The submissive has the power. I hear that
repeated over and over in conversation.
Everything only happens because the sub
says so. If they say stop… everything stops.
I don't disagree. This is all true. However
if the Dom says stop, everything stops.
If the Dom says it isn't happening, it isn't.
Both are there out of mutual need. One cannot
exist without the other. There is no Dominance
with out a sub to Dominate; no submission
without a Dom to submit to. We come together
in mutual need. You have a sadistic streak
that demands to be heard; I crave the wash
of pain. I want to serve, to know that I am
useful. Desired. Needed. You want to be served,
to have someone make attending to you
their whole world. I want to obey, to have rules
that make a cage I can safely exist within; you
want to be obeyed. Give and take, yin and yang.
It's symbiotic. The power exists between us.
The sub has a kill switch. Nothing more.