment
Fantasy gang-rape
Fantasy rape
Feathers
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Flogging
Following orders
Foot worship
Forced dressing
Forced homosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (around others)
Forced nudity (private)
Forced servitude
Full head hoods
Furry
Gags (cloth)
Gags (rubber)
Gags (tape)
Gates of Hell (male)
Genital sex
Genital Torture/CBT
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Golden showers
Guided Orgasms
Hair pulling
Hairbrush spankings
Hand jobs (giving)
Hand jobs (receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather)
Harnessing (rope)
Having clothing chosen for you
Having food chosen for you
Head (giving fellatio)
Head (receiving fellatio)
Headphones
High heel worship
High Protocol
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Hoods
Hot oils (on genitals)
Hot waxing
Housework (doing)
Human Furniture
Human puppy dog
Human Sex Toy
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Hypnotism
Ice cubes
Imprisonment
Including others
Infantilism
Initiation rites
Injections
Interrogations
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Involving Others
Kidnapping
Kissing
Kneeling
Knife Play
Leather clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehavior
Licking (non-sexual)
Live Cam
Locks
Manacles & Irons
Manicures (giving)
Massage (giving)
Massage (receiving)
Master/Slave
Medical scenes
Mind Games
Modeling for erotic photos
Mouth bits
Mummification
Name Calling
Needle/Piercing Play
Negotiations
Nipple clamps
Nipple weights
Oral Sex
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Orgasm control
Orgasm denial
Outdoor scenes
Outdoor sex
Over-the-knee spanking (OTK)
Paddling 
Panties
Penetrative sex
Pet Play
Phone Conversations
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Pictures
Piercing (permanent)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Pony slave
Prison scenes
Public Bondage
Public exposure
Punishments
Pussy worship
Religious scenes
Remote-Controlled Sex Toys
Restrictive rules on behavior
Rewards
Riding crops
Riding the 'horse' (crotch torture)
Rituals
Roleplay
Romance
Rope
Rope body harness
Rope Suspensions
Rough Sex
Rubber/Latex
Rubber/latex clothing
Ruined Orgasms
Saran wrapping
Scratching - getting
Scratching - giving
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as a maid
Serving as art
Serving as ashtray
Serving as furniture
Serving as toilet
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving orally (sexual)
Serving other Dom/mes (supervised)
Serving other Dom/mes (unsupervised)
Sexting
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Sissification
Slave Training
Sleep deprivation
Sleepsacks
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Sounding
Spandex clothing
Spanking
Speculums (Anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Spirituality
Spitting
Spreader bars
Squirting
Standing in corner
Stockings
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Strapping (full body beating)
Supplying new partners for Dom
Suspension (horizontal)
Suspension (inverted)
Suspension (upright)
Swallowing semen
Swallowing urine
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)
Tattooing
Teasing
Temperature Play
Tickling
Trampling
Triple penetration
Uniforms
Vaginal dildo
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Video (recordings of you)
Video (watching others)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Water torture
Watersports
Wax Play
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Whipping
Wooden paddles
Wrestling

I find it so utterly hilarious to find myself blocked by someone for simply liking their profile.  

Being a voyeur pervert, I liked reading people's profiles here and on Fet.  I find them windows into their world and why they find BDSM so captivating.   Sometimes it is humorous, other times it is heartbreaking.    Still other times, it is nothing but a void.

Those that I find interesting, I will like.    The profile tells me a story, good or bad.    I especially will like profiles that are well written.  To me, a like is simply a "Good job!" and I wish them well.

The chance I am going to write them a message is vanishing small.   While I have made some good friends across the world though the message system here, I don't go out of my way to message everyone.   If I do, it is to clarify something on their profile or checklist (I have a copy of the old Castle Realm checklist, which I use to test people.   You would be amazed on how well it works).  

I understand women on here need a defense from unwelcome predators and don't get upset when they use it on me.    It is their right and there is a reason the function exists.   Nor do I suggest they should give me a chance.  As I said, the chance I am going to message is small.

But really?   Blocked after a simple like?     I didn't realize I was that scary.  

As I wait for various tools and materials to arrive, I thought I would spend a moment to discuss my basic philosophy on the D/s lifestyle. 

For me, what it all boils down to is the idea that s types need to submit to someone.   They have a need to give power of themselves to someone else (for discussion purposes, I am boiling things down to a one on one relationship).  Be it mental, emotional or simply physical reasons, they find the need to turn over control to another to make themselves feel complete.  

For this to happen, there has to be somone on the other side of the collar.    Thus enters the Dominant  (yes there are other terms, but see discussion purposes above).    For most, this seems rather obvious, but sometimes the obvious is rather ignored.   After all, what good is a Dom without somone to submit to them?     Is it just a person with an ego screaming orders at a wall?

My personal philosophy is to be a real Dom, one must inspire submission, not take it.

Any fool can force, or attempt to, submission from another.   However, only a few can inspire s types to really give of themselves to another.   By building trust, though actions or discussion or being an example, can real submission be created. 

How that trust is built is another dissuasion. 

Thus Endith the Lesson 

Cumming Attractions

That telling someone to call you "Master" shows how much of a moron you really are.

and I do did enjoy his work <sigh>

https://variety.com/2025/tv/global/neil-gaiman-allegations-sexual-assault-1236272893/