TopekaDom
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Topeka, Kansas, United States
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Age
59
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
UPDATE: NOVEMBER 7, 2024

IF YOU VOTED FOR THE ORANGE DICTATOR, DO NOT CONTACT ME

EVER.





How does one encapsulate 30 or so years of D/s experience?

Can words convey the simple desire to stare into a submissive's eyes, seeking what lies deep inside?   The thoughts, the needs that rest within, seeking to burst forth.   Do I speak of my own needs of being sadistically abusive with the tools of my trade, my hands and my thoughts?

What is it that I can lure you into my world?   To see the beauty and the tears that can rain down from a submissive's eyes while she looks up from below to beg for more?    More pain, more learning, more love. 

How is it that a man of humor and moderate intelligence seeks someone who understands there is more to the lifestyle than the next orgasam?  What drives such a man to want someone who will curl up at his feet and lay her head on his knee?   Someone who will take his pain and his love and his drive to make a submissive more?

Do words tell of the pain in his heart?  Pain of teaching D/s ideals to the shadows of yeasteryear, the pain of seeing old friends disappear amd no one taking their place.   

But....

Words do have meaning.  They do have power

and they do serve a purpose.

I am now as I have always been:  Simply a man seeking companionship 

TopekaDom, or TD for short.

Come, sit by my fire and tell me of yourself and your world. 

I will be happy to listen


BDSM and me
D/s to me is not so much about capturing wayward s types, but encouraging them to cross that threshold. I tend to think of it as an Gothic Vampire who must be asked in to someone's life. Ah, but once in, I will poke and prod around to see what makes a person tick. The "Why" of how D/s works is much more important than the "How".
Limits
MAGA VOTERS:  YOU ARE NOT INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO BE WITHIN THE LIFESTYLE 
What's new
 Finding new friends and discussing the various aspects of the lifestyle.    Creating new and dangerous toys and seeking someone with the courage to test them out.   Confounding my lessors and learning from those who know more than me.    
Update date
Nov 6, 2024
Member since
Jan 18, 2023
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