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1 year ago. Saturday, January 18, 2025 at 8:12 PM

Apropos of a conversation about safety. 

 

What's in a number? Its no big deal. 

If you don't like me, you can just block, 

right? The gaslighting starts right there.

Because what you're really saying, 

in that innocuous little question is:

You're over reacting. Hysterical female. 

Drama queen. Don't you trust me? No. 

Of course I don't. I don't know you. 

If i don't trust you to bind me, or blind me,  

then I don't trust you enough to give you access

to me. To my life. My privacy. The block?

What bullshit. When you have my number, 

you have my number. And I can block yours, 

but I can't block your work phone. Your

friend's phone. The phone in the bar

where you know the barman and it's cool, 

man. There are a million ways you could call, 

am i supposed to block them all? I can't. 

Don't give me your number, because 

There is a question there, too. An expectation. 

Tit for tat. My 393 for your 707. Subtle

pressure. Quiet manipulation. You don't mean

anything by it? You're a nice guy? Trust you? 

Trust me. We've heard that all before. 

 

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