To many of us, the idea of pain with our pleasure is appealing to say the least. It can be erotic, stimulating, arousing, and just plain sexy.
To an experienced dom, whipping and spanking is much much more than a person smacking the hell out someone. Its essentially a learning experience for the dom at its basic level. The dom is paying extreme attention to how the sub's body reacts to each strike. How the sub's body moves, shakes, and shutters. The dom is listening intently on the sub's breathing patterns, the sounds, moans, gasps, whimpers, and cries. Never staying in one particular place on the sub's body. Always alternating intensity of the strike in rhythm with the sub's body language. This teaches the dom just how and where the sub likes to be struck and how hard the sub likes it. Also, just as important how and where the sub does not like to be struck and the limits of the strike intensity.
An experienced dom, can turn a mere flogger into the most pleasurable implement a sub can experience. One can tease sensations over a sub's entire body bringing them to the point of orgasm with just a touch. With the same flogger, the dom can lightly swat and give the sub completely different sensations almost like a vibrator changes speeds or vibe pattern. An experienced dom can also turn that same implement into a tool of dread for the sub. An implement of punishment, that can leave long, swelled, deep red streaks that sting and burn a reminder into the sub's mind of what can happen if the dom becomes displeased.
Ive touched on the flogger in one of my previous blogs. Its a beautiful implement that can be used in pain and pleasure and anything inbetween. In the hands of an experienced dom it can be used to bring a sub to an orgasm full of extacy or it can be used to bring a sub to full discipline.
Its a skill that takes time to aquire. It comes with experience, patience, time and practice.
Thanks for reading my humble words.
