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Perception

Musings from this side of the slash.
1 week ago. March 29, 2025 at 9:14 PM

(Fair disclosure... Messages on TheCage rarely do this, but every. Other. Kink. Site.)

 

What is this place? A sex app? That

is what I hear every time I object

to your unsolicited fantasies in my inbox. 

Don't you know where we are? That

is what this place is, lady. It's for fucking.

Is it? Is it just kinky Tinder, hunting

for hook ups where you can pull her hair

and spit in her face? Did we piss away

our morals and give up our knickers 

when we became subs, brats, slaves

and switches? I don't think so. To me,

the fact that I let you bind me, hurt me,

degrade me means I need to know you

more, not less. I need to be sure that

your word is your word. 

I need to know how you'll react when

you're angry. Frustrated. 

I need to know that if I say no. Stop. 

Pineapple… that you will stop. 

And here is the secret that I think 

you are missing. 

If you want me to be your slut, your whore,

to crawl or cry or beg or lick your cum

from the floor, you first need to show me

that you value me. That I matter. So

your first words to me

should be respectful. Kind. Interest me.

 

Softly, softly catchy sub.

DomOfDesire​(dom male) - You are, of course, 100% correct! Whatever role or kinks a person chooses when they decide to be submissive in a BDSM context, they are every bit as valuable as a person as any “Dominant” . And every bit as worthy and deserving of kindness, consideration and respect as anyone else.
Very telling when some so-called “Dominants” don’t understand or appreciate this….
1 week ago

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